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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How long does it take somebody to get over nonstop lying, cheating & betrayal??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All!! Im praying that somebody out there will have some answers to my massive confusion in my relationship. 4 months after starting a relationship with the guy im still with currently. He proposed to me. I accepted due to being massively head over heels in love with him. Not ... (354 words)

I scared him off but I want him back...but how??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy. I knew him from high school and we were always friends with a very strong connection. He liked me but I always had a boyfriend and frankly I thought he was weird. We talked briefly in December and stopped because I was going through a tough time...In August ... (192 words)

How do I deal with him moving to the other side of the world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - the love of my life is moving back home to the other side of the world to me and I don't know how to cope with this change and the build up to him leaving. Our relationship has a terminating date. What should I do to cope with this situation? ... (50 words)

Do you think I my married lover is tiring of me? In the beginning we talked. Now he only sends a text

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this married man for 8 months now, who doesn't have sex with his wife I guess. He is 38 and I am 22. He was my first lover. He took me to his house 3 times and we never had actual sex because I said I want to remain a virgin. He used to talk to me for the ... (225 words)

Do I have to worry that I'm always the first to message "I love you"? He says it first in person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are very close, and we may be in love. We've shared a few new experiences together, and he spoils me in every way possible and for that I'm so lucky to have him. Over messaging eachother, most of the time I have been the one to start up meaningful ... (123 words)

My dad seems suspicious of me and I'm afraid he'll have my aunt restrict me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone I really need some advise.. I recently moved to a different country to study and even though I'm living my aunt, my dad keeps on calling me everyday and honestly, it's a very intensive course and sometimes I don't pick due to the fact that I finish late from... (386 words)

He caught me in a small white lie about my smoking cannabis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I told a small white lie to my boyfriend that I hadn't smoked cannabis in a while but he found out I had infact the day before but it was only a tiny bit and I didn't enjoy it anyway. When he got with me he knew I smoked and had given up for him and this was one slip up,... (308 words)

How do I help my partner become a better parent to his 8-year-old? Right now he spoils her and shares too much information about our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2925 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I help my really good man become an amazing man and father? We've been together 4 years and couldn't be closer.( or could we?) We do everything together and plan on getting married soon. There's a small nuisance and it has to do with his 8 year old daughter who li... (463 words)

Had a bad last day at work and my boyfriend just made jokes about it instead of listening. Would a good partner react this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi members. I think my boyfriend is selfish and not understanding in this situation I will write about. What do you guys think? Would a good boyfriend react this way?? It was the last day of my job today and after telling him I had a bad day at work he joked about it. When I... (126 words)

Did I mess things up by not sleeping with her in the midst of all these mixed signals?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2972 days ago

30 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - So, i am kind of sort of seeing a coworker but not really, we both agreed it would be horrible to date while coworkers. She is ten years older than me, kids are out he house and i have no kids. We have gone out a few times, but nothing serious. Yesterday, i meet her mom and... (445 words)

How can we slow things down? And why does he keep slipping out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2858 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age - Ok, so, After messaging and chatting to my guy, we both agreed to meet . I really like him, he likes me too. We get on so well, laughing, relaxing and enjoying each other's company. We arranged a few more dates, there is definately a spark there, on date 3 we kiss, passion... (256 words)

The definition of moving on has a very different meaning for dumper and dumpee?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

30 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it normal that Dumpers always want to be friends or find it cool than how a dumpee views it? And Im not talking about right after a breakup, but after time they seem to just be cool to maintain some truce or form of contact. It is clear that a dumpee suffers much much ... (533 words)

Was this barman interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2973 days ago

30 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I went to an afternoon bar to catch up with a friend. I helped myself to some water as the queues were too long at the bar. Then this waiter came over quickly and filled a bottle of water and came over to my table and said "I have got you some water so you don't have to get any ... (175 words)