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Archived questions from: 17 May, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it worth my time to keep dating a cold fish or should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) age - Hello I am an older women (OP is 66) and a widow my husband died 2 years ago and I am trying to rebuild my life somehow and have started to go out with another man who seems quite nice. The problem is he says he is a cold fish and does not believe in buying birthday cards or ... (225 words)

My ex girlfriend broke up with me because of trust issues but I don't think she has moved on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts Recently my Ex girlfriend and I ran into some troubles in our relationship. We've been on and off because of some poor choices I've made so she ended up having some trust issues with me. I tried really hard to show her That I want something serious and I wa... (371 words)

Why am I still single at 25?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, So my dilemma is that I'm 25 and still single. A little about me: I'm a design student and working and I also practice fine arts. I'm considered very attractive and I'm a classic introvert. Usually, I work/study from morning to night and catch up on sleep on sundays... (285 words)

Separated from Husband and he won't talk to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, never done this before so please excuse my inexperience. I've been with my husband total 17 yrs. been married for 6 yrs. this May 2015. We never had fights just disagreements here and there. He also treated with love, kindness, respect and loyalty till the past 2... (295 words)

What did this kiss mean from my ex/FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I would really value some advice on my ex fwb, then friend, now I-don't-know-what! We've always kept in touch since the benefits ended (I got a boyfriend, but not anymore). He says he always enjoys my company, and recently we have started to go out for drinks, a couple of meals ... (510 words)

Depressed ex gf wants time and space. How can I help her without pushing her away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

17 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So my gf and I have been dating for around 6 months now. I truly thought we had a special relationship and initially things were very good between us. Our love life was great and she was extremely happy around me when we went to do stuff with her family or other ... (672 words)

I lost my grandfather and my boyfriend in the same week and 5 months later I'm still not coping well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Having a hard time, not sure where to begin. I lost my Grandad whom was very close to us and split up with my boyfriend the same week as his funeral. Everyone around me is sad and my Nan isn't coping well but is refusing help, to leave the house etc. I feel like I haven't ... (110 words)

Boyfriend treats me badly and I worry that it will continue after I marry him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hi I am 23 year old and I know my boyfriend since primary school. our parents are friends and we became friends as well .we are in a relationship since 10 grade. the problem is ,he sometimes abuses me , makes me cry for some stupid nonsense stuff and doesnot feel to apologiz... (351 words)

My boyfriend's ex believes we were cheating before they broke up and keeps writing nasty things online about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend officially for about a month, but we have been seeing each other since early February. We worked together for a while last year, so I knew him before when he was with his ex girlfriend. I totally admit, I liked him then and I was happy when he told ... (485 words)

Does no response from her means we aren't friends anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell out badly with a close friend a while back and we didnt talk for 18 months We spoke the other night and two days after I had the idea of messaging saying how happy I was we were talking again etc and could she add me to Facebook she read the message but didnt respond an... (63 words)

He's been visiting a single female friend's home and did not tell me. Am I over-reacting to this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Would you be ok with your husband going to single female friend's house to hang out alone with her? Husband has done this more than once without telling me and i've just found out. He promises nothing is going on with her and that he just wasn't there long and thinks I'm over... (62 words)

I'm very self concious of my sagging breasts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 22 year old with saggy breasts, as hard as that is to admit. My breasts are just naturally that way...it's in my genes I suppose. They've always been that way. Plus weight loss didn't help either. I've always been very self conscious of them, whenever I get out of the s... (121 words)

I think this older man might fancy me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi my question is about a man I know. I can't figer out if he likes me or not, I know him from Church and he is a good bit older 40s. He is always friendly and helpful towards me and gives me little gifts now and then, such as books I might like or CD's. When we speak he... (213 words)

I've become suspicious of my husband and my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I'm new here and I have a question about my best friend and my husband. I have been with my husband for over a year, and my best friend and he have known each other for about six months of that time. Over the course of their friendship I have noticed some sus... (234 words)

What am I to do about this flakey friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - At the beginning of this year, I starting getting on and becoming best friends with someone I had previously been best friends with. However, before this time we'd drifted apart a bit and weren't in each others' lives that much, so the friendship being rebuilt made me really ... (402 words)

I've recently become a bit jealous of my boyfriend's friend with other women

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello peops I'm not generally a jealous person, but for some reason for the past couple of months I've been getting a little jealous quite easily with my boyfriend. For example he's moving in next year with a mutual friend of ours and I suddenly had all these thoughts like ... (233 words)

Is there a way for me to rekindle my desire to make this marriage work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So my husband and I have been married for 6 years and together for 7. We've had alot of problems but are still together, well the problem is I want to work on myself to better the relationship but I feel like im just done. Is there anyway to jumpstart my desire to fix mys... (66 words)

Am I still protected from pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday it was the end of my period. And I'm on birth control and the condom broke and he pulled out a soon as he felt it break. Being the I was on my period I was on the sugar pill pat of my pack am I still protected?? ... (57 words)

Do these changes in my boyfriend's sexual behaviour suggest he's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been together six yrs recently we dont have sex often and when we did he would cum very quickly we had sex for the first time in two wks and he lasted forever until i finally gave up is he cheating and having sex else where... (51 words)

I've lost interest in sex after the birth of our first child. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, i need to know if it's normal to lose all interest in sex when you have a baby, as it's becoming an issue btwn me and my fiancee. We've been together 2yrs, very happy, engaged and live together. Usually sex was fun, satisfying spontaneous and every few days, right up... (405 words)

Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Or is he stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Do break ups with exes ever work out to get back together? Recently my ex came around again after breaking up with the new girlfriend we started talking slowly ... and the next thing you know we hung out together and of course that lead to sex. he was actually really wonderful... (133 words)

I'm feeling insecure. Almost three years datiing and we know each other very well. Have we hit the comfort zone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared. This is my first long relationship and I don't know if we've hit a comfort zone or if we're falling apart. We've been together 2 years and 10 months. He says I love you but not all the time like he used to (every day). It feels like he knows I'm not going anywhe... (158 words)

Always young and physically perfect: Why do the porn mags and sites predominately use these type of women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Lots of questions from women worried that they don't meet mens beauty standards and the usual answers say something along the lines of men are forgiving of flaws, women are their own worst enemies etc But when one looks at the images men consume of women ( and let's face i... (191 words)

Time perception related advice needed, please? Does anyone else feel how I feel, about time elapsed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

17 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, this is affecting my life significantly in area of human interractions, so I was hoping I could get your advice and maybe find out I'm not alone. For a while now, I don't remember when exactly it started but definitely for years, I feel like days in my life are... (245 words)