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writes:So I'm confused on what to label myself as and how to take a step towards my sexuality and getting to know people. First of, I'll admit that I'm bi. Yet, when I was looking at some types online I found the butch/femme lesbian type relationship and immediately considered myself apart of that. I feel like as if I'm the femme of things, I can't really say I'm the femme of the relationship because I've never actually been in any relationship. Is it possible to be labeled bi-femme? Or is it only femme lesbian? Are there other terms for that? Also, discovering that I'm part of the butch/femme aspect of things how would I go along as of dating? I really want to date a butch but I have anixiety and that always prevents me from doing many things. Would I have to just wait until someone approaches me? But what if they don't? I mean, I'm single for a reason probably. Ugh, I need help please. Thank you. xx
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (18 January 2016):
 I agree. Why label yourself at all?
Every one of us fits into more than one category. To like more than one thing, be it a food, a film or a personality type is normal.
If you're trying to describe yourself on a dating profile or something then just say you have eclectic tastes or something.
You can fine tune it as you live it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2016): There is no need to label yourself or worry about the labels of other women. Just put yourself out there and see who you're attracted to butch/femme/whoever. It's what's inside that counts.
I didn't realise I was gay until I was 24. As soon as I put myself out there I saw what I'd been missing!
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