Was this guy a schemer all along?
Q. There's a mate of my husband's who has been really nice to me and is a great guy. He's called me nicknames, teased me, and has been really nice in little ways. He plays with my son and my husband has noticed him sometimes asking my son questions ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well it sounds like you like this guy and you do think your marriage is ending...and you knew you were crossing a line by emailing him, which anyone would do, dont get me wrong! It deffinately sounds like he likes you but i just dont see a ... (read in full...)
He is controlling and jealous, what should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, A bit of background knowledge - I'm 19 a gay guy currently living in the UK. Last year I lived in Australia, and was in a relationship with another guy. I returned to the UK recently, and have been saving money to return to Aus, a...
A. 15 October 2009: Well it sounds like you should deffinately break up with him! If i were you i would just stay in london if you like it there! You two will never work because he doesnt trust you at all, even with your best friend, that is ridiculous! No relationship ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my negative housemate?
Q. Ive been living with my housemate for 3 years. At first all was ok as we were friends before we moved in. Slowly over time though we have become distant. We have very opposite personalities and politics which at first was fun but now is just ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well needless to say... sounds like your going to have to choose either feeling on edge whenever your both home or possibly losing a couple frienships!?! You could sit down with her and talk about how her negative attitude affects you and if she ... (read in full...)
Her family hates me after I ditched the older sister for the younger one! What should I do?
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been together for about a year now. I was friends with her older sister for a long time and her parents wanted me to hook up with her.. But things did not work out that way.. I got with the younger one.. Needless to say ...
A. 15 October 2009: Well theres not much you can do to make her family like you! It sounds like theyre all insane, hope shes not like them! What you need to do is tell her she needs to tell her parents and they need to learn to accept it and if she doesnt then i doubt ... (read in full...)
I feel there is something wrong but I have no proof! Am I stupid?
Q. i am married for 7 years and i have 1 child. its been some years now that i accidentally saw a message sent by him to his unamarried colleague 'kisses everywhere'. we had a fight over this and he told me that nothing is happening. it was just a ...
A. 14 October 2009: Wow...that is bull crap! It definately sounds like they are having an affair or getting around to it! You have every right to wonder or be mad or worried! I would put a stop to their "friendship" asap! If he wont then you should probably leave him! ... (read in full...)
Do you think my husband has noticed she is gorgeous?
Q. My husband and I are friends with another couple. He and the other guy hang out a lot but I know my husband and the guy's wife get along well, too. Problem is she is GORGEOUS. Like model-gorgeous. Fairly lean, big boobs, good legs and butt, clear ...
A. 14 October 2009: Im sure he has noticed the fact that shes gorgeous but that doesnt mean thats why he talks to her! The truth is most women notice before men! You have nothing to worry about! Thats great you trust them! Good luck!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and I think he's wanting to cheat!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half we live together and i am pregnant with him. i dont think i have ever trusted him even though i wish i could because i truly love him but hes always on his phone and out but he has a wide ...
A. 14 October 2009: Well for one you cant have a relationship without trust! If he knows you dont trust him and that you think he might cheat hes going to say screw it and actually do it because what has he got to lose...nothing because you already think that! It ... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend has a baby with someone else!
Q. Hi i just found out that my boyfriend, that i been in love with for the 3years had a child 5 months ago with another women! I dont know what to do, and to make matters worse i was pregnant two months ago and he told me to have a abortion because he ...
A. 13 October 2009: Omg thats a horrible situation! I would break up asap...if he can hide having a baby from, who know what else he would hide! A relationship has to have love, honesty, loyalty and trust to work and obviously you cant trust him now! Good luck!... (read in full...)
What makes him stick around like this?
Q. I am really wondering what my ex is doing. We have broken up several months ago but remained in contact because of some important things. Unfortunately, all things have been settled just over 2 months ago. I really thought we would finally st...
A. 13 October 2009: I think he still has feelings for you but doesnt know how to tell you! If i were you i would cut off all contact with him and move on! Good luck!... (read in full...)
When I laugh my muscles go weak, is this normal?
Q. hello quick question umm when i laugh i cant control myself and my muscles go weak and i end up being really floppy. today when i was laughing a when really floppy and i was eating when it happened and i couldn't physically close my mouth. is th...
A. 13 October 2009: I dont think thats normal but im not a doctor so i cant say! If i were you i would go to the doctor just to be safe! Better safe than sorry! Good luck!... (read in full...)
How do I date the first girl without hurting the second?
Q. I am really close to two different girls. Both are beautiful, but they hate each other. I hang with both of them, separately all the time, and always make sure I share my attention evenly. But I've really started to feel really close to one of them, ...
