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writes: she is ready for us to lose our virginity but im not.im 15 n she is 3 years olderwhat do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tii3RN3Ybbs.  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Hi babes,
Well if she loved you she'd listen to your side of the story and give your point of view, in a relationship you shouldn't be scared to just open up and say what you feel,
loosing your virginty must be a special momment with someone you can trust and you need to be ready? not when the other person is and your not,
you need to speak to eatchother about this.
Don't do it just to make her happy,
because thats not how it works.
hppe this helps x
xx
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female
reader, LotusBlossom  +, writes (1 August 2008):
Your virginity is special and sacred and it is to be guarded at all costs. It is not something to be given away because someone else is ready for you to. Once it's gone, that's it. No second chances. You must listen to that voice inside of you that is saying you are not ready to have sex yet. If her love for you is genuine, she will respect your decision to wait without a problem. At both of your ages, there are other wonderful things to focus on in your relationship aside from having sex. Don;t cave under the pressure. Stay true to yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2008): I'll say the same thing as the others. You must wait until you are ready. And first of all you're underage so it wouldn't be legal. Tell her how you feel about it, and if she loves you she should understand and give you the time you need.
xx Hope xx
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reader, xray2112  +, writes (1 August 2008):
Sex is a very strong psychological thing. Being only 15 and not having done it yet, you have no idea how strong it is and what it can do to you if you're not totally ready. Wait. When you're ready, you'll know.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (1 August 2008):
 Tell her, your not ready.
Dont be rushed into anything you dont want to do, plus shes having sex with an underage minor, wait a year or so until you are ready.
If she still pressures you go and move on
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reader, troysyaussie  +, writes (1 August 2008):
 tell her your not ready and if she cant wait and respect that then she is not worth it. you dont want to lose your virginity to someone who doesnt appreciate or respect you. you will always regret it. trust me.
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