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I need advice on my first kiss.
Q. Me and my boyfriend are planing on have our fist kiss and I'm terrified I don't no what to do! Help?!...
A. 29 December 2009: By planing it you're spoiling the element of surprise and the thrill and excitement of a 1st kiss. The best thing to do is let ur imagination take over and when its time it should happen naturally.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when someone says this?
Q. ..what doess it mean if someone says that they dnt ever want to lose you,and they will never hurt you,and when they say" i love you with all my heart"and when they say"we have a special bond"..and when they say"they will never leave you"...
A. 29 December 2009: You're being gased or maybe he actually means it either way you'll find out.... (read in full...)
5 months later we find out she's pregnant after cheating
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me and got pregnant.......she didn't know she was pregnant until five months later..........if u were in my shoes would u forgive her or leave. We tryn to work it out going to counseling and all. Am I'm a bigger man by tryn ...
A. 29 December 2009: Move on bro,she cheated and now she's prego and it ain't yours.... (read in full...)
Could she be avoiding me?
Q. I need some help. There's this girl who i really like. She told me that she has a crush on me and i took advantage of it. She is still not my girlfriend. We have been fine these past months but i can't help to think that she's avoding me. She never ...
A. 28 December 2009: Had a similar case like yours and what i did was, stop calling and texting her and after a few days she sent me a message asking why? lol! i suggest you do the same bro, don't act clingy or needy.... (read in full...)
Help!!! Why did she reject me?
Q. hello guys girl 1 (girl I like) umm... I told this girl i like her, and she was like wow and then 2 weeks later i asked her who she likes and she said she likes nobody.. after 4 weeks, my friend (girl)came up to me and told me that she knows th...
A. 12 December 2009: Bro, you should have created attraction first,the only reason why she rejected you was because you came too strong. However this experience has tought you the art of knowing when to attack. ... (read in full...)
When she is out of sight she is always on my mind
Q. Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me ...
A. 6 December 2009: I understand the kind of position that you' re in bro , but the thing is that you have no proof to justify your suspicion , What i suggest you do is chill out a bit, she knows how you feeel and i applaud you for making that clear to her. If ... (read in full...)
More than friends: Tells me he loves me, now we don't even talk any more
Q. I have been close friends with this guy for about 3/4 years now, and twice in the years i've known him hes came out and said that he likes me more than a friend; both times it went nowhere and we continued as friends, then recently about 2 weeks ago ...
A. 30 November 2009:
yea hold your grounds. i mean he came up to you and told you all that good-stuff right? if your answer is "YES" then all you have to do is back of a little and if he's serious about you then he'll man-up and do what he's supposed to be doing inst... (read in full...)
Before its too late how do I tell her my feelings?
Q. i'm gonna try to keep it short... i really like this girl and we get on amazingly, she broke up with her boyfriend recently and since then we've spoken loads more. She calls me a friend and i think she's too beautiful to fall for me, should i tell ...
A. 30 November 2009: Hell yea! tell her bro. just make sure you know that since she has just broken up with her bf, it might be a bad hand for you, due that she is fragile in such a moment and might lead you on now, and break-up later when she has cool down and misses ... (read in full...)
What do I get my 15 year old b/f for xmas?
Q. hi i have a 15 year old booyfriend and i cant think of a single thing to get him for christmas. we will be together for 8 months in december. so any ideas on what to get him?...
A. 30 November 2009: ps3 xb360 or if he owns any of these consoles find out which genre of games he's into and get him a copy of a videogame.... (read in full...)
Why do women do such things?
Q. Hi everyone, I don't know why I don't listen to what people tel me. I'd love to know a reason for my stupidity. I fell in love wit ha girl who has a boyfriend. She also fell in love with me. As a fact, yesterday she was at my place. Wonder what...
A. 30 November 2009: Man-up and move on. You knew she had a man and you still went for it, plus what in the hell was wrong with you texting her all those things after an hour? you were bound to fall face flat after doing so, this is what your text sounded like when she ... (read in full...)
