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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2016 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would the average guy spend 1.5 hours in a store or was he lying?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) age 26-29 - Is it possible for a guy - your boyfriend - to be in a store for 1.5 hours??? The same store??? He was out for awhile and I asked him about it and he said he was at an auto parts store for that long. He said he was browsing. That there were lots of neat things to look a... (99 words)

Two years and the relationship has never advanced?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this guy on and off for almost 2years we have not advanced in our relationship yet he tells me he loves me but makes no effort. is it too late to ask him to just be friends?... (42 words)

Crush has grown into an obsession and I need to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, I'm 13 and currently at high school I started to like a kid a at school called Oliver and then I just thought that I was just a crush bit that was 2 and a bit years ago and I've grown obsessed I think about him all the time sometimes when I'm writing things in class I ... (188 words)

LDR has it cooled, he finds it boring or...???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

19 September 2016 (F) age 41-50 - I would really appreciate some advice and your opinion. I've been in a LDR for a little over a month. We were together for a week before he had to leave and go back home (another continent!). We've been texting and talked over the phone a bit (I'm initiating contact in 99... (459 words)

He's married and much older.... and I've a serious crush on him. what advice can you suggest for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So i'm sure this has been discussed countless times, but i still feel the need to get my situation out there and hear your opinions on it... So i have this guy in my life, he's my trainer of sorts, and i see him a couple times a week. He's wayyyyy older than i am (i'' 23,... (354 words)

What to do? I'm dating a woman aged 30 and I can't handle her "sleeping around" in the past.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

19 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in my early 20s, not perfect but I met a woman who's 30 recently and we really hit it off. However shes has a LOT of bad things in her past. I'm not misogynist and I have obviously slept with girlfriends but she did a load of crazy stuff when she was my age or younger. ... (227 words)

Anyone have co-parenting experience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone here have any experience with co-parenting, or having a baby with someone you aren't in a relationship with? Maybe you broke up before/right after the baby was born, or maybe it was a fling or friends with benefits that ended up in pregnancy. Actually, especi... (151 words)

Hold on to hope or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy on line and we hit if off really well. He said he was open to the possibility of a relationship and I'm looking for a relationship. I know his situation is not ideal, as he's been divorced for 18 months and currently looking for work abroad. Im open to the ... (253 words)

Troubled relationship with a co worker that I don't know how to fix

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having a lot of trouble with a woman at work, for the sake of this I'll call her Janet. we used to get on really well and I did fancy a lot her however after 6 months of trying i didn't seem to be getting anywhere and I chose to move on and be proffesional and see other ... (436 words)

What's her problem with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - This woman that has lived in the same village as my partner for years. My partner fixes her car. At first he wanted us to become friends together because I am new to the village and he wanted me to make friends here. However, she seems to come across as not really interested in ... (518 words)

I need a way to get him to meet my desires

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are busy people. He works 6 days out of the week,8 hours per day. I'm in school part time and works 40 hours a week. Therefore, when we are together, I want to cuddle and have sex. He just enjoys my company. I talked to him about my needs and he doesn't ... (121 words)

Am I wrong to break this off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, This could be a bit of a long one but ill try not to waffle too much. Bit of a backstory: Got myself into a huge pickle with a girl, we're not speaking anymore but we were doing for 2 years, it started out both of us wanting something casual and I ended up falling... (505 words)

My LDR is stressing me out. I do want to keep the relationship. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My relationship is stressing me out. To give a bit of background. I was with my ex for 7 years and he cheated. Left me for her. I was single for 9-10 months when I got with my current boyfriend. We've been together 8 months now. Everything was good to begin with, but then ... (311 words)

What can I do about my very controlling aggressive abusive husband? I want out of this abusive marriage

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

19 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello i have a very serious problem. My husband is very controlling and he has been disrespectful to my Mom and my children. He has called my daughters stupid bitches and he calls my son a dumb mf. He says thats just the way he talks but i hate it! I talked to him and it c... (230 words)