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writes:Heyy :)Right so here's my dilema. There is this boy at school in the year above me and i really like him! When i was waiting for my firends outside of school to walk home with, he came out and started talking to my mate, but all the time he was talking he kept looking at me and smiling (I mean ALL the time haha)and of course i was smiling back :)When we see eachother around school he smiles and looks at me, but he has never actually spoke to me.Is there anything i could do to get him to come over and talk to me? (im too shy to actually talk to him haha)and i have never been good at having a convo since all my guy mates are quite dirty, i feel awkward....So the questions are:1) How can i get him to come over and talk to me?2) And if he is dirty like my other friends, how could I be more confident and comfortable?Thankyou :D
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reader, darkwind94  +, writes (16 May 2011):
 Well, if you want him to talk to you, maybe you should talk to him. At times like this, it's okay. If you have lunch at the same time, you can walk up to his lunch table and say, "You mind if I sit here" and if he says, not at all, you would have accomplished sitting next to him. Also, you should introduce yourself to him by saying something like, "I'm (insert name), what is your name", and if he answers back, well, you'll know what kind of person he is just by seeing the way he meets people and talks in conversation.
Now, if he talks about sex and stuff, you don't have to mind. Then again, you can ask him not to if you're uncomfortable.. if he's all jokes, then maybe you can laugh at one of his jokes and he might like that. Don't force laugh though...lol. Good Luck, and reply to let us know how it went :]
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (12 May 2011):
 i agree with sean,good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): Helloo :)
Is trhis how you write back? i dont know haha :)
Firstly, when i said my guy mates are quite dirty, i meant that they always talk about sex and stuff, and they always seem to drag me in .
And secondly, since he is in the year above me, all my close friends dont know him. And my friend he was talking to outside school, it is a bit awkward to talk to him atm.... Also i wouldnt trust the other guys who know him.... (They will just tease me and him and he will prob never like me at all) haha :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): hi :D
if youre too shy to talk to him, i'd get some of your friends to bring it up to him, that you like him,
your second question made me laugh :)
being an english student myself, i can only assume you mean if he's loud and swears alot? some more info would be nice. write back x :)
i think the best thing to do is get your friends to help you, because if he's giving you those smiles, its worth a try you telling him how you feel, but if youre too shy.. then your friends are the ones who can help you,
i think what youre looking for are lures to get a boy to talk to you, that wont work ;)
write back, :D
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