He stole my girl but says he will find me a new one!
Q. hey my story began 1 year ago i used to had 2 best friendz and we used to share everything even our emails so the contacts are the same. one day one of them gave me a girl email because he said he had fighted with her and he dont wanna to talk with ...
A. 29 November 2009: Nah, play it like an outlaw. just move on and act like it was nothing at all. You knew he had a thing with her before you, plus whenever a girl tells you not to bring a friend, don't. You killed your chance by doing so. What i suggest you do i find ... (read in full...)
Need to get over this lonely feeling...help!
Q. I wonder had anyone of you felt this before? It is really a difficult emotional struggle for me whenever I see my friends or people of my age getting attach one after another now and it makes me realise the fact that I am still alone. I do hope to ...
A. 29 November 2009: lol! don't rush, just take your time and socialise a little. there are a lot of people in a relationship and a handfull of them ain't as happy as you are, trust me. It's natural to feel that way.... (read in full...)
Should I get the morning after pill just to be on the safe side?
Q. Last night I got extremely drunk at a party and ended up having sex with one of my guy friends. We used protection, because I remember that I insisted on it, and even when he pulled out we kept the condom on until he came, but i'm worried about what ...
A. 29 November 2009: Hell yea. just toget rid of any doubts. Condoms cannot be trusted.... (read in full...)
How do suggest to my girlfriend that I'd prefer it if she shaved down there...?
Q. I was intimate with my girlfriend the other night, it was great. But her it was really hairy down there and i thought it as a turn off. I'd prefer it shaved like, it would feel 'nicer'. But i dont know how to go about asking her. It's no big deal, I ...
A. 29 November 2009: Tell her you want to see what it would look like if she shaved it, and when she does, tell that you would prefer it stays that way. lol! you got to use some psycology it's preety simple bro!... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to go with my instincts and look in his phone?
Q. I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months and the other day for some reason, I looked at his text messages while he was in the shower, I found some messages from a girl who I think is an ex. She accused him of cheating on her, and she ...
A. 29 November 2009: Yes you were wrong to snick around and check his phone. you should have asked him or better yet if he was cheating you would know, nothing stays in the dark forever. Now all you have done is give him an opportunity to make you feel guilty even tho ... (read in full...)
I am foxy and gorgeous, and hot for my nerdy cousin
Q. alright so im a pretty gorgeous 19 year old 5 foot three 105 pound outgoing hilarious fun foxy lady haha basically iv never in my life have had an issue in dateing. Guys love me i get them wrapped round my little finger haha :) my issue is i total...
A. 29 November 2009: lol! one word INCEST. do not do it because it's one of those things you wish you shouldn't had done.... (read in full...)
Houston, I think I have a "space" problem
Q. what does it mean when my wife says 'i need my own space'?...
A. 29 November 2009: means she wants to dump yuo or it could means she needs some space to think things through and handle some personal problems in he life. i know that this could be quite uneasy situation for you, but i want you to give her the space she wants and ... (read in full...)
My ex is blocking me on MSN and facebook and I don't know why
Q. this might take long so please bare with me my ex is not talking to me and is ignoring me. we went out for 6 months and broke up 8 months ago and we were really good friends and we talked alot. she lives down south now so we text eachother and ...
A. 29 November 2009: I really don't know why you should be buthered by her acts. relly all you should do is move on. wasting time on this issue isn't going to do you any good.... (read in full...)
I want marriage but he wont be threatened into it
Q. I realised i have been pressurizing my bf for marriage from the second month of our relationship partly because i thought that would work. i also tried being a doormat (cooking, cleaning, washing and trying to be a wife)in order to make him realise ...
A. 29 November 2009: Quit acting desperate and let everything fall into place. if you force him to marry you when he isn't ready you'll end you getting hurt. Just ease off a bit and focus on building up a strong relationship first.... (read in full...)
Why do girls lead guys on?
Q. Ive liked this girl for a few months now but only recently have i worked up the courage to ask her for her number, which she gave to me. We ended up txting each other all night and connected really well and our night ended with her coming over ...
