Did he ever really like me or was it just about sex?
Q. Im confused, I met this guy about two years ago at work, he is 29 and i am 40, (i have been told i look younger), it was a fixed term contract, we clicked, we seemed to get on so well and I began to become attracted to him, but never let him know, ...
A. 16 April 2010: Of course ask him. you're 40 years old... why not ask?... (read in full...)
Great sex, and intelligent conversation equals no commitment
Q. I have been sleeping with this guy for 10 months, 2-3 times a week. Talk on the phone everyday at least 2 hrs a day. But he won't take me on a date or commit to a relationship. I always try to leave but it's the BEST sex ever, and he says the same. ...
A. 16 April 2010: He says the same because maybe he's married.
Try reading between the lines more than getting caught in up in just the sex.
You're being played and used like no ones business... (read in full...)
I think she might be using me and trying to control me!
Q. I am 27 and my girlfriend is 38. She has a salon and has alot of male clients that she flirts with. Should I be concerned or let that be? She also has her act together and owns a house and 2 condos that she rents out. I on the other hand have been a ...
A. 16 April 2010: I would move on, in my opinion (or)... Yet, it may have been her that already made the decision on wanting to move on. maybe she's trying to give you a hint bro... (read in full...)
I want to feel the way I used to about him to save our marriage, what do I need to do to get it back?
Q. Me and my husband are both in the Marines and we got married each other after knowing one another only 5 months. We were so crazy about each other at that time though. The problem is, the first year of our marriage was horrible. I felt like he ...
A. 6 April 2010: You know it's easy for all of us on here to just say "Oh just go to counseling, It will be okay!" BUT that's "fony" we are not in your shoes, so we honestly wouldn't know how you feel. I would just go along w/ the divorce while you have time/ch... (read in full...)
Should I go for lunch with my teacher?
Q. Just to give you an insight: A principal I had in middle school agreed to go out to lunch with me when I asked him awhile back. We exchanged numbers and we’ve texted off and on these past couple of months. (Not like crazy, just to set up a day when ...
A. 4 April 2010: I disagree with the others. I honestly think his intentions are different than you think. This will not be the last time you'll see him,..."and you know that" Your story sounds so sugar coated. You make it seem like he's a saint in which I'm sure ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want to have a baby and have even saved up the money for it!
Q. helloo please could you help me! i realy want a baby and i'm 13 but i will be 14 if i have a baby all my mates are sick and tired of me going on about it. i have told my boyfriend and he agrees with me 100% he wants a baby and he has s...
A. 2 April 2010: Have you ever seen that show on Mtv 16 and Pregnant?
They created the show to show people (young girls) that
this isn't a fairy tale. Each and every single last one of those girls are crying there eyes out and telling the world that it's really r... (read in full...)
I want to move, but I'm not sure that my BF and his kids want to come with me...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and half. We live together with his two children. I want to move, but I am not sure he wants to come with me, what do I do?...
A. 29 March 2010: If these kids are not by you. Then move on by yourself.
I really don't understand why you would want to carry that type of baggage around anyway. Stop reducing yourself.... (read in full...)
He won't have sex with me anymore...
Q. I had finally met him! The guy, the right guy. He was more than everything that I wanted, he was what I needed. We are both in our 30's and have been together now for over a year. While things are not always perfect, they are comfortable, safe ...
A. 29 March 2010: Honestly, I think with you running around screaming for sex isn't helping the situation at all.
This man has been battered by scandaless ass women, mostly all his adult life. I really don't think you're fit for him. Let this man have peace and sort... (read in full...)
Hurt and betrayed by his text messages to another woman
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 11 years now and on the weekend of my birthday we rented a resort and invited some friends to celebrate. Well when he fell asleep something told me to check his phone and I did. That's when I found out! I h...
A. 28 March 2010: How do you know they didn't sleep with each other? If he carried a lie this long what make you think they didn't have sex??? You sound like my gf though. I was caught after 9 months of texting my fling on the side (90% of men have one TRUTH BE TOL... (read in full...)
My wife wants to have sex with a black man
Q. I am an average size guy and my wife is large down below after having our child and since I have noticed that she has become frustrated as I am not satisfying her, We have toys and have fun but she has asked if she could sleep with a black man to t...
A. 27 March 2010: You really want to do that? They say once you go Black you never go back... (read in full...)
How can I stand on my own feet and support my family?
Q. Dear cupid, I'm a 24 year married Indian woman who has a one year old child. Two years back I got married to a man who does not take any decision on his own but always depends on his mother for anything, however trivial the issue may be. The prob...
