Wife said I could leave so she can take care of ailing mother.
Q. My wife and I have been married for 3 years and been together for 6. We are very happy and close and I couldn't ask for a better partner! Sometime before we met her mother was diagnosed with a rare cancer and given a very brief life expectancy, ...
A. 16 May 2014: What was your reaction when she told you all this?
Tell her your feelings on the situation and go frmo there. My wife became a full time carer for her mum when she was diagnosed with cancer and life came to a standstill in many respects. It was v... (read in full...)
Need help with premature ejaculation when masturbating is difficult
Q. Hi, I suffer from premature ejaculation and hence find sex a bit crap. My wife and I are very stressed out with work/non sleeping kids/studies and we get to make love max once a week. However, I find it an anti climax as I only last so long in...
A. 27 April 2012: Thanks Daniel and Honesty.
How can the kegels improve stamina?
I don't see our situtation changing much atm to be honest.... (read in full...)
Do I confront my wife about her cheating or just file for a divorce?
Q. i have discovered that my wife of six years is having an online affair,as if thats not bad enough the third party involved mentions in his emails about my children being as his own children and says they will all be together as a new family soon,i ...
A. 12 April 2012: Make sure you have evidence.
Dig around first and get some professional advice... (read in full...)
I took him to the clinic because I thought something was wrong with him sexually and now he wont talk to me!
Q. Hi Agony Aunts and Uncles. Okay i've been here before, asking a few questions, and i got wonderful and useful feedback. So now i'm back...same guy...different situation. Okay, so today, i wanted to take him, well the both of us to the clinic ...
A. 27 October 2011: Get off here and go break the hell up with him.... (read in full...)
Should I confront her husband and let him know what his wife has been doing with me for the last 2 years, or let nature take its course?
Q. well , where do i start , was working with this girl for a couple of years , we became the best of friends , would talk about every thing and any thing , she is married , im single , and has kids , i knew all this before any thing had happened , ...
A. 27 October 2011: Good on you. Keep up the strength... (read in full...)
Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society?
Q. Hey, Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society? I'm asking because my bf of 1.5yrs has been making hints about marriage, and it made me wonder if anyone out there actually manages a happy marriage ...
A. 26 October 2011: Yes it is. Every relationship has its ups and downs but there are plenty of young ppl in long term monogamous relationships. Religious folk are quite good at this.... (read in full...)
Neither my cousin or I are getting our sexual needs met by our partners and are thinking of meeting up once in a while to 'satisfy' each other, any opinions?
Q. Ok, I am a 28 year old married male that has a 29 year old married female cousin. I have been married for 5 years and she has been married for 1. We are first cousins and have always been very close growing up. She only has sisters and I only ...
A. 26 October 2011: not incest but cheating is plain wrong.
You should both talk to your respective partners and try and work your way round it.
You two sound v much like you lust for each other but have not indulged for whatever reason... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my wife about her hygiene without offending her?
Q. Hi, My wife's let herself go of late. By this I mean she could shower more and cuold shave more often. How do I bring this up? There have been times when getting intimate has been tough due to smell. I always ensure she orgasms and really en...
A. 17 October 2011: Thanks for the sugggestions. We have two kids and she is extremely tired with looking after them as she's a stay at home mum. I think she does suffer from depression a little, but this is due to being tired from our kids who don't sleep much... (read in full...)
How should I maintain my small figure for the duration of pregnancy?
Q. So, i'm about 10 weeks pregnant and my husband has a thing for thinner models like kate moss and the like. He once told me he married me largely because he knew I'd always be one to stay naturally slender, because of how naturally skinny...
A. 6 July 2009: you will gain the weight of the baby and whilst carrying the baby some more weight with the water protecting the baby.
Your boobs are also likely to get bigger.
If you carry on eating as you are you risk losing the baby. Maybe your husband and... (read in full...)
How can I comfort my sister's kids after she left them?
Q. Yesterday my sister left her marriage for another man who is very wealthy. I have no problem with this however she up and left all 4 of her kids oldest 10 and the youngest 2 years with her husband. She left with no explanation and I only found out ...
