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writes:well i recently turned 16, so i wouldnt be doin anything illegal, and ive been sexually active with my boyfriend for over a year now, so i have nothing to lose, exept my pride? maybe? i just dunno!! my boyfriends friends and me were out in town on friday night and they were jokin about gangbangs and 4sums, i joked about us having one, (did not mean anything by it, we all joke right?) and my boyfriend took it serious, well i think he did. they really wanna do it.. i stayed at his last night and we had (well details rnt needed) but.. a nite of very very good sex, and afterwards he asked me if i was still interested in the 4some.? so i laughed at him and joked, told him i didnt mean it and he went in a bit of a mood with me... well basicly i would like a bit of advice, should i participate in an orgy with my boyfriend and his two best friendds? he said it would be *worth it* but there all males? how could i please them all?! any advice would be great! i dunno wether to do it or completely stay out! thanks
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reader, troysyaussie  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 wait a minute. your boyfriend wants you to have sex with him and two other men? what kind of a man is he? does he not respect you at all? i would tell him to go screw them and leave his ass. who wants a relationship like that? not me that's for sure. your crazy if you do it. it's one thing if that is something that you have always wanted to do but this will totally label you as a slut for sure. don't do it hun. tell him if he wants a slut then go get one.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 In my opinion, hell no.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 August 2008):
Besides losing your pride, how about losing your self respect? If you don't want to do it, then don't. And even if you think you do, you will probably feel horrible after...not to mention that even though your silly boyfriend thinks it's a good idea, in the end, he probably won't be too happy and won't enjoy it as much as he thought he would. Your boyfriend should respect you and understand that you were just "joking" and that you respect your body enough to not let him and his two friends run train on you. Most MEN would be upset about their girlfriend having sex with other guys, regardless if they are present or not.
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