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writes: I was dating this guy for a little more than a year. One night he got really drunk and hooked up with 8 girls in one night! I couldnt believe it. He was my first love. I became so depressed and on top of that he never called me the day after, only texted me saying "im sorry." While we were broken up he had sex with another girl. We were broken up for about 3 monthes and then got back together. I still think about that night everyday and think about whether i should break it off with him. I love him so much but theres just no trust in him anymore when there was 110% trust in him before. Hes said hes so sorry and that he cant even remember that night becuase he was so drunk. I just dont get that if he if he says he loves me so much, why he could do this to me. Im scared of getting hurt again but I love him so much. Weve been together for about 5 monthes from when we got back together and things have been really good. That night is the only road block in our relationship. This is the first and only time hes cheated on me im trying to give him another chance but I just feel like I should desereve better. Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2009): I should say you desereve better man. I just broke up with my husband 3 days. I feel so hurt, but I have to break up with him.I have no trust in him anymore so, we fight all the time. The relationship like that never ganna be happy ever after. He was cheated on you before, and he will cheat on you again. So, just let him go and you move on. That's what I am doing now. Its really heard to do it. But I never lost my hope. One day I'll have somebody who care about me and faithful on me. So, you think about yourlife and move on. Good luck
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reader, marriedchick  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 My dear, this feeling you are feeling is only temporary! I was in a similar situation, and I made the right decision in leaving him. Yea for a while I thought about him but every day I would feel freer from that love feeling. A year ago I met someone else and fell deeply in love, and he treated me with respect and I never thought about that guy I was supposed to be soooo in love with again. The point is you are right he does not deserve you, cheating is the worst thing a person can do in a relationship, if he did it once he WILL do it again if you don’t leave him and you don’t want to be married to him with children because then you will be stuck so leave him now!
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (13 October 2009):
 I would break it off immediately! I cant believe you even got back together with that creep! You seem like a good person...you could do better! If he doesnt care about you enough to be faithful then he doesnt care about you that much! If he was that drunk and was still able to get 8 boners for 8 different sluts then he wasnt that drunk! Hes obviously a cheater and a liar and your relationship will never work! You will never be able to fully trust him again, he lost that! Every relationship has to have love, honesty, loyalty and trust for it to work! You can do better hun, dump that loser and move on! Good luck!
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