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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Was it just an excuse? Or am I being selfish thinking 15 minutes away was not far?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating a new guy recently and I have no car, so he usually has to pick me up and take me home. He ended things because I was too far away, despite only being 15 minutes away. Am I selfish for thinking I'm not that far?... (51 words)

Do I break up with L and choose an untested but potentially amazing relationship with S ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Three years ago I met S., and we dated for a little while before he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship because he was getting over a recent breakup. Over the next year, he kept changing his mind between wanting to be friends and wanting to be in a relation... (543 words)

Is it superficial to place importance on someone's physical appearance in a relationship ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

5 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - If I place a lot of emphasis on how someone looks in terms of partner potential, does that make me superficial? How about if I'm unable to perform sexually unless I find someone very sexually attractive. Often things like having a belly or unhandsome face are a turn off. I r... (374 words)

How the people around us influence our emotional growth

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

5 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - How important is who you surround yourself with? I firmly have always been influenced by who my friends are and who is around me. I obviously hold on to the friends that matter and I continue to connect with. But is keep friends who you had previous great times with but dont... (140 words)

Is it possible to change who who we are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

5 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend has a theory that people never change, he says he thinks that people have this illusion that they change but actually your core stays the exact same. Another thinks people can make small changes in who they are. I believe someone can change if they will it, and make... (171 words)

How do we find a healthy balance between sound judgment and judgmental?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

5 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - My question is regarding generalising and friends of friends, and friends partners. I have a problem that when i see someone or a friend dating someone who I find to be unpleasant/ unkind/ judgemental/ rude, I start to view the friend dating the person in a negative light. S... (337 words)

My boyfriend wants to give me a rim job

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend insists on giving me a rim job !! He has given me oral before but not a rim job. He says he loves my ass and wants to put his tongue in it. Can anyone else tell me about how this feels ?? ... (54 words)

I'm talking to my ex and feeling guilty about it but can't seem to stop myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 15, I had an abortion. To this day I still remember everything about those few weeks while it all happened, from finding out to having it done. I still cry on the day which I had worked out would have been my due date and I still wonder what they would have looked ... (382 words)

Is she jealous? Or just moody?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3020 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi again guys :-). Here's my 2nd question. Me and my lesbian friend became closed friends again. She told me that she will visit my house and I agree for I love to sense her presence. When she arrived at my house we went to the sea to swim and after that went to my house to ... (192 words)

What is my ex boyfriend feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3029 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) age 30-35 - Basically me and my boyfriend had a typical break up however I pushed for it because he was feeling so depressed and I knew he was gonna push me away I didn't want to be hurt. His depression had taken over and he said he felt nothing about anything anymore (he had mentioned ... (563 words)

We are thinking marriage but I have concerns. Is my boyfriend gay or bi curious?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, A little back story... My BF and I have been together for 3 years and 1/2, living together for 1 year. He's very loving, have great morals and have alwayst treated me amazingly and we have a average sex life. But we are really freaky, his penis is a tad smaller than ... (597 words)

Does he care? Or am I crazy? Am I obsessed with him? Or am I just in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - It's taken me a Few moments to figure out how I should ask my question, but the Fact is The question Is just as confusing as the story..... A couple Of months ago I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship Three months prior to the encountor, and haddent fuly ... (805 words)

How do I go forward? He often lied to me. Why did he hurt me like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age - I left my boyfriend after a six year turbulent relationship. I gave him everything, I saved him from losing his house and bailed him out on numerous occasions. The final straw was finding out he was online sexting with his ex, I walked away. He wouldn't let me go and p... (173 words)

I cant get the nude images of my boyfriend's ex out out of my head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) age 26-29 - I have never been with other peole before but my boyfriend has been in a few relationsihps. His last relationship was pretty serious and lasted roughly four years, out of which two years were long distance because ex moved to a different country for higher education. I met my ... (416 words)

What's his game? Why did he phone me after all his did in the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up over 8 months ago because he kept on registering on dating sites, after me giving him chance after chance. It was not long before he had met someone else. I stayed on my own. He has now got in touch because he has broke up with his girlfriend and wants us... (86 words)

What can I do? I'm self sufficent, he's not. He's not motivated to find work in his field. He relies on his parents and me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hope you can help me please. I just don't know how to handle this. I have been married for over a year, together 5. My husband has 2 children, whom I adore. I own a lovely home, which has the potential to be extended, so I told my husband if he can save his money... (324 words)

Should I end the weird FWB relationship I'm in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - So I don't really know what to do. I'm to the point I'm just about to ghost and say enough is enough. I've got this weird Fwb relationship for roughly a year. 90% of the time, I'll know what to expect from her. The other 10% she just baffles me. And I can't stand it. We are... (360 words)

Is he just friendly or he actually likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop thinking about this guy from work. We work together in a project for 2 months now and we're really clicking. He's always there to help me whenever I need him and always makes sure I'm doing okay. He jokes around and acts really comfortable. I developed a liki... (173 words)

Did my boyfriend get horny watching women play golf or was he horny because of ME?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend watched a women's golf tournament today. He is business friends with an organizer and got a free ticket so he went as his friend's guest. I was supposed to see my boyfriend last night but he had to work. I told him I was horny and how much I wanted him. He s... (493 words)