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writes:Hi my problem is I've been with my boyfriend for 3 year we live together and have a gorgeous 1 yr old baby girl the problem is since we got together we don't spend any time together I've asked him so many times to spend more time with us but he just doesn't listen all he is interested in is his dog and his mates I ask him to come somewhere with me all I get is do I have to his mates ask him he's straight there wherever they want to go I get no help with our daughter from him as soon as he comes home from work his mate is at the door and I'm just expected to be ok with it what can I do thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (11 January 2016):
 I wouldn't put up with this behavior, he needs to grow up and see where his priorities lie. Show him the door, tell him you cannot do this anymore. Tell him the relationship is over until he realizes that you and his daughter should come first. You should not have to deal with him putting friends first or them always just landing at your door, not when you have a baby to look after. He needs to see that he is neglecting you both. Show him the door. Good luck.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (11 January 2016):
 Kick him out and tell him he is not welcome back until he grows up enough to recognise his child and partner as his priorities. Do it sooner rather than later as the longer you leave it to take charge of your life the harder it will be.
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