Why do I always have to start the conversation?
Q. i like this girl in school and we have been talking on fb for quite sometime...and i make sure that chatting with me is fun. We enjoy chatting and all but the problem is that she never starts the convo whenever i dont and only i have to start it all ...
A. 26 April 2011: aunt honesty has a point with the body language thing if you know what to look for.. but the unfortunate thing is at your age i doubt you know what to look for in body movements. so ya man there is really nothing you can do to make her approach you ... (read in full...)
My ex has a new guy and it makes me feel inferior. Why do I feel like a failure?
Q. My ex girlfriend has a new guy. We split up a couple of months ago because she's moving away from university next month and now she has already found someone in her hometown. I don't mind, because she's moving on and that's what I've been trying to ...
A. 26 April 2011: maybe your just to nice to them? just a thought. but you know what who cares if she found someone else? as easy that it is for her to find someone it's just as easy for you. being all sad is not gonna help you so get out there and find someone else. ... (read in full...)
One date, I want to buy her a small gift, is it too soon?
Q. I recently met a girl and we seem to get along great (common interests, fun to be around, laugh alot) even though we've only been on one date so far. We've talked on the phone quite a bit and texted. We have wanted to get together again real soon ...
A. 25 April 2011: okay Odds has a good point which is good for a certain type of woman but also there are other types that wouldnt be weirded out but a gift. if you were to get something small get ONE flower. and something that looks good but not a red rose.. red ... (read in full...)
I need to end things with my LD b/f but I don't want to come across as being a jerk
Q. Happy Easter everyone. I’m in a bit of a fix and struggling to comprehend it myself. Will try and vocalise it the best I can. Right theres this guy I’ve known for two years now, we went out for a while and then I broke it off (because it was long ...
A. 24 April 2011: long distance relationships DONT WORK. the distance is the problem. also for this finding something sweet to say when breaking up is a waste of time aswell. just tell him its over. easy as that... (read in full...)
Should I continue trying to come back with my ex?
Q. In 2008 I met a girl we were dating for 8 months. Then she became my girlfriend. 5 months later I broke up with her 'cause I wantted to see her often but She was bussy all time Sometimes we see each other after 3 weeks. I tried to forget her ...
A. 22 April 2011: sorry dude your in the friend zone its impossible to get out of there. find some one else. start fresh and youll be back to your old self... (read in full...)
I've realized that I've been trying to guilt her back into a relationship with me. Am I wasting my time?
Q. I had been going out with my ex for 3 years. we broke up late last year because at the time she was moving away to the UK and now I have moved to the UAE for 7 years. We still chat but I still have feelings for her, though I think she has moved ...
A. 20 April 2011: ya man guilt tripping someone into a relationship is not worth it. they wont go back out with you because they like you but because they feel sorry for you. it wont last and will make you feel worse then you do now.... (read in full...)
Would it help my depressed boyfriend if I give him space?
Q. I posted a question before about my LDR boyfriend who dumped me because he became depressed and didnt want love anymore because love is so exhausting to him now and he doesnt want it. He doesnt love me or have any feelings towards me but asked to ...
A. 20 April 2011: I posted a question before about my LDR boyfriend who dumped me because he became depressed and didnt want love anymore because love is so exhausting to him. hey you said it. and good for him to go and get therapy... (read in full...)
I really miss her! Should I contact her or should I wait a while longer and not ruin the work I've done to get over her?
Q. I’m taking a break from my closest friend because I fell in love with her. Taking a break was my idea and she wants to help me through this anyway she can and didn't suggest anything like a break to me. She sees me as a brother so I know that there ...
A. 20 April 2011: well sorry mate. ive never really been a big believer in long distance relationships. because 1 you dont know what is going on once she get off the computer 2 once again the distance, i have to be able to touch hug or whatever if im in a ... (read in full...)
Would it help my depressed boyfriend if I give him space?
Q. I posted a question before about my LDR boyfriend who dumped me because he became depressed and didnt want love anymore because love is so exhausting to him now and he doesnt want it. He doesnt love me or have any feelings towards me but asked to ...
A. 20 April 2011: why not find someone that is in the area rather then playing this fairy tale twilight impossible love game? he's depressed because he finds love exhausting? give me a break. thats the worst excuse ever.... (read in full...)
I'm getting impatient. Is this insecurity or being non-committal?