A. 27 March 2010: If it's as bad as you're saying, Then why don't you just divorce the man? I mean all I hear is complaining and what him and his family did (does)Just simply leave and get a divorce. Have you seen that movie called "I can do bad all by myself."... (read in full...)
Love at work place
Q. I am married for the last seven years and I have two kids, however my marriage is loveless. Last year I met this woman at work she is divorced with kids. From the first moment I saw her, I felt attracted to her and she was to me and in no time we ...
A. 27 March 2010: This women pulled the rug right from under your feet like satan did Adam & Eve.
It's time to wake up bro! You have no business being on medication over this bitch.... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell him the baby is NOT his!!!
Q. I am the one who posted pregnant by my old flame I am pregnant by my old flame and have a boyfriend, we have been together for 5 years and its been rocky, I have messed with my old flame two times, I am pregnant and have not told my BF, he is very ...
A. 25 March 2010: I can't believe a person would be SO LOW to carry on disception like you're doing. I can't believe you have no honesty to just come forward and TELL THE TRUTH.
It's going to hurt you unbron child more than ANYBODY else.
Just come clean...... (read in full...)
What can I do so people don't think I have left my husband for another man?
Q. So I have been married to a man for 4 years, and the last 2 years have been bad. He actually said a couple of months ago that completing his education ( he is in Masters program) was more important than me. About a week after that I had decided I ...
A. 23 March 2010: Either way it goes... people are still going to find out. So why hide it? Inless it's more to the story you're not saying?
I mean... it happens everyday people leave there spouse for another. Just be straight up about it. "It is what it is." ... (read in full...)
Should I call it quits over my boyfriend getting high?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a year that I knew smoked blunts(get high) when I met him. I never asked him to quit cold turkey or even quit at all. I know its hard and he has to do it for himself. I just ask out of respect for me cause Im not a ...
A. 15 March 2010: If you hate that much, then why are with him?
I mean really, If it bothers you that much then why stick around? Is the love greater that the Kush you smell?... (read in full...)
My wifes low sex drive is driving me crazy!
Q. We both 30 and have been married for two years. we have a daughter who I love dearly. during the first year of marriage sex was great, but now my wife is no longer interested in sex, she hate it so much, if she goes in bed, she does not want to ...
A. 15 March 2010: Have you thought about porn for the void? most guys, this wouldn't be a question... (read in full...)
Should I fulfill my wifes FFM fantasy?
Q. My wife and I have been married for several years and have a one of a kind relationship. Most people we know tell us wehave the perfect marriage. We just communicate very well and are best friends and can't be 2 hrs without eachother. Our sex has ...
A. 15 March 2010: I see a lot of contradictions in your story, You say people tell you both you have the perect marriage etc, which is a blessing (if that was true, GRANTED)
BUT a perfect marriage wouldn't include a thrid person. (OR) your wifes burning desire for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend kept his ex's panties. Should I do something? What does it mean?
Q. Hi everyone, I just found this sight and was hoping for some advice. I've been in a serious relationship for 18 months and we are talking marriage here. My guy is terrific, thoughtful, giving, considerate and sweet. BUT today as we were doing ...
A. 14 March 2010: I would thing your bf would had, had enough sense to put them in a place (a box in the attic at least)than to just have them laying around like a childs toy in the living room.
This minor situation doesn't speak much volume about your boyf... (read in full...)
Working two jobs...
Q. my boyfriend is taking a job working night shift as a motel clerk. he already has another job plus school. i know he needs the money but im concerned because a) isnt it dangerous to work night shift in motel-what if theres a robbery? and b) i feel ...
A. 9 March 2010: Sounds like myself... I myself work two Full time jobs
"80 hours a week." I love'em both. Let me say.
I have more energy than a solar plant. Lol!!
Besides let him be. People are killing themselves because they lost (A JOB)your man has two.
Th... (read in full...)
I felt like a complete twat!!!
Q. I met this guy through a friend of mine, ive only sopken 2 him on facebook and from what we have spoken about he seems a really nice guy, the reason why my friend said add him was because he was single, Anyway since then we chat on fb every day ...
A. 9 March 2010: You gotta give this guy some credit. At least he was honest to say he was seeing someone. (MOST) guys wouldn't had said a damn thing about there current status and would have took the offer. "There's nothing better for a female to asked the guy ... (read in full...)
How do I proceed with this new friendship?
Q. I am very happily married (13 yrs. with 3 children) and committed to my husband. I met a (getting divorced) man a few weeks ago at the gym and we've recently become facebook friends. He seems to need and appreciate having a friend to talk to and I ...
