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writes:Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post]Question1: i used to go out with this guy but broke it off because he was way into himself and it didnt really seem that we were actually together. a few months ago he was dating this girl kept telling me he was in love,i was curious and saw that on his both myspace and facebook profiles it said single. then after a few weeks i confronted him and he said that he only wanted my attention. now he would comment my pictures online saying he was speechless that i was so gorgeous and one picture he commented and said too bad we broke and never kissed. i sent a message telling him too bad he had a gf i would of liked a second chance and he said maybe its not to late i asked what he meant but never replied.i feel like his playing me again. so my question is how do i get him back because it seems like his still into me but how do i get him back for sure.please answer me i would like all answers and opinions. i've lost sleep worrying about it all Question 2: i'm 16 never had a boyfriend in my life but i really do want to because i guess i'm at the time in my life where i feel like i'm ugly.i'm a model and actress i've been told by guys i'm sexy gorgeous beautiful.but when they ask me out i always find something that is wrong wit them and just leave them in the coldwhat do i do from not letting that happen again?i feel like the only thing i dont have is confidencewhat i'm trying to say is how do i get a guy to ask me out?i'm scared of asking them out because i am scared of rejection
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): to question 1: People tend to break up for a reason, and that usually is that your not compatible. Its better to be a swinging single than to be putting up with someone. So let him go, if he wanted you he would have made a move by now. I know I would have.to question 2: You said guys are asking you out so im confused. Nobodys perfect so stop knitpicking, just go out a few times and get to know them better. The only way to be more confident with members of the opposite sex is to make friends and spend time with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): First thing to start with,i believe you are beautiful girl just have confidence in yourself because you are beautiful.you don't have to do anything to attract a guy just be yourself and let a guy like you for who you are the person inside you.A man should be the one to ask a woman out first not the other way round.when a man asks you out first,it feels great and you feel beautiful so always wait.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Answer to question 1... It sounds like he might just be playing games with you! You dont want a guy like that, your relationship will never go anywhere! But if you still want him back then just text him and ask him to comeover and when he does ask what he meant by that message. Feel him out and you be able to tell if hes wanting to get back together or not, just drop hints that you do but dont flat out say it! Answer to question 2...well it doesnt sound like you have a problem with guys liking you so just flirt and act more open so they arent intimidated to ask you out! Guys are scared of rejection to! Just be yourself which it sounds like your a good person so that will do you good! Good luck!
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