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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my Father is making a huge mistake! There is red flag after red flag with her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My Father is making a huge mistake. My Mom died over 12yrs ago and my Father has remained single for the most part. He is now in his 70's and met a woman 30 yrs younger. She is actually only a few months younger than my oldest brother. I disapprove because she won't meet ... (202 words)

How to avoid conflict with someone who does evrything to provoke one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my mother-in-law. She has great qualities. Being a good mother is not among them. Repeating a bad relationship she had with her father, she created one with her husband (who's no angel by any means) and in the end one with her son. She simply cannot live in harmony. She ... (736 words)

My boyfriend lied about hanging out with a group of female friends. Do I dump him or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend lied and told me he had to work all day and he ended up instead going to a beer festival thing with a group of female friends he has . Should I dump him for lying ? I don't understand why he didn't tell me or why I was not invited ? His best friend is a women and I ... (162 words)

I think I want time to myself for a bit so I can be me, not have to answer to no one as I cant go anywhere without telling someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my other half have been in a relationship for 10 years, I'm 26 and he's 31, we have 2 kids together, he also has 3 from a previous relationship! I have recently started up my own business and I am also studying at the moment which is very hard to juggle and wouldn't have ... (406 words)

Why hasn't she reciprocated and told me she loves me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

6 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - I told my GF I loved her two months ago and she hasnt reciprocated. Weve been together since dec 2014. She has not gotten distant only closer to me. I havent asked her why as im not a soft wuss im just wondering if she needs more consistent action from me so she reciprocates? ... (67 words)

My bf wants me to come out but I feel that I can't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 May 2015 (M) age 36-40 - So I'll try to make this post as short as possible. I'm 31 years old gay guy ! I live a very conservative city , I work as an academic staff in a University. I'm in love with a young 23 years guy We have a very strong relationship (8 months ) but our problem is that he i... (501 words)

Could we be together again? Does she really want to just stay friends after all that's happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Everyone I'm coming to you for some help on if there's any hope for me and the girl I'm in love with. To try and make a long story short about a year ago I was engaged and that girl ended up leaving me, I bottled those emotions up which led to problems with me fu... (715 words)

I believe in him, but is this level of jealousy healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So, can someone let me know whats really going on in my relationship? Long story short, my boyfriend and I came from one job we were working together to a new company. I got hired first, my bf started complaining that I get things easy, although he knows I'm hard worker. ... (582 words)

Should my Mom and I continue to share the same boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2591 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My mom A fell pregnant at 15 and dropped out of school. She later completed her matric and qualified as a nurse. While my mother was studying my grandparents cared for me. My mother did not neglect me but regretted that she could not give me all the attention she wanted to. i... (321 words)

My partner is a full time carer for her mum. How will this affect our life together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend now cares for her mum full time. Her Mum has lupus and other health problems. she lives close by and has a one bedroom flat and her mum is in a one bedroom flat that is warden controlled. thing is though my partner is her full time carer and gets paid and given up... (170 words)

If we split up I would be completely alone as all my friends live far away. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and I worry that were no longer compatible together anymore. We are doing completely different things, he is in university and I work full time. I do get frustrated when every day he doesn’t get up till mid-day and he hasn’t go... (465 words)

Though I am married, is it wrong to have this kind of non-sexual friendship relationship with this other man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married and have a son aged 10 yrs. My husband and I were best friends in college and eventually discovered love. since we belonged to the same community parents too didnt oppose. but post marriage my mother in law who is a widow and my sister in law gave a lot of trouble ... (327 words)

Is it sex that he's after, or am I just projecting my past experiences onto this courtship?,

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a second date with this guy I met online and he's pressuring me to invite him to my place. I don't know him, so I said no. He was very persistent, and said he's not looking for sex. Anyway, I didn't let him in, but needless to say, I didn't feel comfortable.... (153 words)