A. 8 March 2010: I see an affair appoaching soon, Otherwise you wouldn't be here asking/thinking/writting about this so called man at the gym.
The proff is in the pudding.... (read in full...)
Should I continue losing weight, or leave?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We just had a son 4 months ago and we finally moved in together about a month ago. Everything seemed perfect..we get along great and work as a team. We have a lot of fun together and joke around a ...
A. 8 March 2010: Laura1318 is right don't assume. wait and see his actions in time.
DONT jump quickly to conclusion "the hell with what everybody else said."... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is pregnant. She wants me to get rid of my current girlfriend. Am I selfish to say no?
Q. I have just found out my ex girlfirend is 5 months pregnant, she has just found out also she had no idea. Ive always stayed in contact with her and tried to help her. now i want to be there for the child, but i dont know if im ready for a child ...
A. 8 March 2010: Honestly Bro. Everybody's comment is true and on point. But I gotta hit you with this.
"Your (CURRENT) gf may just leave on her own. "You ever thought about that?"
Your ex saying for you to leave her. She may leave you bro.
And do YOU & your E... (read in full...)
I need to take things slower but he sees it as neglect
Q. My bf and I have been going out for 8 mos,I'm getting divorced (separated more than a yr ago) and I have a son.Well, we see each other 1-3 times a week and mostly all day Mondays, we txt about 100 txts daily between both of us, and I call every ...
A. 7 March 2010: No you're not being insensitive, You're just seeing that you a bf that can act like a TOTAL CHILD. "That's petty pathetic" ...If this man can't see that you have a life OUTSIDE of him. I would consider removing my presences from him. "He Sounds l... (read in full...)
How should I deal with paying the mortgage in my marriage?
Q. in a marriage should the man pay the mortgage? how do you feel about it is are hous we split the mortgage...
A. 6 March 2010: If you want to feel "MACHO" (Donald Trump status)... Then go ahead and pay for all of it yourself. But commenly it would be split. Nothing wrong with that. But some men like to go off there ego and try to play Mr. Macho. "I'll pay for all the bill... (read in full...)
Dumped and still don't know what to do!
Q. So he dumped me on Monday (over something pretty small). The problem is that he seriously lacks communication and instead of talking out problems and issues, he just runs away. I want him back!!! I've been doing pretty good with the no contact ...
A. 5 March 2010: (Alcohol was involved).
Once a guy sees his gf act like a slut or something stupid in that nature. You should best believe his desire for you went out the window. He saw (with his own eyes) that you can not be trusted. who was to say, how you coul... (read in full...)
He always wants to brush his teeth and use a mouthwash after oral sex!!!!!
Q. My boyf of 18 months has always wanted to brush his teeth or use mouthwash after performing oral sex on me. I have never been with a man who does this and I always come away feeling very offended and undesirable. Why does he do this..... help!!!! ...
A. 5 March 2010: Honestly. You may be undesirable down there?
Just because he was the (ONLY) guy that does this. doesn't make him strange. "Let's turn the tables a little bit."
maybe it was the men that NEVER said anything after performing oral who was strange?... (read in full...)
He's kicked me out! Is it REALLY over?
Q. I have been married for almost 10 years, we struggled with isssues of him abusing me and going to prison to my alcohol and drug use. In Jan of this year we ended up fighting and he kicked me out. I went to rehab only to come out and he was seeing ...
A. 5 March 2010: Honey... how are we suppose to know???... "Seriously"
You know him better than we do.
"Come on now"... Try getting your life together and then come back to us.... (read in full...)
Do we have a future or am I just a girlfriend to him?
Q. I am 34yo, I have been divorced for almost 2 years. I have been dating this man for almost 4 months. He too has been divorced for almost 2 years. We get along great, he spends every spare second with me. I recently lost my job and he is completely ...
A. 5 March 2010: All honestly... I wouldn't be talking about marriage (period) seeing that you just got out/going throw a divorce.
Caringguy said. Why does a piece of paper make you feel worthy? Why don't you leave things that way they are now?
Besides... "A guy w... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble accepting the way he treats women because of his culture, is it true all men from the middle east are like this?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend is Kurdish. I love him so much but ive got the biggest problem with some of his attitudes, mainly about women but about other things as well. It's not just him, all his friends also have these attitudes, I'm told frequent...
A. 5 March 2010: Seriously... If he really acts this way (which is most likely true) and treats you this way. I'm surprised you're still around. I would have been gone LOOOONG time ago.
