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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

One minute he wants space, the next minute he's worried...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I had to break it off with him 5 days ago because he told me he wanted space. Would come back tell me he missed me and go on as normal. But if i asked about us he'd say he wasnt ready for a relationship, the demand of it. I waited for nearly a month for him to be sure about me. ... (254 words)

Am I unreasonable to be upset that she won't come out for my birthday meal with family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 May 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - IT is my Birthday next week and my family are going for a meal in the evening. Naturally they have invited my girlfriend of three years. She says she doesn't know if she can come because she has plans with her family during the day, and it may put them out? It doesn't make much ... (91 words)

Should I text him, or just leave it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age - Hi I usually answer problems as an auntie on this website, but I have a question of my own. I have been flirting with a man I like for about a year. He has done most of the flirting, I'm not good in being forward, but I do let him know his attention is welcome and I enjoy hi... (1001 words)

I don't think I can do a long distance relationship with a man who has a kid

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for two years with a kid. Recently, he's graduated from college. We've been discussing moving in together for a while over the Summer. He wants to take a year off from school but lately he's been talking about going to grad school. Grad schools that ... (223 words)

How to tell guy I'm seeing that he has bad body odor and a messy room?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy I really like for about a month now. I dropped the other people I dated just to focus on our relationship (that's how much I like him). So far, so good. He's nice, cute and has an amazing personality. Here's the catch: I noticed he has bad body odor, ... (211 words)

I have a boyfriend but kissed my married manager at work and now I'm all messed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a tricky situation.. I've been with my Boyf for 4 years I'm 20 years old and recently got my dream job.. My manager is 25 and married. So recently I put in for another job within the Same organisation, however I was told my manager picked another boy on my team.. I ... (296 words)

Should I be feeling guilty? She got offended because I WANTED to use a condom

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

19 May 2015 (?) age 36-40 - I really am losing faith in humanity. Here goes: I’m 26, and a mature(ish) student at University. I recently got with a girl who I’d had my eye on for some time. We’d been hanging about in the same group of friends for several months and would flirt constantly. There was clea... (451 words)

Should we carry on or just walk on different paths? We still have feelings for each other, but is that really enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this - whoever you are. I've been with my husband for 3 years. We come from different continents, but met while I was traveling in his country. We traveled together and it was fun at the beginning as we were just gettin... (364 words)

I still love him, I like the sex but I can't move on if this carries on can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend messed me around so much that I ended our relationship. But now I'm in a friends with benefits relationship with him, and even though our sex is great, and we get on better then we ever did together, I feel like I'll never get over our break up or our fights w... (469 words)

Is our relationship really over? Is it selfish of me to want more from our relationshhip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for four years since I was 16; we met in college and now he is university and I work full time. The past year we have both had our problems with families, mine has been awful and he is the light in all of it and what makes me happy. The thing is ... (377 words)

Why does so much of porn refer to women by using demeaning names for the women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I was reading some other posts here and it got me thinking. Why does so much of porn refer to women by using demeaning names? I can't really repeat the titles as children may read her but even the biggest most popular sites have titles that refer to the women as b^^ches and ... (63 words)

Wife refuses intimacy, except for procreation. Threatens to deny access to children. I can't put up with her behaviour. What can I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

19 May 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - It started almost the first month we were married, there was no intimacy. After years of no intimacy and no physical contact in our relationship, I was very resentful. The only time we had intimacy or physical contact was when she wanted children, which we had 5 attempts... (237 words)

Do I unfriend her? Talk to my Bf? My Bf has been avoiding me for last few months. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.. i've added one of my classmates as my friend on facebook. she came to know who my boyfriend is from my relationship status on facebook. within a week since i'd added her on fb i'd noticed some changes in my boyfriend's attitude towards me... i felt like he is avoiding m... (129 words)

Is it time to end this relationship? He only seems to care about getting sex for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I am here to share a problem that I am going through. My relationship with my boyfriend is going through a very rough patch, and I want to know what exactly should I do in this situation. I am dating this guy and he is my first and always love. Its been 6 year... (607 words)

I think my GF has a romance phobia. Should I give my gf some more time, or how best to handle the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

19 May 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girl friend for just over a year now. We have an excellent relationship and we are happy together. I am in my thirties and she is in mid twenties and we have a 10 years of difference. I love everything about her. She is a lot different that other girls... (236 words)

Should I just go ahead and divorce? Is he likely to cheat again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been married for 13 years. Today my husband confesses he has cheated on my twice. He says whatever my verdict is, I am his only love and will always be. I am sure that this is the first time and I regret that we are apart now as I moved to work in a different city. ... (93 words)

How can he say he likes me but he doesn't 'like' my photos on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

19 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupids, I have a guy I like and I was just wondering if this is normal behavior... so there's this guy who i like and who likes me but we are friends. lately i have noticed that he likes all the photos belonging to the girls in his Facebook friend list except mine.... (114 words)