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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A man I chatted with online showed up unexpectedly at my home and now I am creeped out. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. So a year ago I met a guy online on an Expat blog through travel groups. Groups that travel together and have lots in common. In the group we had all planned to go to spain but i cancelled it because the booked date was my mum's birthday and i had to spend time ... (552 words)

I feel like I don't deserve my family, my friends or my man. Do I need to see someone about these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am struggling for about a month now with extreme guiltiness. I am a nervy wreck most of the time. I feel like such a terrible partner/daughter\sister/friend. I have so many great people in my life and i feel like i dont deserve them. Ive hurt them all. i have even cut myself ... (604 words)

The woman I love shows verbal abuse and tells me to leave her but I love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with this woman for over 2 years but the past few months she has been an emotional wreck she lost a loved one and her job nothing really worked out her..because of which I have been subjected to verbal abuse like "asshole" "idiot" "stupid" "you are trash ... (115 words)

Should I be settling down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 23 years old and I still like going out and enjoying myself. All my friends are settling down with their boyfriends, moving in together or having children. I just don't feel ready for all of this! I still live at home with my parents although I am saving for a deposit for a ... (103 words)

I'm worried if we apart that my boyfriend will cheat like he has in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship which has survived, well kind of survived my boyfriend sleeping with another women, but now he is about to go work aboard for 3 months over summer, I don't know if I trust him enough to keep our relationship going. We met when he came to my home city for... (283 words)

How do I be there for my girlfriend when she doesn't like to lean on others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks for those who are reading this. I just need some advice in a difficult situation. My girlfriend of 6 months had her cousin die in heart surgery a week ago and now her grandmother is paralyzed from the waist down which just happened two days ago. She has been sad/stre... (264 words)

Anyone have experience with bondage and the use of needles?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and are into bondage and S and M. She mentioned the other day about getting more into the pain factor as she called it. So I asked her would she would be interested in and she had seen some videos involving being poked with ... (97 words)

Why do I never get to meet or spend time with my boyfriends family/friends? He always has excuses!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. We have two issues in our relationship. One being hes not affectionate, romantic, and plays videos games non stop when hes off work. The second being ive only met his mom once and that was two years ago, and ive only met some of his ... (182 words)

I'm trapped in the past and don't know how to let go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Its been 4 months not seeing or communicating with my ex-bf. I still think of him but this time with anger cause he almost took me virginity for a lie. He lied to me about being single, loving me and caring for me. He was inlove with another girl that i only found out later ... (181 words)

How do I ask him to be in a relationship again? I'm afraid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - So I've liked this guy for 3 years now, and 2 years ago we went out for around 5 months. He broke up with me really unexpectedly and I was heartbroken for quite a while. It made everything really awkward and made me really unhappy during that time. At the end of that school ... (158 words)

What was my G/f (who I'm in a Long Distance Relationship with) doing at 4:00 AM and why is she evading my question?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there, I'm not sure how these things work so I'm just going to post the situation and hope for a response. My girlfriend attends the University in Liverpool and I'm home in Coventry, it's been like this for about a year now and the long distance is definitely taking a toll o... (228 words)

Should I stay away from where he works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing this guy back in February. He owned a bar where I worked which we went into on weekend for drinks. My friends told me he liked me but I didn't really pay him too much attention. On New Years Eve, my friend and I went to his bar and had after 12 we went back to ... (422 words)

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a relationship with her for 4 year... (199 words)

Seven days later, is there a reason he hasn't asked me for another date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I went on a date with a guy about a week ago. He picked me up, and we went out for a few drinks and came home relatively early because he had work the next day and had already been at a dinner. When we were both in the car together, we kept looking at each other and smiling ... (335 words)

How do I impress a woman in 5 minutes during a Speed Dating event?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is mainly for men but the ladies can chime in as well. If you meet a woman for the first time and have only 5 minutes to talk what will you ask or say to her that would leave an impression on her? I am wondering what topics I can talk that women usually find int... (144 words)

How do I keep my friend safe? why was I agressive?...and why didn't he stop me,or get upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I’m a bit worried, I had just gotten yelled at rather bad by my family I went to be all snuggly with a good friend and yea was crying and quite a bit upset...and I did this terrible thing. Like I hardly knew but I asked if I could be not nice and he said yes which was du... (158 words)

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and being together provides the bes... (391 words)

Feeling hurt and confused. We are not official. Yet why tell me had a date? was it said to get a reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, There is a guy that I have been seeing. Its not official or anything. We kiss, go out, go to each other homes etc. He has always described me as his part time woman which i feel like for the time but I want to take it to the next level. Lately he has been tel... (173 words)

My Bf is depressed. How can I help him and help our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is depressed. We have had an amazing relationship, no arguments and lots of fun. We have been together for 7 months but on month 3 we switched into a long distance relationship and it was really good until April when he started getting depressed and not wanting ... (280 words)

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off, him being a guy, but he was t... (225 words)

Telling him how much I love him isn't working, so what's the best way to get him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Two months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 3.5 years after an argument. We had been having lots of arguments and it wasn't our first time breaking up. Now, 2 months later, I feel like I made the biggest mistake of my life and I desperately want him back. Except, every time ... (93 words)