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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i liked/like this girl alot !! for one whole year now and nothing happened bcoz i new she doesnt like me. and eventually after a long year in hope, i got the answer saying that she doesnt like me. This was when my friends asked her abt me.i truly understand what its like for her, she doesnt have to like me, i gave up on her for quite some time and i keep telling myself that there is nothing i can do abt it and that i should just be good friends with her. The problem is that when i am around her, i dont know how to behave, my mood changes quickly, i start thinking abt her again and i cant decide whether to be looking chilled out and as if i dont care or to be very nice to her talkin all the time.She always knew that i liked her but she didnt give a crap abt it for a long time. She is also an attention seeker and tries to play dirty sometimes, when i pretend that im not bothered abt her, she notices that and suddenly comes to me and tries to somehow have any randomn convo and sometimes abt this other guy who looked tall and hot etc.......and when i am in a good mood and talkative, she treats me like shit again. She confessed that i am a good friend of hers and that she never thought abt me that way.....which is perfectly understandablei just dont understand how to be around her?? !!! Reply to this Question
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 just be yourself, whtever you think is best, you don't need to pretend.
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reader, loveonce  +, writes (10 May 2011):
 As you know that girl is an attention seeker...therefore she can not tolerate you to ignore her..therefore she comes to you ,to make you lose your control..the only treatment to egomaniac is to treat them like nothing,for a while,till there ego is not washed off,i m not suggesting to break or spoil your frenship but,you can play tough mood tricks,and find out how much they work...few girls love a manly attitude,show her yours'..change your stumbling attitude to a firm,"i do not care for you" attitude,coz "i am the prize,girls should crave for me.."
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