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writes:I've been seeing a girl for just over two months. she's looking for the same in a relationship as I am and, while we get on wonderfully, she has decided to end it. What I'm finding difficult to figure out is that she says she's not sure that she fancies me any more. While I'm doing everything right and she loves being with me, being my girlfriend somehow feels "wrong" and as a result she's uncomfortable with the physical side of the relationship. She still finds me attractive, likes me as a person and really enjoys my company. The question is how to get her to find me sexy again and stop thinking of me as just a friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, xSarax +, writes (8 July 2007):
 To be honset theres not much you can do. But i could give you a few tips. Everyone wants what they can't have. So be mates with her. Be very close mates. Act like your not interested in her that way any more. (without making it obvious) Flirt with girls when your with her. Remember confidence is the key even if you fake it. You'll be more attractive because you won't look desperate. Trust me the jelousy bug will kick in and she'll soon want you back. And if she doesn't at least you've had a flirt and maybe a couple of phone numbers aswell. Best of luck x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Frankly, I don't think there's anything you can do. Apparently, the sex didn't work. That happens. I would suggest you to move on and consider her a good friend.
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