A. 15 June 2009: I think you would be best off taking your bro in laws side so your family still has access to the kids. They are the most important at the moment. He's probably going through emotional turmoil as well as physical exhaustion after his stay at home ... (read in full...)
Texting his co-worker 30-40 times a day but says nothing is going on
Q. My husband has been texting a female co-worker at work. Sometimes a multiple of 30 times a day.She is a lot younger than he is. I found out. He swears nothing is going on. Do I believe him, or am I being stupid to think that nothing is going...
A. 28 May 2009: I've done this previously with a couple of female friends and my wife didnt have an issue and tere rea;;y was nothing going on- just good friends. Butt then I'd share some of what was going on as it was at times amusing.
Having said all that, my... (read in full...)
Is this enough proof to get him in trouble?
Q. my friend is 17. she is dating a 22 year old. this girl is my friend and this is my brother she's dating. recently he broke up with her and shes been so unhappy. i found out that her friends want to call the cops on him because of their age...
A. 28 May 2009: Why are there so many brits talking about Australia? There's an American flag by the posters name. Let the Yanks try and help this girl and her brother people.... (read in full...)
Does anyone know the trick to a "flawless lady garden"?
Q. I like to be completely hair free down below. However, no matter what hair removing method I try, I still get red irritation and spots. Does anyone know the trick to a flawless lady garden? ...
A. 27 May 2009: loved the response eyes... (read in full...)
Useless husband doesn't show any appreciation to me
Q. Hello Everyone, I do everything for my husband. I get up before him to make him breakfast, I make sure the house is tidy I fold his laundry, I run him baths, I shave him sometimes as he finds it tedious. As well as household duties I also wr...
A. 27 May 2009: Why should only the finances be split halfway? HE is obviously taking you for granted. You're probably doing the shaving so you can spend some precious time with him This is totally unacceptable. waht will happen if you fall ill or have a child? You ... (read in full...)
Big problem, no sex with wife, she stays out with friends? til 12, what can I do, going nuts here?
Q. I have been married for 10 yrs and have two children. My problem is that my wife and I haven't had sex since Christmas eve. I keep asking her whats wrong with me/us and her excuse everytime is that she isn't interested and is turned off that I ...
A. 25 May 2009: Point out there's a huge difference between working 80 hours a week and what she's doing. You were out, but I'm guessing because you had to be out for your family. Do you have a social life at all? I'd say she's definitely taking advantage of you... (read in full...)
I hate being gay! Can I become heterosexual by taking medication?
Q. I HATE BEING GAY. can we deliberately convert a gay person into heterosexual by means of medical treatment? (i.e. hormone injections, hormone medications (such as??))...
A. 23 May 2009: do you see yourself with a man?... (read in full...)
Should I try to be cool or just be myself?
Q. Since the girl I like turned me down my friend wants to make me "cool". A High Schooler on my bus , who is a girl, says to be myself. I dont know what to do be cool or myself. ...
A. 22 May 2009: being yourself is the coolest to yourself and yourself matters the most to yourself... (read in full...)
Why do men masturbate when they have girlfriends?
Q. Why Do Men Masturbate When They Ave Girlfriends???? Plzzzzzzzzz Help My Bf Dose It N It Make Me Really Angry N We End Up Arguein About Itt!!! I Think It Rude N It Make Me Fill Like He Dosen't Love Me N That He Get More Pleasur Wen He Masturba...
A. 21 May 2009: IT's not a matter of you allowing him- that's why you were maybe called a control freak. It's his decision even thoguh you're together. You should try asking him why he needs to masturbate so much and take it from there.... (read in full...)
My wife is talking and flirting with her first love.
Q. I am a 43 year male who is married to a wonderful person. Found out that she has been emailing, chatting, probably talking to what I believe is a first love, the discussions she has are sexually (I miss you and would love you to touch me #@!$ on by ...
A. 20 May 2009: if anyone's gone beyond any bounds, it's her... (read in full...)
Do good looks mean a better life?
