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writes:My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he kissed another girl and told her that he loves her. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. I still love him, but its the fact that he's done this to me. I don't know what to do. I feel hurt and upset, but I still want to be with him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): hey.SORRY ABOTU THE SPELLING I'M DISLEXIC. I'm now going through the same thing myself and saw this on google. The situation differs with each relationship but i know how bad you feel right now.Just remember that you are amazing and if you do split up, its not your loss it's his for not seeing just how truly amazing he is. Someone has already said other peopel have things you dont. but what you have is amazing too and you have things other peopel don't have. I was feeling that this other person was better then me, she wasnt, and this girl isn't either so please dotn ever think that.... nowyou know what's best for you and im sure you will do the right thing. I think you need to tell him how you feel and both sort out why he did it, and weather you can trust him. you need to eb abel to talk to him and sort it otu so you can put thigns behind you both and move on. you can always stay friends. I know how much he has hurt you and he will need to rebuild trust uip again if he wants to get back with you. People do make mistakes but dont let him mess you around or carry on hurting you in this way. He was honest which was very good of him, at least you didnt find otu some other way. I can promise you things will get better for you and easier no matter what. Nothign is permanent but with time, your problems in the past have sorted out and this will too.goodluck!
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reader, xSarax +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Does he still want to be with you? Who is this girl? I think the main question in your head is -why did he do it. And i'm going to tell you why now. Because no lad wants to settle down. At the end of the day they are lads- boys. They compare girls as goals. I'm sorry to tell you this but shes had something you've not. But how many other girls have things that you don't. The answer is every other girl, beacuse everyone is different. Can you trust him again. No. If he's done it once he'll do it again if he knows he can get away with it, and especially if he likes that girl. You go out now and just enjoy yourself, spend a lot of time with your friends or family and then decide whether he should be privallaged enough to have you back. Because you're worth more than that disrespect, anyone is. Always remember, no man is worth crying over and the one you should be with will never make you cry. best of luck on your situation x
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reader, Lovebunny  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Will,this is a bit of a pickle. well since he has admitted to you what he has done and how he feels about her then there are two things u can do one ,could stay with him considering the fact the he was honest to you,not all guys would have done that and give him a second chance or you could break up with him and never know if he would of done it again or if the relationship would of lasted. Before u make up your mind on what your going to do please ask your this can I learn to trust him again ,is it worth trusting him again. If you can't learn to trust him and give him another chance ,your going to be very unhappy so it really come's down to wither or not you can learn to trust him but considering the fact the he admitted that he loves this another girl he might might dump you for her.Good luck, take care and do what makes you happy.
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