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*ammy
writes:Hey I'm a bit confused about my sexuality i mean I'm getting married in 5wks to the most fantastic bloke I could wish for but I fantasize about having sex with women when I watch porn it has to involve at least 2 women I've had 3 somes with women and enjoyed them but still feel the same way even thou I thought it was a phase I'd NEVER sleep with anyone behind my future husbands back but i need to know if I'm bisexual so how do I know?
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reader, greeneyes292010  +, writes (5 December 2009):
Hello how you know if you are bisexually.Cause all you can do is think of a females touch,smell,making love to them and the things they say and how much they understand you.
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (13 August 2008):
Weather you are bi or not doesn't matter at this point. You are ready to commit yourself to your man in marriage. So their will be no sleeping with other people, neither male or female. You should have shared you sexual past with your feance`. Maybe he would've agreed to an open marriage and allow you to bring female friends to bed with the two of you. If you're married, and your spouse approves of you sleeping with someone else, than it's not really adultery.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2008): You are bi defenetly. Sorry to say but make sure you want to get married to a man when you dnt even know that is him that you really want try experimenting some more it will be better for you
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reader, fishdish +, writes (1 August 2008):
 I've gone through this...for me, I've decided that I don't know who I would date next, a boy or a girl, but it doesn't matter because I'm with the person I want to be with for a looong time, with an unforseeable ending. I think your attractions don't necessarily make you bisexual, let's face it, women have nicer bodies than men :P but it shouldn't be a determinant for your relationship with your fiance--You never know when another man OR another woman may suddenly step in your path and confuse you to want a new partner, but just as you are not tempted to leave a man for the one you have, you should feel equally as untempted to leave for another woman, which you say you do, so it's really not necessary to explore. Unless you're feeling extremely unfulfilled, then I'd say don't worry about it. I would also say fantasies are fantasies and what turns us on is not necessarily something we would ever want to act upon 'in real life', so there's that to consider as well. Message me if you want to talk more!
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 maybe you are just curious about sexuality and you just feel pleasure when you do something different involving women. That doesnt exactly make you bisexual, you can talk this with your new husband and both try a 3 some with another women. SOmehting that makes YOU happy, communication is the key in marriage. If you still feel confused and not sure about this advise. Then i would recommend you to read more about bisexuals and see if you can feel identified.
DO you see yourself having a serious relationship with a girl?
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reader, troysyaussie  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 if you have had a threesome with women and enjoyed it and still feel that you would do it again, then i think it is pretty safe to say you are bi. at your age you are pretty in tune with your body and what makes you feel good and happy. if both sexes make you feel good and happy then yes, you are bi. but you should probably let your soon to be husband know this. he might even like it
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