A. 13 October 2009: Well in a situation like that, its impossible that no one will get hurt! You need to be upfront with her and still ask that you be friends! Good luck!... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend, I'm scared he will leave me again!
Q. I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend. We were a couple for 15 months before and it ended badly and we didn't see or speak to each other for 8 months. We are now together again for 11 months now. The way he told me he was sorry about everything ...
A. 13 October 2009: Your either going to have to learn to trust him or let go! Your afraid of him leaving you and you are getting clingy, which is probably why hes getting irritated, if you keep doing this your going to chase him away! I know your scared he will leave ... (read in full...)
I'm confused - is this guy over me or is there a chance he never really got over me?
Q. i've liked this guy for 2 years. and now i'm just confused.2 years ago we liked each other i went to a party hooked up wit some guy and the guy i've liked never spoke to me again and i understood i guess.then year ago i see him he doesnt say hi to ...
A. 13 October 2009: It sounds like he deffinately still has feelings for you! You should have your friend talk to him and feel him out and make your move from there! Good luck! ... (read in full...)
Still with my first love, but we've lost the spark
Q. I have been in a serious relationship for almost four years now with my boyfriend and loved every minute except the sex part. I was a 15 year old Freshman dating a 17 year old Junior in high school. Now I'm graduated and at college with him, but it ...
A. 13 October 2009: This is completely normal! Sorry to say hun but this is why high school sweethearts never usually make it! You deffinately need to take a break and experience before its to late! He needs to learn to understand what your going through...if he truly ... (read in full...)
I want to give him another chance, but I feel like I deserve better
Q. I was dating this guy for a little more than a year. One night he got really drunk and hooked up with 8 girls in one night! I couldnt believe it. He was my first love. I became so depressed and on top of that he never called me the day after, ...
A. 13 October 2009: I would break it off immediately! I cant believe you even got back together with that creep! You seem like a good person...you could do better! If he doesnt care about you enough to be faithful then he doesnt care about you that much! If he was that ... (read in full...)
Why does he push me away but seem interested in our previous relationship?
Q. *sorry if your replied to me beore*Ive written before but it seems my story never ends and he's hard to fig out.Im summin it up, so u know my deal.My ex and I broke up almost 2 mo ago.He wanted 2 see/talk to me daily.Had me meet the fam/friends ...
A. 13 October 2009: I think hes wanting to let go because hes realizing how much he really likes and cares about you and hes scared of being hurt! Just keep doing what your doing and eventually he will come around! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is he trying to say that he wants something more?
Q. Hey i asked a question called "We're apparently good friends, so is there a reason why we hardly talk to each other?" about 2 weeks ago and thanks for all the help you gave me! You seemed to have the idea that this guy had feelings for me/...
A. 13 October 2009: It deffinately sounds like he likes you...you should totally go for him! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Did that cheater truly love me, even for a moment?
Q. Hi, I found out that my ex-bf has been two-timing me throughout the 3mths29days that we've been together. He has another long time gf of 17mths. This secret of his was exposed on the day when I happen to be in the same place as that couple. 3 of us ...
A. 13 October 2009: Well sounds like hes a worthless lying jerk so you should just move on and forget about him! I dont think he loved you...i think he loves his girlfriend but gets bored and goes for other girls, and you were just a part of his sick game! If you ... (read in full...)
I am dating one girl but another has my heart!
Q. hey, i've recently started going out with this girl, she turns me on loads, like everytime we kiss, im hard, but, the thing is, i dont feel anything in my heart for, her, we've onyl been going out for a week, but still, i feel like i should like he...
A. 13 October 2009: Break up with the girl your going out with now before it gets more serious and she gets her heart broken! Start hanging out with the other girl, give it at least a week and ask her to go out with you and see where it goes from there! Good luck!... (read in full...)
Her actions concern me..should they?
Q. Am I wrong to be concerned about her actions? How can I gain the strength to walk away? Am I the problem? I am struggling with making the move and saying how I really feel and my gf is pushing to try to get me to buy a bigger place so that we...
A. 13 October 2009: Wow she sounds worthless! You would be stupid to stay with someone who treats you like that! You should probably end it with her and move on, you could find someone much better who will treat you right! All she is ever going to do is bring you down ... (read in full...)
Room mate is a male whore! Should I rat him out?
Q. My roommate will screw anything that isn't moving, which is why our cat never lies down. Right now he is juggling 4 girlfriends and yesterday a new girl showed up and he had sex with her too, only he said she wasn't a girlfriend. That makes 5 ...