Q. ive been dating someone for 2 years. we see each other all summer and when he is home for holidays, etc. (im in high school, he is in college) we work together in the summers and get along great. we have the same morals and values and we love ...
A. 20 April 2011: im gonna guess he's in this mainly for the sex.. no offence... (read in full...)
Why does my married employer keep bringing up his ex?
Q. Hi, I have known a certain MARRIED man for the last eight to nine months. I met him at my workplace, as I look after his son. This man has been giving me lifts home from my workplace when he comes to pick his son up quite often. We get on re...
A. 20 April 2011: umm maybe ask him nicely not to mention this or that you dont want to talk about it? since you dont. and he possible still does or it could just be that he is venting to you rather then his wife... (read in full...)
I can't get over his exes!
Q. My boyfriend is older than me and has had lots of sexual partners. Everytime he mentions them I get really jealous and upset, and I cant stop picturing him with all these different girls. How can I stop doing this? Its starting to affect our ...
A. 20 April 2011: why dont you just ask him to stop? im in a relationship right now and i dont talk about my past things and flings. i would just find it rude and upsetting to the other because thats how i would feel.... (read in full...)
I really miss her! Should I contact her or should I wait a while longer and not ruin the work I've done to get over her?
Q. I’m taking a break from my closest friend because I fell in love with her. Taking a break was my idea and she wants to help me through this anyway she can and didn't suggest anything like a break to me. She sees me as a brother so I know that there ...
A. 19 April 2011: well i dont deserve a medal because i didnt read everything.. sorry but i did read to the part where you said she lives in sweden and you in the uk... that is a great distance away.... (read in full...)
I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you...
Q. I've recently met this guy who I'm starting to fall for ,I'm rather shy when it comes to dating guys and I fear rejection lots he seems rather shy also !! .. I was wondering how can you tell if a guy likes you ..I'm not too sure if he likes me or ...
A. 15 April 2011: or maybe what you COULD actually do instead of playing this twilight crap is kind of ask him???? it will save you alot of time and effort and what not... (read in full...)
Since the breakup, I feel like there's no one out there for me, and I'm having bad dreams.
Q. Hello, Here's my situation, its been about 4 months since breaking up with my ex girlfriend. I am 21 years old and had dated her for exactly one year. That year consisted of me being manipulated, abused, cheated on and ultimately resulting in me ...
A. 15 April 2011: this is what you said I am 21 years old and had dated her for exactly one year. That year consisted of me being manipulated, abused, cheated on and ultimately resulting in me being left for another guy on our one year anniversary. this is what... (read in full...)
I'd love to be the confident person I appear to be. How?
Q. I don't want to bang on so I will keep this brief. I have no confidence what's so ever, after years of bullying cause I used to be a bit chubby, now that I've lost a lot of weight and some what attractive I can't bring myself to date and do thin...
A. 15 April 2011: well how about this when you do ask the person out or they ask you out think about it as a just friends thing. you 2 are just friends going out and not like a couple... (read in full...)
Caught her in contact, again. Should I give her another chance? I miss her and her little girl a lot.
Q. Ill try keep this short. Ive caught my Gf of almost 3 years, in contact with another guy. This is the 2nd time. The 1st time was just over a year ago. Both of them work colleagues. Nothing physical happened in both instances. I had been watching her ...
A. 15 April 2011: dude. no more chances. she didnt get the message the first time what makes you think she'll get it this time. it seems like she's just keeping you around to help with her child. not only that if you go back then your going to be the one admitting to ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want to see him every day?
Q. Is it normal that i want to see my boyfriend everyday? and that I get quite upset when he cancels and so we cant *he doesnt do it very often at all* I never used to see my ex this often and I delt with it fine :| I would go 2 weeks without seeing h...
A. 15 April 2011: women fall in love with someone by spending time with them, guys fall in love by spending time away from them.... (read in full...)
Deep down I'm heartbroken. How do I make it better? She took another guy to Prom!
Q. I had prom last night and i dont whether it was one of my best nights or one of my worst. The girl who i have been into deeply for 8 months went with another guy she new outside of school...she claims that they are just good friends... I wa...
A. 15 April 2011: move on man. you are in the "friend" zone. just keep living your life the way you usually do without thinking about her. oh ya your chances of getting out of the friend zone is impossible... (read in full...)
