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writes:alright so there is this girl that i am currently talking too,before she started talking to me first, and everything was alright, the way she talked to me was all good and the way we laugh together. and awkward funny moments where i ask something about who she likes and it was obvious to me that it was none other then myself.later a day came and we were hanging out, we started holding hands and fooling around, then we came to a park, cracking jokes and having fun. then we came close and i looked at her and she looked nervous in a good way and anxious, as if she was waiting for something, i knew what she was waiting for, i gently went in for a kiss and we kissed, she looked glad and relieved on the outcome, after that, she confessed that she really likes me and i told her that i did as well. but nothing more happened and we are still friends.so after that day, things started to change a little during the weeks. she would still talk to me all nice and sweet but then it twisted with a little sting all around it, its like the outer layer of a cake with the frosting, its sweet and it looks good but in the inside, although it sweet, you can feel something a little bitter in the cake, that you can tell its been hidden yet its still there and you know it. later it started to to progress worse and turned into sarcastic remarks and talking to me like if i was an idiot.it got me upset but i never really told her about until one day i told her that i didnt appreciate it and that its wrong and that she shouldnt be doing itshe understood with attitude and unforunatly added that infamous sarcasm and rudeness. and then she got mad and told me she had to go when it was obvious she didn't want to talk to me anymore.i really like her but im hoping it would change in due time or maybe if i asked her out and basically see what happens in the week for a shorter version instead of watching in the sidelines and nothing actually seeing it for myself.so the question is:what should i do?should i just forget about her and find someone else,or ask her out and see how it works out?thank you very much for reading this lengthy question and i thank for possibly answering.the reason why i like her is because she's gorgeous, she's smart, she can be funny, the way she TALKED (past tense) to me, and the way she told me a whole bunch of stuff that she liked about me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): It's too late baby...it's too late.You are really.... now in the friend zone.Even worse.She also feels a bit scorned because she let you in and you didn't run with it.
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reader, wolfred bane  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Dear Mandy'S right. just tell her how you feel.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (18 May 2011):
 Hi
The only thing you can do, and that is tell her straight you like her and want to be with her. Its the only way your going to find out. Maybe she felt that after the kiss and expressing eachothers feelings, she was scared of loosing the freindship and backed away, but is struggling with it so is being sarcastic and nasty to push you away and taking the easy way out. Or it could be after the kiss she was expecting you to ask her out and you never, you waited to see what she was going to do about it, so feels you might have made a mistake and dont want to hurt her feelings, but inevitably did. It could be anything, but unless you ask her your never going to know. Bite the bullet and tell her. see if she will meet up with you, maybe at the same place you first kissed, and just tell her how you feel. This way you can move on in the direction you are destined too.
I hope this has helped
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