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Archived questions from: 12 September, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I know my boyfriend is fed up with my working hours but does that excuse the fact that he's making stuff up and playing silly mind games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3019 days ago

12 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having a bizarre argument with my boyfriend and I wonder if I should stay with him because of what he's said. I work unsociable hours in a job I really don't like but as I live by myself I have to work even if I don't particularly love it. I've just done three night shif... (635 words)

We always end up together and both of us like each other but neither of us want a relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been back and forth with a girl now for close to 5 years, we've never exclusively been classed as 'boyfriend/girlfriend" but we did spend around 2 years where we only slept with each other but still didn't put a label on things. Now the dilemma is that we really don't ... (288 words)

Should I stay at this workplace and ''prove'' myself or accept one of the offers I've received from other car dealerships? My manager here is difficult.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help on a career decision.. Sounds bad right? Well I have been working for a car dealership for about 5 months now. They were looking for young people with little to no car sales experience. I had a lot of experience selling other products in the past, just no experien... (680 words)

What should I do? Have had a workplace crush on a guy for 2 years and it's ongoing.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been having a huge crush on my male coworker. Sometimes I feel he drops hints and signs of liking me too. He always smiles when he sees me and always says hi. I've also always felt him staring at me from afar and across the room. He's so helpful and I feel like he's ... (234 words)

How can I explain to my friends that she's a great girl, despite what I said earlier?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - When I was 9 years old I moved to a new town and my neighbour kissed me on the cheek and said that I was her boyfriend and she has pretty much been my life since then. We dated for as long as I can remember, she was my first kiss, first girl I took on a date. When we we... (373 words)

My Granny forbids me to go to a counsellor so can someone please explain if my Mom always hated me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

12 September 2016 (M) age 22-25 - Please don't tell me to talk to a consellor, my granny and pawpaw don't like it bc their Pentecostal. I live with them, their my dads parents and my dad is in Colorado. My mom is in Oklahoma and so is her dad but he is in a group home. He's OK, he just has PTSD because of ... (362 words)

Our LDR started out with good communication and I just want that back. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I've been in an on again off again long distance relationship with a younger man for about a year. He came on very strong, consistent, and attentive, and things were great. He would call, text, we had weekly face time dates, and he would send me really sweet gifts. A... (510 words)

How do you balance being true to your own vision with implementing advice from others?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

12 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - How do we figure out the importance of being true to your own vision versus what is actually best for you. The only way I feel I have grown as a person is by listening selectively to people to see how they think I can improve also combined with my own sense of who I am. I... (435 words)

I am married to a lovely man but still pine for my ex but I don't want to feel that way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

12 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - im married to a guy who has been seen by my family. i was in relationship with a guy for 4 years before my wedding but he left me for another girl. so in that anger i just accepted for this wedding. my husband is really a nice person. he knows my past too. but im still in love ... (132 words)

I trust my boyfriend but I'm also afraid of being hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

12 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is a personal trainer and he is crushing on one of his clients. As it is a professional relationship, I don't think anything would happen. However, we met that way initially and I'm so jealous... I work in the same building - on a mezzanine level so I can see and... (312 words)

My new boyfriend is so clumsy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I have met a guy who seems to put his foot in it all the time. He was married for twenty years and has been divorced two years. His wife left him for a very wealthy man. He said they grew apart. They have two children under 13 and his children adore him. He has good friends and ... (214 words)