She lied to me about her sexual past and I can't get over it, please help me.
Q. Before my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time she told me I was going to be her first. While we were having sex I realized she was lying to me. Also, I did a lot of research about virginity and concluded that she was lying to me. She told ...
A. 8 September 2011: Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if its broken BUT you can ALWAYS see the cracks in the reflection. She sounds like a liar and you should leave her and find a woman who can fufill your needs, there are millions out there waiting for you. Good ... (read in full...)
She likes, would date me....BUT she still wants to have sex with other people!!!
Q. Ok, this is a WEIRD one. But maybe you guys can help. See, I know this girl who is sort of promiscuous. Yet she's hott. And sweet. And so we been out a bit. Never slept together or anything because believe it or not, I dont think people should do...
A. 8 September 2011: I know these type of women, they just dont like being comitted to a relationship, they just want sex. They are not ready for love but just sex, they will be in the future but not right now. You can't a change a person remember that. She basically ... (read in full...)
I lied to my online friend and I am worried she will find out
Q. Hi there,, I met a girl online a good couple years ago and we got on quite well, problem is, I lied about a lot - Including my age. I'm 18 now but according to my alter ego I should be 20. Now usually this wouldn't be a problem but after a while of...
A. 8 September 2011: Hey. Ok, ive also meet people online and of course i lied about my age and other stuff but when i told that person, she didnt care or mind. About 90% of people online lie about something. Everybody does it, no biggie. Don't worry about it, im sure ... (read in full...)
I asked her to meet me but now I don't know what to say!
Q. Guys please help me, there is this girl in my class that I love, I already told her how I feel and I told her that I want to be with her.. but she says she doesn't know what to do or how to react to this feelings I have. we get along but we don't ...
A. 7 September 2011: You should tell her that you are atracted to her but dont tell her that you love her cause then you will sound like a stalker. Be somooth, take things slow and just ask her out on a date and see where things go. Tell her to give you a chance. good ... (read in full...)
She asked why I like her and I couldnt think of a reason!
Q. well im in a relationship with a girl for about 4months? we dont really keep track. and she asked me why i liked her, and i couldnt give her a explination, i tried thinking of why i like her but i couldnt think of anything! but something about ...
A. 7 September 2011: She should be happy theres not a reason like a big ass or big tits. this is just typical attraction, you dont what but you just are. Its unexplainable. Good luck!...Peace..... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a guy to sympathise and cry with his girlfriend?
Q. Is it wrong for a guy to cry with his girlfriend? I'm usually not the type to show much emotion. But not to long ago my girlfriend started to cry because of alot of stress she's been going through (the friends she has tend to put her down for who ...
A. 7 September 2011: There is nothing wrong that, it just shows all your love for her. As for those friends, tell her that they are not true friends and she is better off without them. Dont worry about it. Just make her happy everytime you see her. Good ... (read in full...)
Is my partner's brother just trying to be macho in front of me? Or is he trying to tell me something?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my same-sex partner for almost two years. My partner has a brother who is "straight" he has a girlfriend, and always has that macho man attitude. He treats his family, including his brother really rude, on ...
A. 7 September 2011: Dont get exited, thats just how some dudes act. Hes playing with you, dont fall for it. ... (read in full...)
Tips on how to ask a girl out!
Q. Hi everyone, I fancy a girl in my school. We are very good friends and she does know a lot about my past. I am considering to ask her to be my girlfriend. This is not my first time asking a girl out but the last two times failed and I don'...
A. 7 September 2011: You say yall 2 are friends so dont worry too much about it. When yall are walking just start a conversation ask her "do you have a boyfriend"? Then just ask her and if she says no just tell her to give you a chance to see how things turn out. And if ... (read in full...)
Am I the only person who doesn't like casual sex?
Q. Firstly, I want to say that to those whose opinions vary from mine- I respect your choice and this is not meant to be 'anti-promiscious' in general, even if I personally am for my life. I am 25 and in my first year of college. I am loving it her...
A. 7 September 2011: Theres nothing wrong with that. Who cares what people say and do, dont be the one to fall under peer preasure. At the end of the day you will not be the one dying od aids and regeretting things. Keep your head up. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How can I feel less empty and get a girl to notice me?
Q. I've had an emotional empty feeling for a few years. I can't identify the cause despite but it might have developed from the sadness that was caused to me as a child about things that I couldn't control and being very unfortunate. I do have good ...
