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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do men want kids as much as women? Can men have a strong desire for children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Is a man's desire to have kids as strong as a woman' s? Obviously this requires a bit of generalisation - there are plenty of women that don't want kids, and plenty of men that do - but are men generally a bit more ambivalent towards kids?... (48 words)

I do trust him, but I am uncomfortable with it. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We have a great relationship. We communicate openly and generally its a very loving and honest relationship. He's visiting his family in the US. We both live in another country but are planning to move the... (386 words)

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the beginning. Just wondering if the... (89 words)

How can I stop obsessing about what I did 18 months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I would like some advice. I have a bit of a rumination problem, and have been a big over thinker since being a child. I am torn apart at the minute over guilt I am carrying from an incident that happened a year and a half ago. My partner and I are engaged,... (1317 words)

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless to say I come here often to ve... (352 words)

Want my ex boyfriend back but how. running out of ways

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up since April. I have tried all I can think of to get him back etc told him how I feel, asked him out again stopped being as needy. Alot of girls always try and flirt with him alot. I like him alot even though we was only together a short period. ... (144 words)

My ex and I talk/text sexual things but he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My son's father and I are not together anymore. We haven't been for over a year. He's had another gf for about a year. I've been single since we ended things. About 6 months ago, he and I were talking and things started to go in a sexual direction. Nothing happened but ... (196 words)

My boyfriend never wants to go anywhere or do anything with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I be been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years we used to every thing together and we always found something to do together. But now we do nothing at all. I always have to do things by myself because he never wants to leave this house unless its to go see his ... (162 words)

Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly the older a guy gets and he ... (176 words)

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last year but I've begun to wonder whe... (468 words)

Why does my boyfriend barely keep in touch while he is out of town? is it suspicious? It's upsetting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is away for four days visiting his mother in California. We were together for the whole week before he left. We really bonded and had an amazing time together. Fast forward to the day after he gets to California. He emails to let me know he got there and... (769 words)

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though she had moved overseas, he sti... (759 words)

Why is this happening? Anything I've said has sparked an argument this week.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been arguing since Monday and its now Saturday. I booked a week off from work to redecorate my room back home where I'll be moving back to in September. Early Monday when it came to me getting ready to leave, my boyfriend asked if I could take him t... (154 words)

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he himself was vaccinat... (88 words)

Is there any chance we could end up with a deeper relationship? Am I fool thinking I can wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Figure I might just see if any old souls can offer wisdom. Almost a year ago now, I met a girl in an interesting state of mind, who recently broke up with her boyfriend. We work together at a late night restaurant which I rent an apartment above, and I would often run into h... (443 words)

He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywhere else just because i sent h... (146 words)

Will he really choose love over religion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3462 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice. Its tearing me apart. I am a 20 year old non religious female student living in the UK, my current partner is a 19 year old male Muslim student living in the same city as myself. We are head over heals in love with each other and have been together ... (832 words)

Should I message him? Did I put him off by being a bit aloof in my response to his slightly gushing message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age - Hello I met a man through mutual friends and he contacted me via Facebook to ask me to join him at an event. I said yes and we then spent the week before the event messaging each other every day - I suppose getting to know each other. He is 60 and in the process of gett... (532 words)