A. 29 November 2009: Dude if she wants you to back-off then you have to. take my word for it, save yourself the pain and ease of.... (read in full...)
Will his record sabotage everything I worked for?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 22 years old with my BS in Criminal Justice. When I was 18 i worked for a Police Department and now currently work for another department. My parents have always been pretty strict with me, which has alot to do with my success....
A. 29 November 2009: It's normally for you to have such a question in mind, being that you know what you want and all. From my perspective, i think that he himself knows what's on the line here and the key to this solution is you. he loves you and trust me the thought ... (read in full...)
Is it only false hope, or is there really someone out there for everyone?
Q. ok alot of people say hold out there is somebody out there for everybody.. which is cliche to me. cuz wen i read alot of the post on this website even people of older age have complicated relationships and in real life alot of people go thru lives ...
A. 29 November 2009: There is someone out there for everyone. but you'll never find that person if you don't take a chance. don't be scared about anything, so what if you get hurt in the process? everyone has and that is how we learn and gain knowledge to improve our ... (read in full...)
I want to give him a 'hint' how can I do that?
Q. ok aunts heresthe problem, i really like my best friend and all the advice ive got is "ask him out" "be brave" "be confident in yourself" but then i asked some people on here and most have said boys like to do the chasing so i was just wondering if ...
A. 29 November 2009: My advise is to proceed with caution, do not act needy or clingy because it would only scare him away. Plus you don't have to worry about who does the chasing or not it really doesn't mean anything. So what if you have interest in him? All you have ... (read in full...)
Will my feelings for my boyfriend change after an FFM threesome?
Q. So I was WONDERING, if my boyfriend and I end up having a threesome, with another woman, whats the likely it'll bring us closer? Or I wont feel the same about him?...
A. 29 November 2009: lol! you're worried about the wrong thing. the question you should ask is if he will dump you and get with the other girl after all is done. there has been situation where the ending result is as such, so what i'll advise you to do is abstain from ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my girlfriend now she wants to video us having sex...
Q. My Girlfriend has been insisting on to video tape us having sex....I refused. She is kind of mad now. Yeah I asked her why....she said just for memory. I didnt buy that idea. After a couple of months or years I might be on porn sites. pls if u have ...
A. 29 November 2009: If you do not want to make a sex tape you should not venture. i really like how you're handelingg it because not every guy would have said "NO" to that, regardless of how they felt. So be a man and continue to NUT-UP about it, if she's really there ... (read in full...)
Suddenly she wants to slow things down. What's going on?
Q. Please help me, I feel so lost and helpless. Been with my beautiful lady for three years now, discussed wedding and living together etc. Happiest I have ever been in my life. Recently she tells me she cant love me properly, says we should cool...
A. 29 November 2009: My friend you are not alone on this. i had to go through the same thing. From my understanding, if she wants to slow things down then you have to ease of her a little bit. Be sure to ask her about why she has suddenly came to decide for a slow down ... (read in full...)
Husband never around and I'm falling for his friend
Q. hi all, have been married 2years and my husband is a doctor. he remains busy most of the time in his works and gives very less time in home. i tried to adjust in this for 2 years but this days its becoming hard for me. my husband is a good man ...
A. 27 November 2009: I say don't venture into cheating. ask yourself how you would feel if you found out that he cheats. you sound like a responsible partner and it will suck if you fall into the statistics of those mindless drones that use such an excuse as a security ... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to kiss her, to turn her on?
Q. Can someone please tell me some places that I should touch or kiss my girl to arouse her the most?...
A. 27 November 2009: lol! all you need is the neck and i've found out that girls love it when you roll your tongue in their ears also. just make sure you do it slow and lick it good and also be sure to breath in a way that provokes horniness. hope this helps you.... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with checking my girlfriend's page out on facebook... and don't like what I see
Q. my gf, im obsessed with her, and she has a pic of another guy on facebook she's sayin that he is the hottest guy in the world, and some other guy that she likes is mentioned as well . help me dudes...
