B/f in a coma because he tried to save my life
Q. I was on a double date with my best friend, so all together there was me and my boyfriend, and my best friend and his girlfriend. We were walking back home when suddenly a car came speeding past us (turns out it was a drunk driver). I proba...
A. 4 January 2012: Thank You
He is still in a coma but isn't allowed any visiters.
Yesterday Night his stability became critical.
I'm so scared they go he probably doe or not even wake up.
I tried ruling for permission but it was denied. They won't evened... (read in full...)
Can someone explain why people talk so positively? I think it inappropriate and don't believe it.
Q. Why are people always telling me ,that things are going to be all right, when it is not really posible in. my case. I feel deaf ears are listening my story. And they think, I m guilty. if I don t want to believe positive ideas. False hope is not ...
A. 1 January 2012: The past of a person can change their outlook on life for example
A person who has had a simple, calm and enjoyable past will be positive on future outcomes.
A person who has had a hard, bad and sad past will most likely be negative to future o... (read in full...)
How much help is too much help?
Q. A guy I met online is coming to town and he's asked me to help him rent a bedsit so I did. The thing is the bedsit is in bad shape and there is basically nothing habitable about it. He'll be arriving late on Saturday ( no shops will be open on ...
A. 30 December 2011: No Problem Glad To Help xoxoxo... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex? Because he keeps comparing me to her!
Q. Hey :) I really need your advice. I go out with this lad, he's 21 and I'm 18. We've both been treated badly in the past by exs before and it helped us to get closer. However, theres this one particular ex that he keeps mentioning! She's calle...
A. 30 December 2011: Well most guys do that to make their girlfriends jealous, he does sound quite hung up on her though, so maybe he isn't over. It sounds like he is lusting over her more than loving her whether he knows or not I don't know for sure but he does seem ... (read in full...)
How much help is too much help?
Q. A guy I met online is coming to town and he's asked me to help him rent a bedsit so I did. The thing is the bedsit is in bad shape and there is basically nothing habitable about it. He'll be arriving late on Saturday ( no shops will be open on ...
A. 30 December 2011: Remember it always pays to be nice I suggest you do what you think is right?... (read in full...)
I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?
Q. Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board...
A. 29 December 2011: Well some boy friends can be really possessive, try hanging out with both of them and see how he reacts, if he gets jealous he will show it, back off her and she does soun interested in you other ways to tell if a girl like you are:
- She laug... (read in full...)
I'm over my ex, so why is this news making me feel so bad?
Q. Me and my ex were together for 4 years and broke up 10 months ago, but he's been chasing me since then and told me that the rumours were true. He took this girl out and he told me that it was cos he can't say no, she begged him and she knew he had ...
A. 29 December 2011: After hearing more information it does sound like you are genuinly over him. I had a boyfriend, we were together for 3 years on our third year anniversary, I caught him at a club (sober) with this GUY! They got a room and were about to have sex but ... (read in full...)
I'm over my ex, so why is this news making me feel so bad?
Q. Me and my ex were together for 4 years and broke up 10 months ago, but he's been chasing me since then and told me that the rumours were true. He took this girl out and he told me that it was cos he can't say no, she begged him and she knew he had ...
A. 29 December 2011: After mentioning that it does sound like you shouldn't go back to him. You're. Probably just hurt because when you see him with someone it isn't you and you think 'why her and not me?'... (read in full...)
He hasn't texted me at all today! Is he losing interest?
Q. So this will be super long, but I don't really have anyone to vent to. Here goes: I've started talking to this guy, (we'll call him Steve) who is a co-worker of mine and a friend of my good friend John. My friend John says Steve has confidence i...
A. 29 December 2011: No, I dont think you're crazy. Yes, I think you re over thinking things. No, I don't suppose he is leading you on. My help to you is simple, clearly he is quite inexperienced and currently upset I maybe a girl but I hate when people start pitying me ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling uncomfortable and doubtful after meeting my bf's daughter
Q. Sorry this post is a little long, but I need help! :( I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating on and off for about a year and six months now. After the first six months of dating, he broke-down and admitted to me that he ha...
A. 29 December 2011: All I am going to say is if he loves you he will stick with you no matter what his ex does. Your decision was hard to make I went through the same thing but I decided to keep her even though I was raped, the baby did nothing wrong so I didn't see ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my boss's best mate!
Q. I have fallen for my boss's best mate! I have known this guy now for 10yrs and when we 1st met I knew there was a connection, however I am 6 years younger so didn't make a move. He since moved away from the area and we only saw each other about...
A. 29 December 2011: To me it sounds as he is tying to rebound using you, but it was pretty much coincedence that you met so it probably is most likely he is interested, don't let him come on too strongly though, and also age doesn't matter neither does, size, colour, ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my boss's best mate!
Q. I have fallen for my boss's best mate! I have known this guy now for 10yrs and when we 1st met I knew there was a connection, however I am 6 years younger so didn't make a move. He since moved away from the area and we only saw each other about...
A. 29 December 2011: To me it sounds as he is tying to rebound using you, but it was pretty much coincedentle that you met so it probably is most likely he is interested, don't let him come on too strongly though, and also age dosen't matter neither does, size, colour, ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side
Q. I am worried about my boyfriend's aggressive side. We've been dating for 4 months now, and sometimes he really snaps at me, and is rude/intolerant about other people. I just worry that he may become violent at some point. For instance, h...
