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anonymous
writes:I suffer from IBS and told my boyfriend this when we started seeing each other 2 months ago.Last weekend we planned to sleep together but as I had a IBS attack this did not happen and since then I have not heard from him.Even after sending texts and leaving answerphone messages he has not contacted me.
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reader, Tiggzy  +, writes (12 January 2016):
 Wow okay IBS is a medical condition, that's a flaw and honey, it's a beautiful one, okay so, remember the saying "for better or worse"? yeh, that's one of these times, if he really liked you for you, he'd stick around and not just talk about sex, you need to list questions in your head like, how does he treat me? does he accept me for everything that i am including my medical condition? hell a good boyfriend would look past the IBS and just hug you and make you feel comfortable while watching a film or something you know? so if he hasn't bothered to talk to you,then clearly he wasn't worth your time and you deserve more then that.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 January 2016):
 Could be that he really wasn't looking for something serious but more of a sexual relationship. And when he realized that there would be times where sex would not be possible, he "vanished".
I'd stop calling/texing or contacting him and move on.
He was a dud.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (10 January 2016):
It might be tough to hear, but better you know now. Why are you planning to sleep with anyone a couple of months in to dating? If you’re prepared to do that, it’ll be pretty hard to determine who wants you for who you are and who is just after sex. If he just wanted sex with you or is so shallow that he is not prepared to deal with your health condition, you’re better off without him anyway. You had a lucky escape.
I wish you all the very best.
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