A. 7 September 2011: Your just growing through that weird stage in every boys life, puberty. As you become older things will improve and you will find hapiness. You also have someone who is always there and that is God, he gives hope. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I properly satisfy my curiousity?
Q. Ok to put this bluntly I've fantisized about having sex with another male since I was in my late teens. The only way I can think of, to try this out is meeting someone online, especially in my area. Obvisouly I want to be safe both physically and ...
A. 7 September 2011: As long as you are single and not cheating on anyone i say go for it. But beware cause you may go gay and never come back. And also gay sex does not compare to real sex cause the butt is not lubricated so you gotta use alot of water based lubricant ... (read in full...)
Is it possible he'll consent to having sex with me?
Q. hey i am gay and i have a friend whom i like very much but i don't know if he is gay or straight. next month he is coming to my house to stay for a week, we will sleep in the same room alone, and i really want to have sex with him is there any way i ...
A. 7 September 2011: First you gotta learn if hes straight or gay. If hes straight do NOT try to have sex with him, please just leave it alone, it is what it is and you cant change that. And if he is gay then pack some lube and condoms and ride that horse until you cant ... (read in full...)
Gay dating in high school?
Q. Just a little about me, I'm an out gay sophomore, at a Catholic school, in a city that is supportive of homosexuality, though gay marriage isn't available anymore for some reason... Anyway, how am I supposed to date in high school? No sourc...
A. 6 September 2011: Rock on! It must not be that easy to be openly gay in a catholic surrounding, all the power to you man. About the senior guy, you say you wanna know if hes gay or not and the only way to find that out is to become a friend of his, one of these days ... (read in full...)
I can't understand why my gf feels uncomfortable holding hands with me in public
Q. I find it strange that my six months gf tells me she feels uncomfortable holding hands with me in public( I mean places like in a park or even on the street when we are walking)although she has no problem doing the same (holding hands indoors).At ...
A. 6 September 2011: As your love for each other grows there is no doubt that she can change that. Love changes a person and when its true love you wanna show the world, so i have no doubt that she will want to hold your hand in the future. When your in love you feel ... (read in full...)
Why does my BF have my name listed as "Christopher" on his phone? Could he be cheating on me?
Q. I just discovered that my boyfriend has me listed in his phone by a male name - Christopher, when clearly that is not my name. My name doesn't even start with the letter C. This is sooooooo very strange, and I was not happy about this. I asked ...
A. 6 September 2011: He is cheating on you. He has another girl who is problaby jealous and dosent want her to know. Simple as that.... (read in full...)
I can't understand why my gf feels uncomfortable holding hands with me in public
Q. I find it strange that my six months gf tells me she feels uncomfortable holding hands with me in public( I mean places like in a park or even on the street when we are walking)although she has no problem doing the same (holding hands indoors).At ...
A. 6 September 2011: You need to calm down. I had a girl who didnt want to hold hands in public because she was afraid that someone was gonna see her with a dude holding hands and tell her dad and she didnt wanna get in trouble. Just ask your girl why? And respect it. ... (read in full...)
Don't want to do anything stupid. Should I tell my "friend" that I like his girlfriend, but I'm not going to act on my feelings?
Q. so im in love with my "friend's" girlfriend and have been since february. I just want to be with her so much and everytime i speak or talk to her i just want to kiss her. we are quite good friends and talk very often. we text and facebook. i told...
A. 6 September 2011: Yes, life is short and you should waste time. Act on your feelings and see where it takes you.... (read in full...)
Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I ejaculate into her anally?
Q. Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I ejaculate into her anally?...
A. 6 September 2011: No. Just make sure your cum does not drip down to her vagina besides that there is no way anyone can ge pregnant during anal sex. Carry on! Good luck brotha.... (read in full...)
I don't usually date younger guys but I like this one. Shall I make an exception?
Q. So I like this guy...and I know for a fact that he likes me too..but he's a sophomore and I'm a senior...I've never even considered dating younger because of boys maturity levels in the first place. I've tried to reconsider because I do like him but ...
A. 6 September 2011: Why not? As long as your both under 18.... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to say "I love you"?
Q. Okay, so recently (about a month)I started dating this girl. She was my first girlfriend I did ANYTHING with, I even lost my virginity to her...Is it too soon to say "I love you" or am I just caught up in post sex lust? ...
A. 6 September 2011: Yeah dude, i think your just caught up in post sex lust and there is nothing wrong with that, thats what being young is all about. But if your serious just wait like a little bit more and figure out if you love her or her vagina?and nice job on ... (read in full...)
