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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm m a 20 year old male currently sharing a house with two other guys. we're all in college. So I am gay but the guys don't know about this as I have only ever told a few people. One the guys is HOT and the other is also quite attractive, I often catch the two of them making eye contact or mouthing words to each other across the room or sometimes it seems as if they text each other while we're all in the same room, weird, right? So anyway last weekend I went out with some mates for a few pints I went a bit over the top and had to go home early. When I got back to the house all of the downstairs lights were off and there was no sign of anyone. I tiptoed my way up the stairs when I herd noises coming from the HOT guys room, the lights seemed to be off in there as well but there was light coming from a laptop. I could just about see in the reflection of a mirror what looked like him getting head from someone. The thought of this made me very aroused it continued for a little longer when it seemed the were finished I quickly made my way back to my own room. I waited by the window to see if I knew who the person was when they were leaving. However I herd his door opening and closing but the footsteps didn't go down the stairs, they went straight across the hallway into the other bedroom!!! OMFG I literally could not believe what had just happened :) This all happened last week and I can't stop thinking about it since, should I bring it up or wait until the next time it happens? I would love to be involved in this. Please let me know whet I should do!
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reader, deirdre +, writes (5 November 2014):
Just because they are gay/bisexual and fancy each other, doesnt mean they necessarily want a third party. I dont mean this in an offensive way. They might be embarrassed, one or both might have a girlfriend or they might want to keep this a secret for any number of reasons.
Even if you were not gay, I would advise against having relationships/sex with your housemates, if things go sour it could be very awkward living with the person(s). Bear in mind that this is just november, if such a thing happened you dont want to be feeling awkward around these people for the rest of the academic year.
Best wishes
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