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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I let go of my guilt? ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry guys, this is a long one lol. So I have been with my fiance now since we were fourteen( i am now 21). He is amazing and I cant describe how much I love him. I am getting married next july and we are expecting our first child together. We couldnt be happier and he will ... (717 words)

Wife of 5 years says her heart was always with someone else

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I’m just devastated by the news that I just received, and just wondering if I can get perspective from other men and women. My wife and I have been married for 5 years, together for 7. I accepted her 2 children from her previous marriage with open arms and love them like m... (959 words)

He talks about kissing and I get nervous. Is this a sign of attraction/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I am 25 years old and recently, I met a guy on an online dating site. I am taking caution and so far, I find his personality, mindset, and attitude decent enough to continue getting to know him. But I am unclear as to why I get nervous and really shy whenever he ment... (125 words)

I have gained weight and my health obsessive MIL is coming for a visit!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother-in-law, let’s call her Mildred, is coming for a visit. My husband and she simply do not get along, sad fact. But, right now I need your advice on how to survive her obsession with physical beauty/looks/exercise/food, having in mind that I have 13 pound MORE than the ... (636 words)

How do I express my feelings to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3466 days ago

22 May 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupids, Iam almost 19 now and falling in love is common at these stages. The same happened with me. this girl entered in my life as an angel. she is awesome. whenever she is around ,my world goes upside down. I think she too likes me as many times I caught her staring at ... (94 words)

Is it true that you might not deliver a healthy baby after age 35?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Ive got this problem thats get on the way of my life when i think of it. Ive lost my boyfriend 2 years ago from suicide so since then i haven't had anyone in my life. Im so in need of love as im scared i might end up alone or without kids. I was expecting to get ... (130 words)

I'm not at peace knowing he lives with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am divorced and live with my kids. I met this guy 7 months ago and we just clicked right away. When we met,I asked him about his relationship status,to which he told me he is unmarried but has been on an on/off relationship. It never occured to me that there was a chance that ... (350 words)

My husband and porn..he has me..so why does he need that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so inadequate and undesired. I've been dealing with something for about a year now. I'm in a relationship for about 5 years and sex was so amazing the best I've had but in this last year it's taking a nose dive. I need some ideas and some input. I'm gonna start with ... (287 words)

If they arent legally his, should they be his heirs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 10 years, living together for 7, with no plans for marriage. That part is fine with me actually. I have 2 sons who are currently 15 and 18, so BF has pretty much raised them and is their Father figure. His 3 nephews have always ... (348 words)

She says she don't remember her ex boyfriends sizes. Could it be?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

22 May 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I am with a girl for about 5 yrs. I like her very much and our sexual life was very beautiful, until 3 months before, when disaster came. Here is what happened: I had never asked her anything about her past, I knew only what she had told me herself without me asking anything... (763 words)

Am I evil because I want a second opinion from another counselor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have started seeing a couples counselor again. It was my idea because I thought us having guidance was a good idea. However, the issues I brought up I wasn't happy with the counselor may not have seen the whole picture. Straight up, I don't like how often he plays ... (414 words)

I want to shut my brother out of my life but my family will not give up on him? How do I still shut him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am not after romantic relationship advice, but family relationships. I have a brother. I will start from the beginning so you can advise knowing absolutely everything there is to know. He went to the army when he was 17 and was there for 6 months before he... (738 words)

Things have been volatile. She's been a flirt with someone one else. I've been angry. So where to now with our relationship? .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - HI people. I need advice. I accidentally found a message from my girlfriend that a guy sent her asking "what she would like him to do ;)". setting aside the winky face, this could have been innocent or harmless flirting,so I waited to see if she deleted the text or replied.... (1014 words)

He says nothing is wrong but always has excuses for not contacting me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy on a dating site. He texts me often and we decided to meet in real life. A few days after we've both returned to our various countries he starts to ignore me. We had so much fun times together. He's active on facebook and Whatsapp but won't talk to me like he ... (103 words)

Its going on 2 years, we've never met and he won't respond to my questions of "what are we"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in this Long-distance "relationship" for more than over 1 yr., almost 2. I'm 21 and he's 26, we met on an app and have been talking ever since. Yes we have seen each other so there's no cat fishing here. He lives more up north and I live way down south. We have ... (508 words)

I'm tired of my boyfriend's mother blaming me when he does something wrong

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm tired of my mother in law (MOD NOTE: technically boyfriend's mom..they aren't married) I have been living with her for 2 years now but one thing she does in particular annoys the shit out of me whenever my boyfriend her son posses her off I get the ugly faces, silent ... (111 words)

A girl texted me saying that my b/f asked for her number. I don't know how to talk to him about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I need to speak to my boyfriend about something that has previously caused problems in the past in our relationship. The problem is, and it may sound stupid, but I don't know how to tell him. Basically, a girl has messaged me and said that my boyfriend had asked for her nu... (186 words)

Why does my boyfriend have to drink every night to be happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3471 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been living in our new house for 6 months. However, he lives away Monday to Friday during the week. When he comes home he always drinks. the minimum is 3 cans if he comes home during the week, but at the weekend it's always more, and goes onto harder ... (140 words)

I'm being pushed into a marriage that I don't want! I want out but don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents have seen a guy for me to get married.That guy is my relative. he is 10 years older to me.i felt it as so odd.Im 23 and he is 32.We never really talked or met much.All my relatives and my parents forced and brainwashed me to accept that guy.I said I want to meet him ... (303 words)

He just stopped responding. Should I text him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy I like a lot and we were both at a party and we danced the entire night together and we kissed too. That night after we separated, he snapchated me which I responded to for a while and then a day later he texted me and we talked back and forth for a couple of ... (173 words)

Why after all this time - does he still show such hatred towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I've heard about men and women falling out on bad terms due to affairs, jealousies etc - but can someone please explain the hatred still shown to me by this guy? The thing is - I am single and got close to a guy who fancied me, last year, nothing really happened ... (373 words)

What is he trying to imply? He sent me back a message saying ''love,love,serve''

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I wrote this man and said we are attracted to each other, he wrote me back and said love, love, serve. I know that is a tennis term, but what does he mean?... (34 words)

Where does all of my boyfriend's money go? He gets angry when I ask him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend. He loves me. We've been together for a year and lived together since 3 months of dating. I lost my last boyfriend who I lived with my all heart to a drug problem I was helping him fight for years. My boyfriend was with one girl for 10 years and they have a ... (274 words)

How can I change him over to being just my buddy, instead of his snuggle buddy? It's just snuggles and cuddles, nothing more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3459 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this casual snuggle buddy thing going on, but I think I'm taking advantage of him? something seems unbalanced in my mind. Anyways we've been friends for about three months and oddly enough we started out being cuddle buddies. which is odd for both of us seeing as he... (405 words)

Can someone explain this co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

22 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My male co worker refuses my help with at work. I don't really ask him if he needs help but if I walk by him he will wait for about 5 or 10 minutes until someone else comes along. It's really simple things too, like can I help watch his class or help him with a student. If I do ... (101 words)