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30-35,
*nnamartinezb
writes:hello there. my name is Anna. I have a good guy friend. I never thought of falling for him. But i think now i do. Recently he graduated for his bachelor degree. A week before, he asked me to come to his graduation ceremony even for minutes and also asking me to bring a gift and flowers. But on that day, i'd prepared everything and ready to see him. Unfortunately I couldn't reach him. i called, texted, and did everything but he didn't even answered my phone call. I feel sad and realized that i might started to like him. I know he just not that into me. But he did say sorry to me and promise to make it up. He once told me before he liked the way i am and he thinks i'm kinda cute. He even told me that he feel comfortable around me and said he can be his real self whenever around me. RIght now my head is so messed up and felt so low especially when seeing his graduation photos with his friends and also female friends. Why he asked me to come when he didn't even bother to look at his phone. I feel stupid. and i don't think i want to see him again. I think i'm a nice girl, but why must i fall for him, a wrong guy right?
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (4 November 2014):
Falling for the wrong guy is not stupid. Knowing he is the wrong guy and still trying to have a relationship with him...That makes you stupid.
Knowing he is the wrong guy and staying away from him...That makes you wise, and keeps your heart and time for the right person.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 November 2014):
 He tells you to BUY flowers and a gift to come to his graduation? Seriously?
IF he cared a fly's fart about you he would have said I would LOVE for you to be there, here is the time and place. Not tell you BUY me flowers and BUY me a gift and come.
And a GUY would NOT ignore your calls/text IF he really cared about you. (unless you were texting/calling during the ceremony)
I think he wanted you there so he would have a larger "crowd" of adoring "fans". Not because he really cares for you.
You tried. He ignored you. Now it's time to let him do his thing without you.
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