A. 13 October 2009: It sounds like youre trying to be a good guy so props to you for that! All of these girls need to know what hes doing but if you tell you should be prepared to lose a room mate! You shouldnt debate telling them by whether youd have a chance with ... (read in full...)
I like my ex's friend
Q. Ok so me and my ex broke up bout 5 months ago.ended pretty bad, we were together bout 3 months.not long at all right, but i happen to like one of her friends that's in my class.she's not her best friends but one of her good friends . I kinda think ...
A. 13 October 2009: I would forget about it...but if you think you really like her and you for sure never want to get back with your ex then go for it! But if shes a good friend she will turn you down...see girls have a rule any guy one of us or our friends date is ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am competing for attention with her online guy!
Q. I recently posted pertaining to my ex girlfriend who I have been hanging out once again after a 5 year hiatus. Here is a piece of it: "She communicates online daily with a guy she used to be CRAZY about back in college 6 years ago. I mean CRAZ...
A. 13 October 2009: Yeah i would deffinately bring it to her attention and put a stop to! Where hes only online to talk to her...thats weird...it might be a friendship now but he is obviously going to try to make it more! You need to put your foot down and let her know ... (read in full...)
I'm being used by guys for just sex
Q. it seems as though im being used for sex by guys...im tired of it...this guy tells me were making love and i told him i took it seriously...and all he says is his job is very demanding and he's not ignoring me or wanting to hurt my feelings... ...
A. 13 October 2009: Yeah you should probably let him go! You seem smart and like you already have the answer! ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting her to stop being friends with people she made out with in the past?
Q. My fiancee had a very wild, promiscuous past, with guys and girls. I have dealt with that and moved on, enjoying the present. However, it recently came up that she had been with one of the girls who is still her friend today. I told her it made me ...
A. 13 October 2009: You are not in the wrong at all. You shouldn't have had to ask her to stop being friends with the people she made out with! It is harder though where some are girls because some girls do that for attention from guys so it might not have meant ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so insecure about my girlfriend's bisexual past?
Q. I've known my girlfriend for almost 16 years. We've dated off an on during that time. She comes from a troubled background and in her teens and (during the time she knew me up until now) she was cheating on somebody (guy or girl). We ne...
A. 13 October 2009: Well it sounds like you are wanting to settle down and shes not ready! It sounds like she was a wreck at some point and it doesnt sound like shes ready to give up on her past! Although you say she has been good since you put your foot down a year ... (read in full...)
She finds it difficult to open up to me and have any physical contact with me, I'm worried we will get stuck in the friend zone!
Q. I am almost 31, a single father (never married) and a business professional in my community. I have a 4 yr old little girl that is so well behaved. I am very blessed, and grateful. For 2 months I have been dating a 27 year old woman that I think the ...
A. 13 October 2009: Well for starters you seem like a great guy...theres not many dads willing to stick around and your a single father...thats awesome! It sounds like she likes you alot! From the sounds of it, you are deffinately beyond the friends zone, i think maybe ... (read in full...)
The perfect girl is too close to me to have
Q. I've been playing in a serious band for almost a year now. One of the members of the band is female. Her and I have become very close, and have pretty much everything in common that we possibly good. The fact that we have the same passion (music) is ...
A. 13 October 2009: Well seeing as how she has a boyfriend and all you should probably let it go! It does sound like you care about her but either way your taking a risk, the girl could make you lose the band or the band could make you lose the girl! There are ... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident around guys and possibly get my ex back?
Q. Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] Question1: i used to go out with this guy but broke it off because he was way into himself and it didnt really seem that we were actually together. a few months a...
A. 13 October 2009: Answer to question 1... It sounds like he might just be playing games with you! You dont want a guy like that, your relationship will never go anywhere! But if you still want him back then just text him and ask him to comeover and when he does ask ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make myself happy? It just seems impossible!
Q. I'm so confused about my life right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend who i found out was sending text messages to my best friend they apparently never did anything together but my trust in the male gender has been destroyed! I hate my job ...
A. 13 October 2009: Wow im sorry, that is a horrible situation, i hope you are done with both of them! Well a pick me up i always have is going to the gym...i would get a gym membership and go in your spare time, its addicting and makes you feel so good! Look for a job ... (read in full...)
I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship
Q. So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the ...
A. 13 October 2009: Well for one...lying is no way to start out a relationship! You should not have forgiven him for the cheating so easily...2 wrongs do not make a right! Now hes more likely to do it again because he knows he can get away with it so why not! I think ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can do everything he has asked of me but I love him so much! How can I get the old him back?