What do I change? hurt and resentment is building. Our last argument was terrible.
Q. I feel afraid to have sex with my boyfriend. We were so close, but he began neglecting me emotionally, affectionatly, and sexually. It got to the point where we would have sex once or twice a month and it often fekt strained, as though he were doing ...
A. 15 April 2011: soo your bf acts like a jerk and you still don't seem to realize is that you can find something better out there. and now you learned your lesson. when you get into a new relationship if something doesnt feel like its right and its degrading you get ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex? I love him but he hasn't changed much.
Q. I met my X of 4years, and in his drunken stupor, he told me I am the woman he loves. {I still miss him and think about him everyday of my life} The next day he invited me to visit him at his place, and we ended up having sex. we both did not tal...
A. 12 April 2011: okay so ask yourself this. why did you 2 break up? if he hasn't changed then whats going to make it better? just because you try your hardest doesn't mean the other will. a relationship is like dancing. there is one person who may take the lead but ... (read in full...)
She doesn't meet my criteria for a life partner. Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I've been doing a lot of thinking. I am unsure about how much I love her because when we're away from each other I sometimes miss her, but more often than not end up think...
A. 11 April 2011: if i go there will be trouble. if i stay it will be double. so come on let me know.. sorry good song.. okay so at the last part you said if you stay you will be moderately happy but if you leave you may find someone better or go back to her. but ... (read in full...)
Is he still attracted to me, or is it really nothing?
Q. It may be a tad long but i just came on here for some advice or insight please! Anything that will help make sense!? Here goes, call me stupid or naive since i know you don't know the guy or me, but if you can make out these actions.. Great!...
A. 11 April 2011: i think he is trying to get over what happened between you two. and maybe you should do the same as well.... (read in full...)
I feel as though I've been cheated on and just don't know what to do
Q. My husband and I have been married for a year and our relationship, sex life was great or so I thought. I recently went out of town with some girlfriends and left a book of sexy pictures of myself out for him to enjoy while I was gone. When I came ...
A. 11 April 2011: how do you know he ... did that while looking at those pictures
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I threw myself at him, Did he lose respect for me? Is there a chance of turning this around?
Q. dated this guy I work w/ for a while, it was steady, intense and consistent. Then I pulled away bc he wasn't spending enough time w/ me. I had hoped he would try to work it out w/ me, but he didn't..he just let me go. I mean, canceled our weekend ...
A. 11 April 2011: well if he goes along with whatever you say does he go along with what others say to? maybe you should take this as a sign. find someone who knows when to agree but has the b@lls to know when to disagree. sure this kind of guy maybe a ass ... (read in full...)
Sex was good in our marriage, but husband has no interest for the past 3 years. Why?
Q. What can be the cause when a man does not want any sex with his wife? Is this possible,that he doesn't know why? What can you do,if he says he loves you,but he never wants sex, ever, for years. He never looks at me naked, or touches me. I as...
A. 11 April 2011: go to the doctor. it could be some kind of a mid life thing.. no offence you guys are a little older and these kind of things can happen and not because of no desire but some other kind of problem. go to the doctors.... (read in full...)
Tossing BF's pregnant friend and son out isn't an option. Need advice on my relationship with BF.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. (Me-26, Him-29) The problem is his best friend, who happens to be female. Over the years, she's lived with my boyfriend off and on as she's trying to get on her feet. She has a son from a ...
A. 11 April 2011: that is weird. its nice to see that your bf is caring but he should be a little more focused on you and also it sounds like shes a bit of a... how can i say.. moouch.... (read in full...)
I can't stop loving him, and he can't stop confusing me. Please advise.
Q. There's this guy, who i love since year 9. Well, he has a girlfriend which is my friend, but not close. I know it's wrong but i don't flirt or do anything. Except eye-contacts. When i first met him, i just felt like he's different from the others. ...
A. 11 April 2011: i stopped reading at the part where you said he has a gf. now you see what happens when you treat things like some twilight movie? rather then telling the person as soon as you like them that you do you stayed quiet till he got a gf and now suddenly ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my husband's girlfriend's husband?
Q. How do I go about informing my husband's girlfriend's husband that she is having an affair? ...
A. 11 April 2011: let it be or talk to your husband about it. if you dont get involved alot of drama is saved. but also makes you feel bad at the same time to. ... (read in full...)
My jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now and recently have known how jealous i can get the jealousy is changing who i am and i hate it and dont know what to do about it it's also changing how i feel about my bf i keep telling myself he ...
A. 11 April 2011: its because you have imagined something that isn't true. the reason why you are jealous is because you dont trust him and are expecting someone to take him away from you simply by talking to him. what you need to do is realize if you keep this up ... (read in full...)
He lied about his age, should I see him again?
Q. Ok I got know this guy over the phone, we talk everyday and text. recently went on a date with him and found out he lied about his age. Turns out he is 9 yrs older tha me, there were a few other little things that I didnt really like, but these ...
A. 11 April 2011: he was being dishonest before the first date. red flags going off BUT you still like him...... (read in full...)
Sleeping with a girl who is "involved". I want more. Please help.
Q. I met a great girl a few months ago and have recently started sleeping with her. The problem is she is in a long distance relationship with a guy in another country. We spend a lot of time together but I get the feeling I'm more into her than s...
A. 11 April 2011: move on. this is the type of girl that gets a thrill from cheating. and also if she goes out with you.. whats going to stop her from cheating on you?... (read in full...)
Ignored.
Q. Alright so recently I confronted my boyfriend about that I thought he was cheating but.. that's not the problem anymore because I trust him now. Although, one thing I've noticed since is.. he's staring to ignore me.. today we was going out and ea...
A. 11 April 2011: maybe cause yous lost his trust? hard to be nice to someone who can't trust you.... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend practice better hygiene?
Q. My boyfriend is a real guys guy, and plays a lot of sport. I don't think he showers properly all the time. He barely washes his hair and it smells!!! and he doesn't cleanse his face and you can see the build up of dirt sometimes where it just lo...
A. 10 April 2011: he sounds like a jerk but hey its your choice. uhhh tell him to wash up or gtfo. simple as that... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to text an apology to an ex?
Q. Do you think apologising to an ex on a text is a good idea? I have a terrible conscience and even though i know we broke up for all good reasons, him admitting he wouldn't change, and a few other stuff, what i regret is the attitude i had w...
A. 10 April 2011: you broke up for a reason. so no dont text/communicate at all... (read in full...)
What should I make of this conversation between my boyfriend and his ex?
Q. What should I make of this conversation between my bf and his ex who I feel he still has feelings for. BOYFRIEND - god i fucken add u for 2 minutes and she went off at me fucken sick of it and i am pissed of at u for not showing up u doit to muc...
A. 10 April 2011: ..... these dots is all i can say to that other then this. you KNOW whats going on there. this is the typical you love he loves she has his nuts in her handbag routine.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend doesn't want sex because of bad sex she had in the past
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been getting really intimate for just over 6 months. When we were talking I brought up sex and she said that she didn't want to. I totally respect her and wouldn't want her to do anything she didn't want to do. But it was ...
A. 10 April 2011: tell her to suck it up. in my opinion your going out with an emotional train wreck. sex doesn't always have to be picture perfect and about 80% of the time it isn't it'll be sloppy, noisy, ect. but there are some people who just idk act all sacred ... (read in full...)
I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man?
Q. I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man? I have had three significant relationships in my life. One isn't a great example because it happened over the internet, but the two others happened whenever I was approached i...
A. 10 April 2011: your lack of confidence is coming from you thinking youll come across as awkward. just go up there and be like yo..no? alright next. yo no? alright next you ya! alright cya later.. catch my drift. just go up there and start a convo by lets say ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend threatens to kill herself
Q. I'm in highschool and just about to go to college and I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and I really love her. But over the year of us dating she began to get really clingy and pretty much abandoned all of her friends for me. Also at ...
A. 10 April 2011: just break up with her. if she wants to be stupid then she can do what ever she wants. but what she is doing right now is dragging you down with her. its a psycological thing. her making you feel bad makes her feel good. and no she will not admit to ... (read in full...)
How important are looks really?
Q. How important are looks really? I'm not a toad, just saying. I would say I'm average. Everytime I meet someone new, they remark on how pretty I am. So theres this guy. (of course there is) and we met like once, in person. We exchanged num...
A. 4 April 2011: ok im not trying to be shallow but im just going to say the truth. looks are fairly important. think about it with out being a hypocrite. would you date a not so attractive guy who didnt care how they looked like? no.... (read in full...)
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