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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a guy friend and we have known each other since we were very small. Anyway a couple of months ago another friend told me that he liked me. So when he asked me out I said I just wanted to stay friends as I didn't want to ruin a good friendship. But recently he has started talking and flirting with a girl he likes. I teased him a bit in a friendly way but he stormed off and wouldn't talk to me, why ? Also and I have no idea why, I feel really hurt when I see him with this girl. If I don't like him then why do I feel this, him storming off has also confused me as usually when I tease him playfully like this he laughs it off ?
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 he feels really bad about how you rejected him. Try apologizing, but tell him that you just wanna be friends(gently!)
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Hi
he walked off because quite frankly he told you how he felt about you, and now your teasing him about it, you have hurt his feelings. The reason why you feel hurt when his with this other girl is because deep down you DO want to date him, but your scared of loosing what you had. When infact the most sucsessful relationships are built from great freindships, because you both really know eachother, which is great thing to have. Why not give him a call and apologise, just say you have realised how you must have hurt his feelings, and that you miss him more than you thought. Ask if he would meet up for a drink to shake hands so to speak, then you can both talk properly i.e make a go of things or agree to remain just freinds. but no more teasing.
I hope this has helped x
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