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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and i really like him, we both get along brilliantly. But recently i have been thinking about my ex boyfriend alot and miss being with him.Am i being silly or what should I do ?
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reader, troysyaussie  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 i hate to say this but if you cant stop thinking about your ex and miss being with him then you cant say that your current relationship is getting along brilliantly. if it was then you would not still have feelings to be with your ex
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 You're probably remembering the great times you had with your ex.
Try to remember the bad times. You guys broke up for a reason so list all his faults and what drove you nuts about him.
Also..you're probably bored w/your current beau. Maybe he didn't challenge you like your ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): heyin order to move foward in our lives we have to let go of the past.can you let go of your Ex? stop thinking about all his positives and think of the reasons for why you broke up with him? think of his faults because that is why you are both not together.are you still in contact with your ex? and how long ago did you split up? if it is a recent break up from him- then maybe you need to be single for a wild and have some fun-go out with friends and learn more about your self to strengthen yourself for a propa reltionship so that you know yourself. you could contact him- maybe for closure? you could ask him what hes up too? go for a drink just as friends? see how he feels with life? whatever you do dont cheat!!!! it wouldnt be fair on your boyfriend your with now. you need to give him a chance tooo!its hard to let go-because the memories stick.life is like a book, the people in our lives and the adventures we have can be the most amazing, heart warming and sometimes heart breaking-but remember- our chapters will close on somepeople-we learn from our mistakes-and the people who are true-will stick with us untill the end of our story.love and god blessfriend
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