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writes: The guy I am interested (and I gather is interested in me) in has said, via someone I know, that he likes warm people, but how does a warm person act? Does he mean someone who is warm on an emotional level, a physical level, or both? He also doesn’t like it when people put on a front or throw themselves at each another, so what sort of behaviour would be appropriate to show him I am a warm person who is very interested in him but not too full-on? I am very shy so I think I am giving the impression that I am unfriendly, but I am really a very friendly person once I get to know someone. Any techniques I can use to get over my shyness and display my warmth would be greatly appreciated. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005): since you gather that he is interested in you back, i would suppose that you are already doing something right.
i think that by liking "warm people" this guy is referring to people who are friendly and make him feel comfortable.
you say that he doesn't like it when people "put up a front" and i am assuming that means being fake. in that case, if you are pretending to be someone you are not, it is going to be obvious and he will be able to see right through you.
my advice is to just try your best to relax when you are in his presence. don't overdo it, or you will wind up acting silly and will seem awkward and uncomfortable. just keep doing what you are doing, and smiling a lot never hurt anyone. best of luck!
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