Q. do good looking guys have more options of girlfreinds and more freinds and be very popular ...
A. 20 May 2009: nah, no way. it's what's on the inside that makes one happy, and those who look good now, won't do so soon enough... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I slept with someone else when we broke up?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. He as always had a jealousy problem as well as a bad temper. HE has called me every name in the book. He is very spoiled but he also has a lot of issues with his family. I know that he loves ...
A. 20 May 2009: watch the episodes on friends where Ross and Rachel are on a 'break' and all the other times the 'break' is mentioned. good stuff I say!... (read in full...)
CRAZY THOUGHT
Q. CAN'T WAIT TO SEE WHAT GETS SAID FROM THIS ONE! XX--"ACCUSED" You have the choice to live with a gorilla who knows sign language or a dog who sings lullabies, which do you choose? What would chairs look like if our knees were on the back of ou...
A. 20 May 2009: "If ghosts can walk through walls and glide down stairs, why don't they fall through the floor? gravity?"
Gravity would pull them down from first floor to ground floor, if not into the ground.
It's cos they float/fly
... (read in full...)
What should I do I'm in love with my cousin!
Q. I'm in love with my cousin sister since a year now. I like her a lot and want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should i do coz i can't live my life without her and she stays far away from me. I'm not going to forget her if u think i...
A. 18 May 2009: I thought firdt cuonsin marriages in India were not such a biggie I have a fair few asian friends married to cousins.... (read in full...)
Anyone know how to figure when baby would have been conceived?
Q. okay my ex is pregnant and i had always thought she had been faithful to me but i just barely found out that she wasnt which is why shes my ex, well the doctor told her that her due date is oct.14 of 2009 ,can any one tell me roughly around what ...
A. 17 May 2009: will you want her back if the kid is yours/not yours given that she has cheated?
That's perhaps somethign you wanna consider... (read in full...)
I'm a guy. Should I shave my legs?
Q. i am 15, 16 in a week and my legs are full of hairs i just want to know should i shave them because i am an amature footballer and i know that some footballers shave their legs? also i was woundering if i should shave them for the girl i like ...
A. 17 May 2009: Leave them mate. Only pro's can get away with it!... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 16 May 2009: 19... (read in full...)
Help me to be thin!
Q. hello. i have a problem. please help as best you can. well i am 14, 5'4'' and weigh 9 st 9 lbs. i am really fat. i want to weigh 8 st 7 lbs so i am going to do a pro-ana diet and lots of exercise etc. now someone told me that ana can make you pu...
A. 16 May 2009: your BMI is 23 which means you are a healthy average. Going wouldn't make you prettier. In fact the first place you may go skinny and not fully develop are your boobs. i'm sure you don't want that!... (read in full...)
How do I snog with tongues?
Q. My boyfriend wants to snog me at my birthday disco with tounges (tonight) and i don't have a clue how!!!...
A. 16 May 2009: don't think too hard and copy whatever he does if it helps, or at least reciprocate some... (read in full...)
Who should I invite to his birthday celebration? My family or his friends?
Q. I'm planning my bf birthday celebration. I want it to be a surprise! The trip allows 12 guests.. At first I wanted us alone but hey I'm paying for a group so might as well take advantage of it. A 2 hr. trip. Dinner and cruise. His family and ...
A. 14 May 2009: Keep your family away whatever you decide. Though you're paying, you're doing it for him. What he would like is what matters.... (read in full...)
Sleeping while partner has sex with me
Q. hi plz help, in a normal relationship is it right that u should wake up and find your partner has had or is having sex with you this has happend so many times. xxxxxx...
A. 14 May 2009: with you clarification, this is seriously bad! why not try sticking a dildo up his ass whilst he's still asleep?... (read in full...)
Was this misunderstanding blown out of proportion or was I being insensitive?
Q. Please help, I am completely baffled. So yesterday, my boyfriend and i made plans to play tennis. On the way to the court, my friend was checking his stocks on his blackberry and then when we got to the court, it was being occupied. The players ...
