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writes:Been going out with a woman, for a month, she tells me if I want to continue to see her, I have to buy her gifts, cards, flowers, and take her out two times a week. Do I walk away? She said she will give me two days to make up my mind. I sure know how to pick the winners.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2016): I think that you want to walk away.
But maybe you could give her a commiserations card and flowers to make her feel better. That way everyone wins, right?
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (19 January 2016):
If she is giving you an ultimatum to shower her with gifts, cards, flowers and dinner, those things mean more to her than you do.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (19 January 2016):
No, you shouldnt walk, you should RUN. Dont call her again, dont text her, and dont answer hers.
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (19 January 2016):
 My advice to you would be to RUN as fast as you can. Also the fact that you are starting to having second thoughts indicates to me that this woman "isn't all that."
Women that demand gifts and physical items, aren't really into you and eventually the flowers turns into bracelets then high end jewelry and finally cars and house payments.
Sorry, but unless she is best girlfriend in the world I am suggesting you tell her "see ya"
It will likely hurt initially, but in the long run, I think you will be a LOT healthier than supporting someone who's appetite for "things" are insatiable.
Eddie
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2016): You can smile sweetly and say, "I have already made up my mind, I dodged the bullet. Goodbye."
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reader, Ivyblue  +, writes (19 January 2016):
 Wow, a bit too cheeky of her in my opinion. Save your time, cash and effort for someone less demanding.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 January 2016):
 She wants someone to treat her like a princess. She sounds high maintenance. Seems she just wants materialistic things from you. If it where me I would want a woman who demanded your time, your love and affection.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 January 2016):
 I'm with Garbo.
You have from ALL the post (all 3? ) seemed that there was something not quite "right" with her - so why continue?
As for her saying :" I want gifts, cards, flowers, and to take her out two times a week."
Means SHE WANTS to be wooed. She wants COURTSHIP. Not have a dinner one night, a drink another and then spend the evening at HER home watching movies and "cuddle" on the couch.
You took her statement as YOU MUST spend money and more money on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2016): It depends how she said it and in what context.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (18 January 2016):
 Since you don't think that she is a winner, then, I think, you answered your own question. If you find what she wants as something you don't want to do then don't bother with her. In my view, you don't even have to call her in two days on this. Just go no contact, since there is no point.
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