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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Would you be ok with your husband going to single female friend's house to hang out alone with her? Husband has done this more than once without telling me and i've just found out. He promises nothing is going on with her and that he just wasn't there long and thinks I'm overreacting because we've had a fight about it Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (18 May 2015):
 NO you are definitely not overreacting.
It is inappropriate behaviour and not acceptable. He is trying to make out that you are crazy and irrational... How would he have acted if you were visiting a single man? I have no doubt he would have accused you of having an affair and booted you out of the house!
Follow him the next time he goes visiting... see for yourself what's going on... then make the decision, either he chooses you or her... if he chooses her... file for Divorce!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2015): Short answer?
NO, it isn't OKAY.
Under any circumstances... IF you value your marriage and want to keep it intact.
ESPECIALLY NOT OKAY in your case where your husband is keeping secrets!
He thinks YOU are over reacting because YOU found out about it. He is turning the tables trying to make YOU feel guilty when in fact HE is the one who is guilty.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 May 2015):
 Have you met this friend? Do you trust your husband?
Have you told him that you would LIKE to know what he is up to, generally speaking, not an itinerary?
You ask if I would be OK with it? Yes, I'm his wife NOT his keeper, but my husband would let me know - just to avoid drama like you two are dealing with now.
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