Q. Hi everybody. Please help me, I don't know how to decited now. I have date with him for 2 years and we just broke up for stupid reason.(he don't spend time with me). So, i got mad and i left him. He cried first day (i know because he call me) After ...
A. 13 October 2009: Sorry to say...but it sounds like you just need to let go of this relationship...you two are two different and i dont see it working out! Let go and move on! Good luck!... (read in full...)
How can I get to see my siblings?
Q. ok so my mom got pregnant with me when she was 18 and my biological father was 22!when she told him,he told her that he was goin 2 tell his parents she got pregnant with some1 else and out of sympathy he was goin 2 marry her!my mom said no!so he ...
A. 12 October 2009: Ok, im going to try that! Ill update you! I appreciate it! Thank you very much!... (read in full...)
Am I in over my head with this girl and baby?
Q. I am talking to this girl and i Really like her but there is a problem that my friends have no answer for shes pregnant(not for me) and the father wants nothing to do with her or the baby hes your typical coward. i want to start a relationship with ...
A. 12 October 2009: Well it sounds like your a great guy thats got alot going for yourself! If you really like her then you should date her...and for the whole real dad coming and messing it all up...thats a risk your going to have to be willing to take! The father is ... (read in full...)
Does the guy I am interested in like me?
Q. I really like this guy, and I think he might be interested in me too. I think he flirts a lot with me, like he: - Squeezes my sides - Squeezes my knee - Gives me high fives - Gives me hugs - Teases me, Says, "Your Gay!" All the time. - Talks...
A. 12 October 2009: From the sound of it, hes obviously interested! Let him make the first move though! Just act flirty but not slutty! Just be extra nice and like bump his hand with yours and things like that! Show interest im his interests, that will help alot ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me?
Q. My boyfriend I think defiantly loves me. We've been together for a year and...4 months. He says he's not an emotional person, however I think he really is, he can be very needy and its fine by me because I can be too. We're really good alone but as ...
A. 12 October 2009: Ok well you need to confront him about being a jerk to you infront of his friends, let him know he needs to respect and treat you right no matter who youre around! Let him know you will not tolerate that! Dont try to force him to open up! It will ... (read in full...)
Shattered and Lost!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm about to graduate high school and, unlike my classmates, I am dreading it! When I was 13 I was kidnapped and abused, I also suffered from amnesia for 5 years. I didn't remember anything about my family or even my last name. I end...
A. 11 October 2009: Wow congrats, after all youve been through you were able to pick yourself up and create a great life ahead of you! Follow your heart! Your parents will be there forever, however, your fiancee will not! Sounds like your parents are trying to figure ... (read in full...)
I am 21 yrs old, living with my parents, and I just hate my life!
Q. I am 21 yrs old, livin with my parents. i just hate my life, i can't go out with my friends everyday, when i am with my friends, so my parents would call me 100 times and send sms 50 times..when i come home late, they will yell at me, my father's ...
A. 11 October 2009: Ok for one you are 21 years old and after 18 you dont need their permission for anything! Move out, get a room mate and an apartment! It will make your relationship better with your parents and your social life! Good luck!... (read in full...)
How can I get her to take my calls without fake blackmailing her?
Q. After breakup i called her my ex-girlfriend last night. we talked for hours. i got her taking my call by blackmailed her that i would call her dad that she was having affair with me for years. when i tried to take my call being nice with her she ...
A. 11 October 2009: Thats insane and not to mention wrong to blackmail her! You wouldnt do that to someone you really cared about! If i was her i would make it a point to never speak to her again! Maybe you should try leaving a message,sending a text or email or even ... (read in full...)
He said I remind him of his ex-gf!
Q. Okay, so there is this guy that I like but we're not dating. And one day, we were chatting on MSN and he suddenly said that I'm so much like his ex-girlfriend... =.=''' He's really nice and he doesn't talk bad about his ex, but I somewhat hav...
A. 11 October 2009: Ok i would deffinately forget about him! It sounds like he does still have feelings for his ex gf which is never a good way to start a relationship and could lead to bigger problems and many arguments further into your relationship! Good luck!... (read in full...)
I was too scared to talk to her and now she is mad! What can I do?
Q. i really liked this girl for a long time and now she hates me. Ok i was at our breakfast table with the football players( which im not) and i got the crazy idea to ask her to the dance. Of course i had to tell my best friend before i did it and when ...
A. 11 October 2009: You should talk to her and tell her everything, most girls are really forgiving and understanding! If she isnt, forget about her, shes not worth it! Good luck!... (read in full...)
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