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writes:there this girl I loved when I was young and I feel like I still do, you see this girl was the girl who got my attention in a way I couldn't imagine and the way I felt about her before was beyond amazing and when ever I saw her, I always told myself she is the love my life because I never loved anyone in the way that I've loved her and I still am. but here is the thing the girl didn't want nothing to do with me because she didn't know me well and she never gave me a chance. and despite all the pain she put me through I still love her I wana know whether to contact her again or keep letting it go because I still love and think about her? Reply to this Question
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 You just got to let her go man, it's better that way
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reader, TashaLoves117  +, writes (3 January 2012):
I say try one more time...maybe ask her out on a simple date and if she still wants nothing to do with you. Then I am so sorry but you will have to move on and completely forget her. Find someone else who wants to be with you and that will truly help you to get over her.
Good luck!!!
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reader, elise22  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 Honestly, I've gone through this situation from the other side.
In high school, there was a guy who liked me so much, that he would always follow me around, stare at me, send me flowers on valentine's day, ask me to go to prom with him, etc. This went on for two years, and I got completely insane from not having the space to do anything without him knowing about it.
I'm not saying you're like this, but from what I'm reading, I'm thinking you never had a relationship with her, which means she never broke up with you, never cheated on you, NEVER put you through any pain.
If this girl is decent at all, she will have considered dating you after realizing how much you liked (loved) her. Because if she is decent, she won't care about your looks or anything else shallow, but want a guy that is kind, sweet, loving and generally just relationship material. If she's not decent, you shouldn't want to date her. But if she is, she'll have realized that you are, despite loving her so much, just not her type. That doesn't have anything to do with you or with her, sometimes you just don't feel it. A girl won't give you a chance because you may deserve it, because she is not a prize to win. She deserves to have a guy that is perfect for her, and dating someone she already knows won't be what she wants (because you CAN know) isn't going to help anyone. THAT would be putting you through pain.
Plus, you might have come on so strong that she got creeped out, and wouldn't want to date you merely because of this.
I recently saw the guy again, he acted the same way, I considered dating him again and, again, came to the conclusion that I didn't want to. I have thought about it as open-mindedly as I could, but I just couldn't do it. Neither could she, probably.
My advice to you, is to just move on. She will never be interested in you if she wasn't already, and pushing any further will only get you a restraining order. I'm sorry, but I think your chances of happiness will be much greater if you just let this go.
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