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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am really wondering what my ex is doing.We have broken up several months ago but remained in contact because of some important things. Unfortunately, all things have been settled just over 2 months ago. I really thought we would finally stop right after the important things have been settled because he kept on telling me that once we settle the unfinished business, he expects not to hear from me anymore.Although I still love him, I kept my distance right after settling things with him because I don't wanna be labeled a crazy ex. But now, he is the one who's contacting me for some random things.Once he said he just wants to chat with me as a friend. Next time he poured out his feelings saying he was heartbroken with the girl he cheated me for and he said sorry to me. I wonder why he needs to mention that, I didn't even ask. Next time, he asked me if I requested a song on the radio. Every week I just suddenly receive a message from him about something mostly on late nights or at dawn. It turns out now that he is the one contacting me for this silly reasons and I am not doing anything. I am quietly mourning my loss and mending my broken heart but he disturbs me. Several days ago, I was feeling so low about this and decided to PM some of our best Uncles. Now I feel ok but I can't stop wondering why. I am ignoring him but he still persists.Has anyone done this to their gf? What is your opinion about my ex? FYI, there is no sex involve here so pls rule it out. Thanks so much dear aunts.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (13 October 2009):
 I think he still has feelings for you but doesnt know how to tell you! If i were you i would cut off all contact with him and move on! Good luck!
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