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writes: Last year everyone knew we were in love and he would cry over me when i would break up with him or mad at him. He cried over me before we went out because he wanted to be with me so badly. His parents even heard him cry even his boys saw him cry but he didn't care. but this year he broke up with me and i was heart broken. After about a week we started to talk again. But, he got mad at me because i was walking to class with other guy. He got mad at me so like i thought we were through. I made with one of my ex's. I told him about it and he got mad at me and didn't talk to me for another week. Now, we will be okay for two days, but if he see me with other guy he doesn't talk to me and will never tell me why he is mad at me. My friends see him staring at me in the hallways and when I am around he tries and flirt with girls in front of me. But I am not really the jealous type. He keeps getting mad at me and now i am fed up with it. He been mad at me for about other week again and I haven't talked to him and my friends say he trying and trying to get you to notice him. He makes his voice louder and tries to flirt with a girl when i am looking in that direction. Sorry that is long but my questions is why is he looking at me and trying to get my attention? and what should i do about him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2006): I think that you should take a brake , but dont look for another guy you need time to think but alone but if you really like this guy just tell him .
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (15 December 2005):
 First, you say he use to cry over you when you would break up with him, I am taking that to mean the relationship before he broke up with you had some problems in it, and it sounds like making him cry was important to you as you mentioned it a lot, perhaps you saw it as a way to know how much he cared about you. I really think he wants you to notice him, maybe because it seems to him that you moved on very quickly with your ex and he wants to show you that he is moving on as well. Another possibility is that he wants you back, but it doesn't sound like that would be the best thing for either of you. I honestly believe that there should be no contact between people after they break up, provided that there are no children involved (which I know is not your case). The constant need to contact ex's only prolongs the healing process for every one involved and fuels the fire for jealousy. Don't talk to him, don't answer if he calls, just be done, he will move on once he sees that he is not getting a reaction from you. Good luck and take care.
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reader, pops +, writes (15 December 2005):
He sounds very immature, and is acking like a spoiled brat. He wants to be the center of everyone's attention. Ignore him, and find someone more our own level of maturity to date. This guy has way too many problems for you to be involved with him. He can't love you, or anyone else, as he is too much in love with himself.
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