What happens AFTER you tell someone your feelings and they just want to be friends?
Q. I need some advice dealing with a one-sided love I have. I work with this wonderful woman and we are good friends. We joke, flirt around, and play fight all the time. We listen to each other and give each other support. Over the last couple of ...
A. 24 November 2009: I recently am going to a situation sort of like yours, hut a lot different to. I have worked with this girl for 3 years, I met her at work, but I am also good friends with her outside of work. We've hung dozens of times but she always had a ... (read in full...)
Will Karma punish me for not telling her sooner that her boyfriend was cheating on her?
Q. My bestfriend cheated on his girlfriend and I fell in love with her plus I knew about his cheating from before but didnt want to tell her because i couldnt however she fell in love with me and decided to leave him for me and she needed a good enough ...
A. 24 November 2009: Well if he down right wants to kick your ass, personally i'd say he never really was your friend at all then and if it was me i'd let'em try. About the karma thing, it doesn't really matter mathematically. Good always outweighs the bad. Even when ... (read in full...)
Is sex painful?
Q. I love my boyfriend of 2 years with all my heart,the problem is when we kiss, whenever he feels horny and asks for sex, I get really scared, is sex really that bad and is it painful?...
A. 23 November 2009: I know I'm a guy but let me throw in my two cents. At your age you need to wait. For one, you and your boyfriend could end up breaking up anytime, thats apart of life. You don't want to regret loosing your virginity this early in your life. Two ... (read in full...)
She's avoiding my calls and canceling our dates - is she cheating?
Q. i have been seeing this beautiful female from my college. our first date went well and i ended up with us having sex in her place, two days later the same thing happened again. she texted me a couple days later and said that we were moving too fast. ...
A. 23 November 2009: I wouldn't say right off the bat that this girl is cheating. You said that she told you she has a bad past with relationships and that fear is obviously very real for her. I would be gentle and understanding with her needs. You have to show, and ... (read in full...)
Is it inappropiate for my b/f to brag on facebook about previous girls he's hooked up with?
Q. My bf and I broke up and he went on an overseas holiday with some of his friends. When he got back he told me he regretted the break up and realised what he wanted in life- me. He said he missed me so much and didnt want anyone else but me and bla ...
A. 23 November 2009: This guy cares more about his ego then you, I've seen this a hundred times from the preppy jock guys when I was in high school, always walking down the hall with the cheerleaders and making fun on the ones who the cheerleaders wouldn't be seen ... (read in full...)
I want my girl to feel sexy and be sexy!
Q. My long distance relationship has just eclipsed the 3 year mark. I love my girlfriend, but the distance has been a substantial challenge for us both. We are working to resolve this issue but there is no foreseeable resolution given the current job ...
A. 23 November 2009: Well you guys only getting to see each other every 3 weeks is a big problem. If you love her and you want to advance your relationship I'd sacrifice some needs and try to get closer to get. But thats just me. As far as your girl not having self ... (read in full...)
Will Karma punish me for not telling her sooner that her boyfriend was cheating on her?
Q. My bestfriend cheated on his girlfriend and I fell in love with her plus I knew about his cheating from before but didnt want to tell her because i couldnt however she fell in love with me and decided to leave him for me and she needed a good enough ...
A. 23 November 2009: A negative doesnt fix a negative, but if the two of you are truly in love, then does it matter if karma comes back? Don't worry about that because love is more important. If your that freaked about it, try and do something good to cancel out the ... (read in full...)
Why is my wife not as tight as she was?
Q. I went away for couple of weeks to work, and when i came back, my wife was sort of lose, and before i went out, she was nice and tight. When i asked her why she got loose, she jumped and and chaged the topic and she did not want to talk about it...
A. 23 November 2009: Only if shes masturbating with a dildo, that happens with lots of sexual activity, so its a possibility that she is cheating, especially if shes not using a dildo. ... (read in full...)
My wife suddenly won't allow me to have sex with my girlfriend!
Q. [Moderator note: question edited for clarity] Me, my wife, and my girlfriend have been involved for a while. My wife has allowed this because 1) she was my ex fiance and 2)I have an over active sex drive that would make a porn star blush. My wife ...
A. 22 November 2009: From the sound of it, maybe your wife is feeling like that shes not good enough to satisfy you. She probably has a low self esteem from it. What you need to do is sacrifice a little of your own self need and focus on your wife's for a while. Make ... (read in full...)
10 months and I still can't get my ex out of my head
Q. i went out with my ex for nearly seven years i loved him very much and really wnated to set up our lives together so we had a future, but he didnt want to move in or get engaged. i was heartbroken so we split. its been ten months and i cant get him ...
A. 22 November 2009: If you dated the guy for seven years and he didnt want to move in with you, or have a truly serious adult relationship he obviously didnt love you. You said you now have a relationship with a guy who loves you. If he truly does then focus on ... (read in full...)
How can I be more interesting?
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for over 1 year now and I love him to bits. But today, he hit me with a bombshell: "Youre so f***ing boring." I understand where hes coming from: I dont know what to talk about and basically, I crumble in social ...
A. 22 November 2009: Honestly if he doesnt find you interesting just as you are, then hes not worth your time. If you have a hard time being social, find other things to do that are interesting that don't involve talking. Example, if hes a gamer, take interest and play ... (read in full...)
I don't like or respect my mother. What is wrong with me?
Q. OK I'll get straight to the point. For some reason i don't like or respect my mother. She never seems to stick up for herself and i hate the way she does things. Our home is full of junk that has come from her sister (my auntie) and she just doe...
A. 22 November 2009: No parent is perfect, as well is no person period, dont hate yourself for making mistakes. Even if she does blame everything on you that doesn't make it always your fault. As far as respecting your parents, (parent) respect is something that is ... (read in full...)
Is it inappropiate for my b/f to brag on facebook about previous girls he's hooked up with?
Q. My bf and I broke up and he went on an overseas holiday with some of his friends. When he got back he told me he regretted the break up and realised what he wanted in life- me. He said he missed me so much and didnt want anyone else but me and bla ...
A. 22 November 2009: Honesty is the best source for a happy relationship, if he hurt you tell him so. He may, or maynot have done it intentionally or directly to hurt you. If you tell him that it hurt you and he gets offensive about it then you have a problem to worry ... (read in full...)
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