"I love'em blah blah blah... You need to throw that crap out the window. Let ... (read in full...)
I found 'brutalized anal' pornography in my boyfriend's computer history!
Q. While using my boyfriends computer the other day, a history item popped up in his search engine as I was trying to type, it was some of his porn viewing history. I don't have a problem with porn but what came up was a search for 'brutalized anal'. T...
A. 5 March 2010: Lol!! I'm not surprised. Men/women do things that in private when there spouse/gf/bf is not around.
What will he find in YOUR computer if you wasn't around?
"Get over it"... (read in full...)
I'm tired of dating his kids...
Q. so.... been dating this guy for 8+ years. He has 3 kids, they are now in their early 20s and one is turning 18 this year. I've spent countless weekends sitting at his house with the kids and watching tv, playing board games, going to baseball games, ...
A. 5 March 2010: Age shouldn't matter, I think anybody can see that you have a problem with it. "Not just 40 (or) older.
Why don't you just do the simple thing of "TALKING TO HIM!!"
Why make this more difficult.... (read in full...)
Am I REALLY the dad and she's lying about the dates???
Q. I'm going to be more specific. Me and this girl fooled around a little, we did not have intercourse at all but I ejaculated on her stomach, left the room to clean up for a couple of minutes and then returned. This was on December 2nd 2009. She ...
A. 4 March 2010: What ever the case is bro... "You made your bed, Now lay in it"
You should have known better to mess around with this trashy bitch in the first place. regardless of your pass.
"CUT ALL TIES!!"
Be there for the kid and that's it... (read in full...)
Pregnant, but wish it was my ex's!
Q. I am in a tricky situation. I split up with my ex Tim, who I dated for 4 years, 3 months ago but we have remained friends. I was 2 timing him for a few months (which he doesn't know about, and for which I am truely sorry). I have been dating Ed ...
A. 2 March 2010: "You made your bed, Now lay in it"... No sympathy over here.... (read in full...)
I wonder if a player could stop playing for somebody like me
Q. Hi :) Right, heres the deal, there was a guy I met when I went out with a friend from uni, he lives in her halls, we got talking and just had a spark, you know one of those people who you can just talk to for hours? Well, we did, for around 4 hours ...
A. 27 February 2010: A playa isn't going to change for NO female. To even think that sound ridiculus... (read in full...)
I think he is telling lies and is with another woman
Q. OK it's this guy I Been seeing for like two months but knew him for about 3 years we live in the same building the time was never right for us to hook up until like 2 months ago he is 40 and I am 28 we spend ever night together and he haven't ask me ...
A. 27 February 2010: This 40 year old used you. I can see this no other way.
... (read in full...)
My husband has cheated on me, how do I get over this and forgive him?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles, I have been married over 30 years and recently found that my husband has had at least 2 'emotional' affairs (which he admits to and swears they were no more than that???). This has DEVASTATED me. Question is what do I do...
A. 27 February 2010: Emotional Affairs???... Men don't have emotional affairs. I honestly can tell you, I don't think he is being honest. (GRANTED)He confessed to affairs. But I think he told you the least of what he did. Physical affairs is what men crave. I highly ... (read in full...)
I think a friend has nude picture of my wife!
Q. How do I go about asking a friend if he has nude pictures of my wife? I have reason to believe he does, as he alluded to it once years ago. They would have been made years ago when she was younger by an old boyfriend {not the guy with the pictures). ...
A. 27 February 2010: Let it go bro. The title of your story is "I think a friend has nude picture of my wife!"
Key word in this is "YOU THINK"... You yourself isn't even sure this is so. "Let it go"
... (read in full...)
We were getting on great until I told him I have kids
Q. Ok, this is another situation that I'm starting to have. Its kinda related to my previous experience with me and a married man. About 8 months ago I met another man that started working with us. We immediately got attracted to each other just by ...
A. 27 February 2010: I can see the selfishness you have, I can EVEN see, with US readers that you barley mention your kids. (So none shulant about it) As if your kids were a mistake and you're just putting up with it. It's clear that this man doesn't want you. (Get o... (read in full...)
Do I fancy my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. Hiya, I think i fancy my best friends boyfriend. I know nothing will happen as im not that type of person to do anything about it or even tell him or her how i feel. We are really good friends and he seems to flirt back with me, touching my bum, ...
A. 23 February 2010: "So you THINK you won't do any thing w/ him?"
Please... It's clear he's all you're thinking about
So don't come off to say You're not like that, I will never touch him. "Not true" Let him make a move when his gf is not around and see how craz... (read in full...)
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