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writes:Hey i asked a question called "We're apparently good friends, so is there a reason why we hardly talk to each other?" about 2 weeks ago and thanks for all the help you gave me!You seemed to have the idea that this guy had feelings for me/ had a crush on me an that hes holding back or hes not sure what he wants. I can all see where your coming from because me and afew others who went to our college thought this in the past! And also when you say that may just be how he values friendship. Anyway if you could just give me abit more advice that would be great!Basically me him and a mate of mine/ours(also a guy) went drinking in town the other night. I text text this guy(the one who i like) and said are you still coming and he replied yea im still up for it if (mates name) is goin? Someone who i know said when i told them about that text, " yea hes scared to admit he wants to spend time with you" Anyway i thought no more of it, at least he was still up for coming out with us!But that night it was amazing he was more friendly with me than he normally is. Yea ok at the start he said see who else is out but it was still just us 3 and we had a good time. And then out of the blue he said something. When me and im were out one night alone we saw our mate who ive known since nursery and he knows him from the gym....well aprantly now when they see each other this mate says to him "hows you (my name)"? and apprantly hes conivinced that theres someting going on between us. Even though hes only seen us together like once but yano... Anyway this guy(the one im talking about, the one i like) would NEVER EVER just randomly tell me our mate thinks theres something going on between us and he didnt say it as if it was bothering him he was like smiling and saying it and i just laughed. He would never tell me that thought because he knows i like him he would just let it go and ignore it. Not that he had any need to tell me lol. But from that im wondering now because my mate said maybe thats his way of hinting to you that he does actually want you? anyway im not sure about that thats why i would like your opinion. He also suggested to my mate that we go out again this week so we are doing!After that we went in a club and he started talking to me about this stuff that was on the tv's in there with the music channels on and said how theres more or less porn on most nights and everytime something came on he would get my attention. Then him and my mate that we went with found out that there is an Ann Summers party in that club on the night we coming out(obv lads cant get in but i dont think he realised that) and he said yea we coming to that its gonna be great i said are we? n he said yea! You're coming cuz ur trying everything on!! n i just laffed and turned away, buried my head into mine and his(the lad i like) coat and then looked at them again and they just were laughing at me(nicely) and i said leave me alone in a sweet voice n put my head down again. I was hugging his coat along with mine all night so he must have realised i was doing that! On the way home we got food and we started play fighting over his bottle because i kept stealing it, he would do it with most people but he normally wont with me and it was so sweet and when we left he said again i was trying the stuff on at that party - in a joking voice lol. But you see i know you said in the last post to talk to him but i just cant really....its to hard so much stuff has happened in the past and hes a very busy guy because he gigs alot etc and he knows how i feel so im just wodnering if this is his way of sort of building his confidence up again or showing he likes me because it all seems to real to be true! Do you think he does wat something after all? and anyway i could make the night just as good if not better when i next go out with them two in two night time!? Thank you! x
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 It deffinately sounds like he likes you...you should totally go for him! Good luck!
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