A. 14 May 2009: You say there have been other times where he has been engrossed with his work and you've left him to it. Perhaps he is doing this subconsciously and not realising he's working whereas he should be with you. Hpwever, this time he jsut kept ding what ... (read in full...)
Sleeping while partner has sex with me
Q. hi plz help, in a normal relationship is it right that u should wake up and find your partner has had or is having sex with you this has happend so many times. xxxxxx...
A. 13 May 2009: it could be you who initiated it in your sleep... :-)... (read in full...)
Is my partner a nasty piece of work or just ignorant?
Q. Hi, I posted before about a have a problem that is causing me a lot of distress and since then things have got worse. I've been with my partner for 6 years now, during which time I have supported him through all sorts of problems, including a ...
A. 10 May 2009: He;s nasty. Leave him. He's denegrating your own kids and is a racist. ~He shouldn'y be in the force either as I imagine he'll abuse his rights unfairly.... (read in full...)
These trips to the supermarket are getting more frequent!!!
Q. These past few days, my fiance seems different. He's been going out to the supermarket, the one we always use, more than usual. And I know for a fact he HATES going there. I wasn't feeling well so I haven't been with him, when I usually do go. ...
A. 10 May 2009: It's totally normal to be friends with females even when in a relationship. My best friend's female and my wife always says how I'd be mearried to her if I wasn't married already! ... (read in full...)
I need a job but I don't want to work because my boyfriend is already giving me everything I need!
Q. i need some advice and no judgement please, my problem is, my boyfriend is taking care of me,very good care. what ever i neeed he provide, he's on the wealthy side, but i need a job, but i don't want to work because he giving me every thing i need ...
A. 2 May 2009: Pick up experience in fields that take your interest with voluntary work, having a little dab at a few things and then maybe consider training in somethign that really takes your fancy and try and get in to something you would enjoy... (read in full...)
Parenting advice please!
Q. Ok some parenting advice please!!My daughter is 4 1/2years old and currently going to pre school 3 1/2 hours a day(due to start full time in sept). She is a lovely little girl but she has a very short attention span!Her teacher has told us that she ...
A. 2 May 2009: I'm a teacher and i'd say it is partially the teacher's fault for asking a 3.5 yr old to sit cross legged for a long period of tme. Some kids can't do it, and are not at their best when told to sit silently and watch/listen. They need to fiddle ... (read in full...)
I have bruises from where he thumped me!
Q. A few days ago I threw my boyfriend his phone and I haven't got a really good aim and it sort of hit him in the side of the face, not hard, and I apologised and said something like 'eek sorry you know I'm crap at aiming' and he grabbed me and ...
A. 25 April 2009: LEAVE HIM.
ASAP!
If my wife threw a phone in my face by accident, we would both laugh at it! He is physically abusing you.... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my Muslim Parents, but I also love my boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. hi, my parents are strict muslims and are against the idea of having a boyfriend. ive had a boyfriend for 4 years now, and i love him a lot. i cant break up with him. My dad cares about me and has done a lot for me so he doesnt force me like ...
A. 22 April 2009: depends how big the caste issue is to your family and whether it's more a cultural thing they dislike or whether it's religious. Culture can at times be a lot more hassle than religion as you can't convert to a caste. :-)
6 yrs is quite some tim... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to have family in room when I give birth...im not so keen..
Q. Hi, im preganant and baby due in august. Me and my husband are both thrilled but theres 1 aspect im not happy with.... I am having a hospital birth and so far a vaginal birth which is all good but my husband wants his parents and possibly som...
A. 25 March 2009: Definitely agree with everyone else. Sounds repulsive/perversse/cult-like and downright out of order.
Mind if I ask where they are from as I've never heard of anything like this before?
I think my wife'd wanna be separated if I insisted on su... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 23 February 2009: 'Disorder in the American Courts' ATTORNEY: The youngest son, the twenty-year-old, how old is he? WITNESS: He's twenty, much like your IQ. These are from a book called 'Disorder in the American Courts' and are things people actually... (read in full...)
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