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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've lost weight and now down to UK size 12. How do I get out of thinking bad about myself when subjected to Fat Shaming?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Im writing this because I'm so tired of being body shamed all of the time. Growing up I was a size 8, but then I left school, started a new career, had a baby and the weight creeped on. At my heaviest I went up to 15 stone size 16 which is very overweight for my 5 ft 7 he... (292 words)

What can I do to make myself feel a little more comfortable and less nervous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey Everyone, I am taking part in the School Show and for my part I have to kiss someone. I don't mind but I have never kissed a boy before so I am really nervous. What can I do to make myself feel a little more comfortable and less nervous?... (52 words)

He got a strip dance and lied to me about it. Should I stay or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - 29 F dating 1.5 years. We talked about how I did not like strip dances. I told him I was fine with him going with friends, but not get a dance. He ended going with just his best friend and went to a private room and got a dance. He lied to me about it. He first said he ju... (324 words)

I haven’t spoken to my boyfriend in 3 days! I need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3.5 years. I am in a different state than him now in grad school. I went to see him last weekend and he complained about how broke he was the whole time (something that has been a peeve of mine the last 3 years) he is very selfish with ... (560 words)

What if my body turns him off? Should I wait until I’m more comfortable with my own body?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So I like this guy so much, he's very handsome and has asked me out on a date. I really enjoy being with him and things are advancing and all but i am really self aware of my shape, i have always struggled with my body , i am 5'1' and i weigh 136lbs I'm really scared of... (122 words)

Is my boyfriend a total loser I should lose or am I missing something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man in his 40s for six months. I am also in my 40s. He has told me he cares about me and we've talked about a future together. Four days ago my father was rushed to the hospital. He had two large blood clots in his lungs and almost died and was in criti... (214 words)

My eight year old son is such a handful. What action should I be taking to address the problems I face?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I just don know what to do. My. Son spends school holidays with his dad who lives abroad, My son is eight. every time school holidays approach i'm exhausted and really stressed because he's such a handful. I have some health problems too and no family nor friends to help. ... (168 words)

At 21, should I try online dating or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - So I am 21 years old and in college. My parents expect me to have a partner and possibly get married after college (although, they do not want me to do online dating but they cannot stop me as a 21 year old girl). Friends of my family and some of my extended family always as... (206 words)

Feeling robbed, hoodwinked and conned. my wife clearly doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. what are my options?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

8 September 2016 (M)

age - Hi, I suspect this might be an old chestnut but its new to me so please bear with me. In a sentence...my wife clearly doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. On the rare occasions we do, it feels like she is being contrived, dutiful and frankly glad when its over. N... (395 words)

Want to treat him to something special. But what? I'm a struggling student and he wouldn't want extravagance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, right I met my bf online and we have been together 2 and a half years. We have a nine year age gap but it does not bother me as he is simply amazing. We live 2 hours and a bit away from each other however I have moved back to uni so we're only about a hour and a half ... (195 words)

Not sure I want to be in this relationship anymore. Two babies and he's rather play a computer game. I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship any more. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - As a quick bit of background info: I’m a stay at home mum of two (2 year old and a 6 month old). I do have a job but was on maternity which has been extended due to having cancer and dealing with all kinds of other crap... My partner is the main earner and pays all the bil... (524 words)

Somewhere along the way I got lost and upset her. Is our relationship over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3023 days ago

8 September 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been living and dating my partner since January this year. We have done a lot together in this time and also share a family pet. i have a lot of stress from work related matters and been off work temporary with a back problem. Over the last few months at times... (1487 words)

I can't shake off these feelings of hurt. What do you guys think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend a little over a year and we moved in together despite my fears and objections from my family. I've been badly hurt and I admit, I hurt others too. I considered myself unlovable and hurt men who claimed to love me. My current boyfriend is breaking... (194 words)

Boyfriend doing masters degree but I'm leaving for a job 8 hours away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

8 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I've got a wonderful job in London which I'm very excited about, but my boyfriend of 3 years has decided to do a masters degree for another year at the university we were both at (a good 8 hour train journey from London). I obviously have limited holiday w... (112 words)