A. 27 November 2009: Dude Facebook's like a pool full of shit. i've seen a lot of relationships fall due to senseless behaviours. check and see if this so called guy resides in the city she lives in. To be honest with you, i think that you should ease off just a liitle ... (read in full...)
I'm sure he didnt come in me, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. i had my period on 11th november [mine is irregular] and had unprotected sex on 21st november am i likely to be pregnant? what im sure of is that he didnt come in me coz i pushed him away....
A. 27 November 2009: As a guy this is what i know.
when males get too excited before sexual intercourse the genital produces pre-cum which is powerful enough to get a female pregnant as soon as he penetrates her. so regardless if he cums or not you might stiil get preg... (read in full...)
Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more l...
A. 27 November 2009: From my perspective, i think it all depends on the individual. I used to ask myself the same question and i don't know why society frowns up on this issue. As a guy when we bed a lot of females we get compliments from peers and others, girls on the ... (read in full...)
Does a boy feel pain when breaking a girl's hymen?
Q. hey i got a quick question, when a virgin girl and a non-virgin boy have sex does the boy feel any kind of pain breaking her hymen? When i lost my virginity to my boyfriend he told me that he felt pain too. What do they actually feel?...
A. 26 November 2009: well he might have some bruises later on but not when he's "in action" :) there's no pain for the guy just pleasure and maybe a little dis-comfort..... (read in full...)
Can people of different social class date?
Q. So for the past few weeks I have been talking to this extremely good looking guy in my sociology class. The other day I missed class to study for my criminal justice test and the following class he asked me why I was away. I told him the reason, he ...
A. 26 November 2009: It doesn't mattter your "social class" infact who cares what class you guys are in anyways? really? if you guys like eachother and see a potential of starting something fruitful, then go for it. social class is just society's way of creating ... (read in full...)
She's been lying, going out to wild parties and clubbing behind my back!
Q. Lately my girlfriend has been lying, and going out to wild parties and also clubbin behind my back. We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years now. We had broken up back in March because of this. We then got back together in July, and everything ...
A. 25 November 2009: Forget about not loosing her. if she's lying to you and it makes you feel hurt or sad then it ain't wort it. seems like you're putting in work and all you're getting is junk. what you should do for now is lay back a little, keep a low profile and be ... (read in full...)
She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?
Q. i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. ...
A. 24 November 2009: Guys i just want to say thanks for your help and advice. here's an update and i want to apologise for not telling you guys about this info before.
See before all of this started one of close friend told me that he knew her and she gets around, ... (read in full...)
What happens AFTER you tell someone your feelings and they just want to be friends?
Q. I need some advice dealing with a one-sided love I have. I work with this wonderful woman and we are good friends. We joke, flirt around, and play fight all the time. We listen to each other and give each other support. Over the last couple of ...
A. 24 November 2009: i give you props for being man enough to tell her what you felt, trust me it's better to get it out than keep it in and wonder what "IF". you did what any real man would and now, you have do respect her decision. my advise is, be scarse in her life ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out even though we are total opposites of each other?
Q. Look Im in the teen years I really want to ask this girl out be she is like the total opposite to me aka I am a computer expert but not that good in the looks department and she's a beautiful and has a good personality and humor so should I ask her ...
A. 24 November 2009: from my perspective i will advise you to go for it, no matter what the result is as long as you make a move. you don't want to spend your whole teenage life thinkiing about what "IF". plus you don't have anything to worry about looks because all you ... (read in full...)
She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?
Q. i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. ...
A. 23 November 2009: Lara C, not sure if we have a relationship yet and i don't want to come-out needy by asking her. my proble is what do i say to her tomrrow being that i lost my phone 3days ago and she might have texted or call me. ... (read in full...)
She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?
Q. i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. ...
A. 23 November 2009: thanks guys, problem's that i've told her that i'm here for her and i have done so on several ocassions. just that it sucks to repeat my self again to her. what do i do if i see her in class tomorrow? should i tell her how i feel about the whole ... (read in full...)
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