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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Although we have broken up, could he really still be in love with her and me concurrently? I know I have to let go, but I feel a connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Last July my relationship broke up as my partner fell in love with another girl. We have stayed in touch and I have forgiven him. Long story, but basically he say he still loves me and misses me. Truth is some feelings were stirred recently when he declared how muc... (490 words)

My sex drive is such that I want to sleep around but I know that will hurt my boyfriend, and might make him depressed. What can I do about my libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a really uncomfortable situation. I've been with my bf for 3 years with one break. During the break I had sex with two people and dated a person online for a few weeks. I just really wanted to get something out of my system. I have had a long term boyfriend one af... (189 words)

What can I do to make this right? Because nothing in our relationship seems right any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner and I have been together three years and the 1st year was perfect but since i fell pregnant all went down hill. We used to have sex regular now its once a month, he tells me i make him ill, i'm a bad mum, i moan too much, i'm no good at driving, i'm too happy at... (216 words)

Straight guy getting turned on by looking at another man's junk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

9 May 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend has always had a fantasy of a guy joining us during sex. Recently I finally have in and agreed but still uneasy about it. That night she found a guy through an agency. He had a huge dick and after my gf had her fun, he began to jerk off and I immediately got ... (87 words)

How does a person stop caring about another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - In the beginning of our relationship things were great. A few things came up that caught me off guard, like the fact that he took both of his best (female) friend's virginity, although there was no romantic feelings involved. He also had never been in a serious relationship ... (300 words)

What do you think about coincidences?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

9 May 2015 (M) age 41-50 - I know , it's i not about relationships, but maybe I will find some good answers. So I'm a very logical person, and studied science and psychology for many years. I m not religious. My biggest issue is , that coincidences are driving me crazy. I refuse magical thinking... (134 words)

My husband and I agreed not to spend another Mother's Day with his mother, but she won't stop asking us to come over!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I don't know what to do anymore, his mom and sister always make plans whenever holiday is near even going on vacations and if we got plans they will get angry saying we are selfish and don't want to spend times with them. It's driving both of us angry coz they ... (313 words)

Why do some affairs last longer than others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some extra marital affairs last for only a short time, for example, a couple of months or weeks or just a one night stand? As opposed to affairs which last for years and are still going strong? What is the difference? Just curious why some seem to keep going whil... (67 words)

Should I have to pay my ex gf any money back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (M)

age - My gf moved in with me 2 years ago. She didn't like the way my house was decorated and insisted I get it re-decorated. I own the house. I certainly couldn't afford the whole cost, and my gf earns pretty well. We agreed to split the cost, at £5000 each. 2 years later an... (117 words)

Clearly we have some kind of emotional affair going on but what now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy 3yrs ago through a mutual friend, there seemed to be an instant attraction on both sides the chat was flowing and then he slips out that he has a girlfriend, gutted! Anyway I decided right then to back off. He lives over 2 hrs away anyway so didn't think any... (474 words)

Any tips to help a male virgin become a man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

9 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 24 and I'm a male virgin who hasn't kissed a girl and hasn't been on a date. I really would like to change that, I wish I could be a stud. It's a little bit difficult since I'm far from tall, dark and handsome. Even the girls in my size and looks range turn me down. Th... (238 words)

I'm starting to worry about our relationship. How can it last the summer considering our communication issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am 14 and in a almost 4 month relationship with a guy that I like very much, I feel like I love him. Anyways, the reason I am here is because since the beginning of the relationship we we both really liked each other but we're sort of awkward and quiet around each oth... (483 words)

I'm broken, my husband is watching daddy-daughter porn

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2330 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry if you get this twice I tried to do it secretly but closed out before I got the secret code. So I signed up to ask my question. My husband has battled porn all his life porn addiction isn't new to this family or the emotional effect it has on my husband and the family. ... (179 words)

He asked for 2 months of space. Should I give it to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Its about my boyfriend who left me when i was pregnant and came.back when our son turning to 1 years old. I accepted him for he sincerely asked my parents forgiveness and acceptance. He brought his family to my parents to talk about marriage thing. We decided to get married ... (173 words)

Is it alright for my boyfriend to be his single friend's wingman?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend went out with a male friend and two other girls tonight. I considered that a double date. He said it's not, he was just the 'wingman'. I don't know exactly what a 'wingman' is, so I searched Urban Dictionary. The definition it gives me is "A wingman is a guy... (200 words)

Why does she love me so much!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 2 1/2 years loves me endlessly despite everything we have been through. Our road has been rough but its always my fault. I've lied to her, cheated on her, left her and she always welcomes me back with open arms. Why?! I've told her she needs to be with somebody ... (240 words)

Are people today really so damaged by the porn culture that they can't even see the difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about porn . Often I see the argument that potn is no differnet to a woman watching movies or novels . However this fails to address the fact that porn is largely based around glorifying calling women bakes like slurs whites and butches and often times ... (213 words)

My Wife Is So Boring and Lazy in Sex Now - Anyone Else Have a Partner Like This?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3476 days ago

9 May 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 07 (seven) years. I love my wife but sex has gotten boring. Don't get me wrong, if SHE would want to do it like we used to it would not be boring for me. I always try to 'get it going' the "old way" but she just makes me not want to do anything... H... (373 words)

I am struggling with severe financial stress. How can I cope with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

9 May 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Hey guys getting straight to the story, I've been in a bad financial situation for some time now. First off, I am In my mid 20's and I have big student loans and some other debt, like lots of people. My problem is I seem to be really struggling, and none of my family can he... (301 words)

How can I overcome my fear of receiving love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3484 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I think that I have a fear of receiving love, which has basically held me back for years having a relationship with men that i did fancy and were interested in me but the fear of receiving love stopped me. Does anyone have any advice on solving this fear?... (50 words)

Dating for 2 months. How should I respond to her very hesitant attitudes about sex? She's a virgin and aged 36.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

9 May 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - My new girlfriend of 2 months is a virgin and found this out when I tried to take our relationship a little further. She started crying and said that she would find it embarrasing to have sex with me and just kept on saying that she says that when I will see her naked that I w... (142 words)

Where do I stand with this guy? He didn't ask me out after our third date.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

9 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello All, I have been talking to this guy from work almost 3 weeks. On our 2nd date, I made a mistake bringing it up where was his craziest place to have sex? Since that time he started to text me that he wants to hold me ... Etc Last wednesday, i waited him to le... (262 words)