How can I make this girl laugh no matter what mood she is in?
Q. First of all this is not really much of a relationship problem at the same time it is though. I want to know how a guy can have a good sense of humour or a way to make the girl he loves laugh no matter what mood she is in. This girl I like so much ...
A. 5 September 2011: Well your either funny or your not, you cant change that...although you can go to clown school. If you really like her then just go and talk to her and tell it how it how it is. Be like this is me either take it or leave it. But BEWARE to not cross ... (read in full...)
I would like to be more than friends, but she is a serial cheat and I worry that she would do the same to me
Q. We're both 16 and we've known each other for about 5 years and been best friends for about 2 years. We are very honest to each other and we've both admitted to liking each other however one of us or the other has always been in a relationship so ...
A. 5 September 2011: You should talk to her really in depth because it seems that all of this cheating is coming from a dark place that could be either at home or she has had bad experiences in the past, ask her what happend and why she cheats so much. If she says she ... (read in full...)
Male, 20 and still a virgin
Q. Just as the title says. I absolutely hate myself for it too. What a loser i must be. Worse, everyone's always telling me how good looking i am and what a good sense of humour i have. So why the HELL cant i make it work for me?? Im a useless failure. ...
A. 5 September 2011: You are just over reacting! YOU WILL HAVE SEX ONE DAY AND IT WILL BE AMAZING!... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my vaginal tightness!
Q. Hi im 16 and still a virgin. (going to get a bit graphic sorry) When i masturbate i normally only use 1 finger, however recently i tried to experiment and found that i could fit up to four fingers with little discomfort. I now feel absolutely ...
A. 5 September 2011: Dont worry about it, your just growing up.A guy will love you for you.... (read in full...)
I have so much love to give. But how do I encourage my first Gay love relationship? Also low self esteem is another issue for me.
Q. Hi I'm 16 and I'm gay. The thing is I've never been in a relationship and I feel so lonely all the time. I really want to be with someone. I'm not desperate, but one of my greatest fears is spending my life alone, and not sharing myself at leas...
A. 5 September 2011: Just relax, You feel lonely cause there is problaby no one gay at your school or around you, Im not gonna lie it is tough but you will come through.Your just 16 you have so many years ahead of you.As you grow up you will go to difrent places and ... (read in full...)
Fiance has no self esteem and is anorexic, now she's pushing me away. What should I do?
Q. my fiance is very beautiful and a wonderful person however she has no self esteem and is anorexic. a couple months back she was doing great with her eating but not so good with her mood. against my wishes and judgement her psychologist and docter ...
A. 5 September 2011: She needs to work on herself and go see a doctor or enter rehab, please dont just ignore her problem or something bad will happen. Theres a quote "THE GREATEST LOVE YOU CAN HAVE IS THE ONE WITH YOURSELF AND IF YOU FIND SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU, WELL ... (read in full...)
She will not cook, will not clean. I do it all, so I ask my self the same question every night, "is it worth all of this?
Q. I dont honestly have the slightest clue on how to piece all of this together but here we go.. Just a little bit of information about my self before we start, i seem to think way too much into things, but i never actually express the way i feel v...
A. 5 September 2011: You have to understand that in order for a marriage or relationship to be succesful, its gotta be team work and there has to be comunation and tough love because if you or her are doind something wrong, how will that person know? And before you 2 ... (read in full...)
I'm over a girl, but can't get her out of my head?
Q. I can't sleep, haven't been able to for a while now. It's not as if I'm lying there staring at my ceiling doing nothing - I know what's keeping me up; my thoughts. Problem being, I can't seem to stop them. I over-analyze every situation and more ...
A. 5 September 2011: You should not worry too much about this because your very young and you have to learn that girls are gonna come and go, thats how you will find ultimately the girl of your dreams. Your around 16 and 17 and your hormones seem to be all over the ... (read in full...)
He has cheated on me.What's a girl to do? he asked me "so what are we?" what did he mean by that?
Q. Ok im not sure where to start.. all im going to say is i have no idea what the hell im doing. and im 15 that would make sense for that reason huh. Anyways awhile back in Feburary this year i met this guy(22yrs old) online, yeah i know, anyways ...
A. 5 September 2011: He asked you that because you and him never really talked about what youguys are. And just a tip of advide, you should date guys your own age, older guys are more experienced and usally want more because they are not 15 anymore. And about your dad, ... (read in full...)
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