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Archived questions from: 6 September, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I approach getting her number or asking her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - all of my relationships have come from being around someone for a while before asking them out. such as school, work, gym. how do you go about asking a girl out that may not know you that well? there is a girl who i see maybe every other week at the grocery store, shes a ca... (127 words)

What can I do? She can't bring herself to believe me, nor let it go.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - The relationship between me and my girlfriend of a little over a year has been pretty rough lately. We recently took a break that was originally supposed to be a month. It ended up only being a week. Anyway, during the break I bought some condoms, well when she saw them the... (174 words)

My Cheating Girlfriend.... What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - So here it. As I write this my girlfriend is at 35,000ft with the guy she has been cheating on me with on their way to Tenerife. I had been with my girlfriend for almost 7 years. For a couple of months now I had suspected she was cheating and this was confirmed when my ... (326 words)

Could this lead to more than a friendship? Do I talk to him about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on a confusing situation I'm currently in. I have been friends with a guy for over a year and a half now. We hangout pretty often with our common group of friends as well as just the two of us (Theater, diner, movies at either of our places etc...) On a co... (347 words)

Is it fair? Is he expecting me to pay more than my share?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone my boyfriend and me have just got a house together we have 2 kids we have lived together for 4 months now the problem is he agreed to pay the rent while I pay the gas electric and water food and things for the kids I have 2 jobs only adding up to 17 hours a week ... (143 words)

Why? All my life people have taken an instant dislike towards me and I don't know why. What needs to change?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - All through my life I have struggled getting people to like me, people take an instant dislike to me and I don't know why. I'm not rude, I'm polite, I can be painfully shy at times and I think people mistake this as being rude or stuck up. Been with my man for a few years, w... (249 words)

How can I stop ruining every prospective relationship with anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been single for nearly a year now. In that time through one reason or another I have spoken to and got to know 3 different men (romantically) that I have began to like. It always starts off well in that they are attracted to me, we have a great conversation and got on r... (294 words)

I don't feel comfortable with who I am. How do I turn my life around and find contentment and satisfaction ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - So just a week ago I turned 33 years old. By now, a lot of people would know about my previous posts in regards to dysfunction in my marriage. But I want to change focus to think about my own personal development. Perhaps I am being too hard on myself (since my early 20s I’ve... (1343 words)

Anxious about the future. What help should I seek to overcome these obstacles that exist in my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3018 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Flunked out of college twice and now I'm 25 expecting to graduate next year after 7 years of schooling. I have lost all hope in my future because of my failure and an extremely competitive job market. I have no idea what I am struggling for and I am too afraid to let go of li... (91 words)

How do we move forward? He never takes me on a normal date.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F) age 26-29 - I love my boyfriend, he is the guy that has been hitting on me for the past three yes so I finally accepted him. During those years we became friends so already he knows a bit more about me. We are four months in a relationship now all has been going great except one thing: h... (494 words)

Do I tell some white lies? Or compromise and invite my Bf to visit me and meet my Dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! a few basic info first: I'm currently a 19 y/o college student and living with my dad and brother. I'm unemployed as for now but I'm also thinking about getting a part-time job somewhere. I have a boyfriend who's 27 y/o currently and he's got a job and is making a ... (979 words)

Does he seem interested or does he just talk to me when he's bored?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

6 September 2016 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 32 and over the past month have been seeing this guy whom I was set up with by a close friend of mine. He's my age, successful and doesn't seem to bear a ton of ''ex-relationship' baggage or children. I on the other hand have a 9-year-old, son. This guy is supper easy to ... (171 words)

How do I cope with my troubled and tormented thoughts of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age - I am a mid aged guy and 7 years ago, I began seeing a woman from work. I was separated from my wife and 2 teenage girls but used to still see my wife on a friendly basis and help her out and still occasionally had sex with her. The woman is married unhappily and ... (589 words)

Why doesn't my husband go down on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! Thank you for your time reading this. I have a simple, yet extremely embarrassing question. I'm a "happily" married woman with two girls and 4 months pregnant. We live a moderate life,go to church and spend time with out family. While yes, we have our ... (345 words)

Am I just the side chick? How can I go forward when he treats me as just a friend, never his GF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - It has been a while that I have written on this. So, there is this guy I've known for the last three years of high school and we've kept contact streaming into the life of college. Throughout the years I 've known him since high school we've managed to create a great b... (522 words)

Is this relationship over? My Gf and I were caught trying to make out and her cousins told her parents.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 22-25 - Ok long story short i was over at my girlfriend's house for a labor day cookout and we were trying to try to find a place to make out in private and we got caught sneaking around by her cousins. They told her parents and now i can't go over to her place and i don't think th... (100 words)

Are we still friends or is it over?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I am friends with a female at work. we have fallen out a couple of times but have always made up. last week i sent her flowers at work in the hope of she would put me back on facebook as one of friends but it back fired on me and things seem to take a turn for the worse. ... (141 words)

Are women turned off by men who are inferior to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

6 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Is a man who can't turn a woman on sexually a man who she can defeat in every way? Eg. intelligence, height, size, financial earnings, etc, etc, etc. If yes, does this mean a man should try to be better in every area, without directly competing with women he's attracted t... (62 words)