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writes:Lately my girlfriend has been lying, and going out to wild parties and also clubbin behind my back. We have been together for almost 2 1/2 years now. We had broken up back in March because of this. We then got back together in July, and everything was going good until her friend moved back from another state. Since then we been having a lot of problems, and i can't trust her. I wish she would stop lying, and all I see on her phone is other guys now texting her. She says it for other friends but I dont believe it. She broke up with me when i found out that she was at some party last week. I took a flight the next day out of state to take sometime off. We have been talking a little , and decided that maybe when I get back we'll work things out again. Tonight I feel like she is going out partying for her birthday, which is tomorrow, and she tells me that she is not. I don't want to lose her, but I also don't know what to do anymore
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reader, yussuf  +, writes (25 November 2009):
 Forget about not loosing her. if she's lying to you and it makes you feel hurt or sad then it ain't wort it. seems like you're putting in work and all you're getting is junk. what you should do for now is lay back a little, keep a low profile and be a little more scarse in her life. Be busy and hang out friends; you can even ask other girls out on dates it doesn't mean that you have to sleep with them or anything. when she notices your distance she might think things through. seems to me that you problem is that you might be acting a little needy and pushy.Trust me girls hate that. Let her do her thing bro, if she's for you she'll comeback, either way it's a win win situation. she comes back you got a girl and if she doesn't, she's you a solid favour by saving you a lot of sorrow and pain. hope this helps you out! God bless and goodluck.
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