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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does this woman have stalker tendencies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

1 September 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll get straight to it. I have had the same woman pop up at my apartment because she couldn't reach me via phone, deny me the previously enjoyed privilege of caressing her butt and after months of no communication, send me a birthday text. I remember her seeing my ID on... (174 words)

My Zumba instructor boyfriend was joking with a participant to stop looking at his butt! Did he cross a line?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3028 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a Zumba instructor. Classes are all women. The other day in his class he told a participant jokingly to stop looking at his butt. He said this was harmless flirting. Part of the job. Hmmmm. I am not so sure about that. I think it crosses profes... (213 words)

Ex and I are getting back but how can I get him to forget that I was talking to other guys while we were broken up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I are getting back together after being 2 months apart. I am so happy and have always been in love with him, and he feels the same way. Unfortunately, though he can't seem to forget the time we broke up and I started talking to other dudes on my phone. I never met up ... (143 words)

Frustrated by lack of libido

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

1 September 2016 (M)

age - ok I'm 81. Married but wife no longer able (because of illness ) not able to have sex. I used to be able to masterbate but now I can't get excited enough to get hard to accomplish. I take lots of medication. Any thing I can take that won't interfere with my medication so I can ... (72 words)

How does one juggle switching back and forth between feeling romantically towards someone and feeling platonic instead sometimes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Has anyone else had issues with switching back and forth between feeling romantically towards someone and feeling platonically? I broke up with my boyfriend over the summer because over the summer, we're long distance and that's hard, and I felt like the time away caused m... (350 words)

Is it a big waste of time trying to get back together? Will I be emotionally hurt again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex have began talking a little again.. This is after I text him saying that I did miss and love him and he replied saying that he misses me but there just always seems to be a bad vibe about us and we can't seem to get along. We plan to meet up tonight just to ... (240 words)

How can I make new friends? My best friend is distancing herself from me as she has a new friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Well i have a best friend who ive been best friends with for around 10 years. We have been really close. We go to different schools. A few months ago she became friends with a girl lets say her name is N My friend lets say her name is L, doesnt ever give me the chance to me... (239 words)

What is my Bf trying to achieve? Why would my Bf make up lies about my gay GF?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I went out of town for a trip of 5 days. My bf has a key of my place and I left a key to my best friend also. My bf doesn't live with me. Last night my bf called me and said that he wanted to come see my cat and the door was unlocked and he came in to the room and saw my ... (217 words)

Trust and cheating. How can I win back my partner's love and trust after all the has happened over the years ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age - I've been with my partner for over 20 years and I very much love him with all my heart. Yet I found myself at 43 entering into an affair with a younger guy. Didn't take me long to realize this was a big mistake and I returned to my husband, convinced it would never happen... (235 words)

I don't want a relationship with him. Yet why am I continually drawn to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. So I could really use some advice about this guy. Here's the story: We met at college but it took a few months for us to actually talk in our shared class. After that we became friends pretty much straight away, hanging out, laughing, heading home together and all of... (286 words)

After 15 years why now are they behaving like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello friends, Need your suggestion. I have been working in a private company from past 15 years. I have done a lot for this company. 15 years back, I joined in IT department but due to company problems I worked for them alone for almost all responsibilities of an office in ... (348 words)

She's anxious. Do I need to be patient and allow her to get used to dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

1 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - I have started dating a girl at the start of August after being divorced. From the offset she tells me she is a very anxious person and it takes her a long time to get used to people and move relationships in the right direction, eg we didn't kiss until the third meeting.... (222 words)

He's married. Wondering why he acted like that? Was he testing me, or was he seeing me as a potential client?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just wanted to hear others opinion about this scenario. I'm single mom, professional and attractive as others say. I am not dating and not interested in dating even after 3 years of my divorce. I always get attention and I don't care about but this guy behavior is... (485 words)

How long is too long to be single and celibate and with nobody to love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I'm a single female with a broken heart I haven't been in a relationship in the last pass 15 years. I'm afraid to get back out there In the dating world because I don't want nobody to hurt my heart again so I run from the thought of relationship because I feel lik... (119 words)

Now he wants to now "start over and fresh"? what's happening?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - So I asked almost the same question before, but some things have changed and I don't know what to do. Im a freshman in high school and there is this guy who is a sophomore. When i was in middle school and he was a freshman, we dated 2 times for about 2 months each. After tha... (186 words)

Does she hate me? Or is she tired of me, now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

1 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello. I have a lesbian friend, let's say her name is “X”. Me and “X” are close friends. Then, suddenly she admits that she likes me and I laugh coz I like her too. We became so close. She's flirting with me and I did the same. We both decided to have a fake relation... (327 words)