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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can people tell when they're "the mutton dressed as the lamb"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Just in case people are not familiar with the term “mutton dressed as lamb" - it refers to older people who try to appear younger (and usually fail dismally). And it's most often applied to women who wear clothes that are aimed at a much younger market. So - how do I know wh... (103 words)

Neighbors won't share parking spaces

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my question is not a relationship question but I need your suggestion. I live in a 2 floor apartment. The first floor neighbors are a couple in their early 30s. We didn't have a parking and I wanted to leave few months ago for this reason but my landlord told me please do ... (184 words)

Do I drop these friends or just renegotiate my friendship with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

9 September 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Now I'm 30 I realised I'm surrounded by people who push their own needs. Example 1 the friend who is unable to have fun if it doesn't involve alcohol and drugs, he has an infinite appetite to take drugs and alcohol and looks a state when he does. He can be amazingly fun. But ... (335 words)

What sort of outcomes have others experienced after taking allergy shots? Hesitant about this option suggested by my therapist.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been debating something for awhile now whether to get allergy shots are not. I've suffered from allergies for awhile now. Hives and Seasonal Allergies. I get a lot of sore throat, itchy eyes and nasal congestion. I have been taking nasal spray and Z---ec. But I am not v... (163 words)

How do I deal with this? He broke up with me due to the lifestyle of my Uncle, who died 23 years ago.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My friend of 1 year 3 months decided to break up with me because of "society" as he says. Because my family background doesn't match up to his expectations,my uncle(my dads sister married him)the uncle in question,who died 23 years ago was a gangster and part of the unde... (184 words)

I still like my ex but don't know if he feels the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - Basically, I like my ex, but he likes someone else, who doesn't like him. And he always says that you'll always feel something for your ex's. But the thing is, me and him have dated a few times, and when we aren't talking I always want to talk to him, and I feel like I moved ... (107 words)

Is it possible that my therapist may like me a bit too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - I haven't had a session with my therapist for a while. I met him again recently and he was acting differently to me (I've known him for a while). His eye contact felt like he was staring at me and he was constantly smiling at me. We also joked around but I felt a bit ... (318 words)

Is she insecure controlling or both?! What do I do!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

9 September 2016 (M) age 26-29 - My girl friend doesn't know how to relax, everything bothers her. My friends claim she cries way to much and her friends claims she's bossy. I've stopped doing many things because she claims she doent like them and now I cannot respond to her claims about politics because I ... (81 words)

Could he just be a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

9 September 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, Ok long story short. A new guy not too long moved in the hood. He helps run a family business with his dad and bro. I am an active customer. So they are polite and never noticed me or give anything beyond the usual "Good morning/Good afternoon". One morning, I s... (169 words)

How do I meet bisexual people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

9 September 2016 (M) age 41-50 - So I've recently decided to explore my fantasies about being with another man. I discovered I enjoy being with a man sexually but still prefer to have relationships with women. I have very little experience as a bi sexual and would like advice on how to meet other bi sexual ... (55 words)

Are we just wrong for each other? Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) age 30-35 - What to do if I love the man I'm with, but unhappy in the relationship? I've been dating this guy for almost 9 months now. We met at a friend's party and clicked immediately. We have similar views on a lot of important things like family, social issues, etc. And we just get ... (768 words)