A. 29 December 2011: It seems to me his childhood has made a big impact on him bein aggressive, I think it would be best if he was diagnosed as it sounds as he may have some sort of mental illness. Hope this helps : - )!... (read in full...)
My guy used to treat me like a princess but now I feel like he doesn't care
Q. My fiance had a troubling childhood. His dad didn't take good care of him, his mom was never around and he dealt with A LOT of bullying and being made fun of relentlessly. He married his ex-wife in 1997. Not because he loved her, but because he j...
A. 29 December 2011: I do believe you have a deep connection, but the way he treated his first wife wasn't right, he made a mistake and it cost him dearly, I understand that he has had a troubled childhood but that doesn't make it righ for him to act this way. I mostly ... (read in full...)
I am almost a beautiful 22 year old and never had a boyfriend
Q. Where will I find him? The right guy for me? I tried online dating, the only messages I get are from guys that I am not attracted to. They write me nice messages saying how I have beautiful eyes and smile. Its very nice of them to write me nice mes...
A. 29 December 2011: Even at 22 take your time, instead of searching for Mr Right let him find you, and try to give more guys a chance, a tip is when they ask you out look deep in to their eyes and if you see too much list (in a wrong way) they are probably a player, ... (read in full...)
Can somebody help to organize my life!
Q. Hi everybody? I need some tips to keep my life organized for example the truth is I stink,im too lazy to take showers,im too lazy to exercise,poor diet I eat nothing but junk food,im too lazy to look pretty,i have a mess in my room!i have goals that ...
A. 29 December 2011: Find something which pushes you to do these things e.g. Family, Friends, lover, some sort of goal in your life etc. and use that to help you. Hope this helps!... (read in full...)
Should I go out with what I feel is a pity date?
Q. An acquaintance of mine from high school has asked to take me on a date. Thing is, through the 5 years I've known him, I'm really not attracted to him. It also seems as though he's trying too hard to impress me about himself by saying how he st...
A. 29 December 2011: Everyone deserves a chance so give him one, but if you feel that it won't work break it off, don't keep dating him if you still feel nothing otherwise if he really is in to you, you could hurt him. Hope this helps!... (read in full...)
He is himself around me, but with other girls he tries hard. What does that mean?
Q. I'm dating my best guy friend that I've known for almost two years already. We've been going out for almost a month now but we were talking for two months before that. Before me he dated this other girl for 1 year and some months but she broke it ...
A. 29 December 2011: I once dated my best guy friend but in the end we broke up, simply because the feelings we had for each other were deeper, and right now we're like siblings (some people say we are inseparable). This could be the same with you or the other reason ... (read in full...)
Do I let go of the one I want the most?
Q. 4 years ago I met someone special. We dated for about 3 months or so until just before Christmas when he basically grew apart from me and went quiet and wouldn't discuss what was going on with him. He broke up with me when I dug too deep. Later ...
A. 29 December 2011: He is hung up on his ex a lot. If he doesn't let her go you should let him go. You know what they say: if you love someone set them free, and it they love you back the will eventually return. Hope this helps : - )!... (read in full...)
Girl that keeps coming into our bar fancies my husband
Q. Im married 6years. Me and my hubby have just opened up a bar which is going ok. I did hire this girl who i found out a few days later that she fancies him. I have fired her already. But she keeps coming to the bar. Ive said it to my husband and he ...
A. 29 December 2011: Simple, every human gets jealous it's completely natural (if you weren't I would've been worried) well you may not trust this girl but always trust your Husband, if she comes on too strongly he should stop her if not, maybe he isn't that faithful to ... (read in full...)
I'm over my ex, so why is this news making me feel so bad?
Q. Me and my ex were together for 4 years and broke up 10 months ago, but he's been chasing me since then and told me that the rumours were true. He took this girl out and he told me that it was cos he can't say no, she begged him and she knew he had ...
A. 29 December 2011: Have you ever thought deep down inside of you, you really aren't over him? But it could also be because of the break up. The fact that you were together for 4 years is impressive though. Look in the mirror and ask yourself, Do you love him? I hope ... (read in full...)
I'm over my ex, so why is this news making me feel so bad?
Q. Me and my ex were together for 4 years and broke up 10 months ago, but he's been chasing me since then and told me that the rumours were true. He took this girl out and he told me that it was cos he can't say no, she begged him and she knew he had ...
A. 29 December 2011: Have you ever thought deep down inside of you, you really aren't over him? But it could also be because of the break up. The fact that you were together for 4 years is impressive though. Look in the mirror and ask yourself, Do you love him? I hope ... (read in full...)
Am I ever going to fit into his busy schedule?
Q. I've been dating my bf for about a little more than a year. I'm still in college but he's just graduated and now has a full time job, along with other extracurricular activities he's been doing for a long time. He claims we won't be able to see each ...
A. 29 December 2011: In my opinion if you really want this relationship to work you have to try and never give up. Make sure though you actually want this, even if he won't have a successful job in the future, you will still want this.... (read in full...)
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