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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it possible that there actually isn't anyone out there for you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible that there actually isn't anyone out there for you? I can't imagine finding anyone who suits my needs, I rarely see anyone who I would like to date. There must come a time when you finally meet someone who is trustworthy and isn't strange, I feel like there'... (80 words)

I want to be courted but the men seem to want to go from "hi" to sex immediately!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I always get the opposite of what I want? I've always been told I should go on "more than just a few dates" before I get in a relationship. But there ARE NOT even that many dates. Men just want to go straight from hi to relationship. Or, just to the sex. If it is a ... (328 words)

Lots of issues... Younger girlfriend, torrid past, immature, we're not gelling sexually... What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

24 September 2016 (M) age 36-40 - So I'm 30 dating a 24 year old and I'm finding it very difficult in a few ways. One that bothers me is how many guys and the caliber of guys she's been with before me. Since we've been dating she has told me some stories and it raised some red flags. Sleeping with a lot of ... (517 words)

I wonder if my boyfriend is cheating, how do I know for sure?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know whether or not my boyfriend is cheating. Of course you can never really know but understanding the signs my boyfriend is presenting would be great, if any at all. I have been dating this guy for roughly 2 months and a bit; however, we use to date 7 years ... (1394 words)

May boyfriend just doesn't seem to be what I need. Do I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My brother got into a serious accident yesterday, I ran out of work to see him. It was my old car I had left for my mom to go to work. The car was demolished. I was counting on that car for income and now I'm in such financial trouble I can't sleep. I'm glad my brother is alive ... (380 words)

I feel like my trust meter is broken. How can I tell if this guy is trustworthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in the middle of a divorce. I had sworn to myself to stay out of the dating scene until at least the divorce was finalized. I even purposely stopped dressing nicely or wearing makeup in order to avoid attracting attention. My soon to be ex husband was abusive and nasty ... (242 words)

What do I wear to this event?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going to an opening of an art exhibition soon. I am not sure what to wear. I have a black dress, a grey dress, and a pink blouse that I could wear with black trousers. I also have a white bolero that I could wear with any of the outfits. Which outfit do you think would be ... (141 words)

I am never going to feel better until I perform better sexually then her ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

24 September 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok readers please help. Please be honest and blatantly straightforward. I am so tired of reading the answers that men want or NEED to hear as opposed to the real truth. Experienced women can surely help me out here. Ok, I'm a nice looking 38 year old male, 6' 1" 200lbs. I've ... (508 words)

I have a great relationship and love him but want to be single

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! First of all thanks in advance for any questions! I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and 7 months. No breaks or anything in between. We generally have the most amazing relationship. We have everything in common, I find him so interesting, out conversation la... (852 words)

Is my partner setting things up to look for a fight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner is very forgretful. He puts his phone down and forgets where and says he cant find it. Then he pushes up the stress by indirectly accusing me or someone else of taking it. Then he gets aggressive and abusive to me, telling me I get on his nerves and he has nothing t... (102 words)

Fiance lied about her age

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

24 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fiance for 2.5 years and we are legally getting married in 2 weeks. When filling out the paperwork i noticed she kept writing the wrong age. It was only a year difference but later that day she told me she us actually a year older than she tells everyone (33 ... (274 words)

I'm now feeling guilty about a one night stand. How do I get over the guilt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am about to turn 35 in a couple of weeks and 2 weeks ago I had my first one night stand. Before this I had not had sex for 3.5 years- mainly as I was busy and really focused on work but also because I needed a break from men after a string of pathetic relation... (348 words)

How do I take things to the next level without getting hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

24 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunts This is part 2 of a question i have asked here before I hooked up with this guy like 2 weeks ago and suddenly while having sex i stopped midway and left, i messaged him and clarified went wrong and he only gave me an okay, he hasn't messaged me at all in the... (226 words)