How do I tell the guy I like that I'm pregnant to an ex?
Q. I am pregnant from an ex and have since moved on. A friend from the past just showed up back in my life and I really like him. Unfortunatly, I am not showing yet and he has no idea that in three months I am going to pop. I don't know how to tell ...
A. 21 January 2009: if he truly cares about you he realy wont care. he will help you regardless of who the babies dad is. ive heard of this alot. just be honest with him. you did not mean for this happen and you didnt cheat on him either. things happen in life. ... (read in full...)
The walls of my vagina have collapsed, (what do I do? )
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, I'm 15, but 16 on Monday, I have become sexually active for 1 year, my periods have always been regular, not much menstrual pain and recently the walls of my vagina have not collapsed but ...
A. 21 January 2009: it sounds like your swollen inside. id go to a doctor like the other girl said.... (read in full...)
Would a man get offended if a woman told him his penis was beautiful?
Q. Lol just wondering, would a man be offended if a woman told him that his penis was beautiful? Or would he be flattered??...
A. 21 January 2009: it would be flattering for sure. poeple love compliments in any way shape or form.... (read in full...)
It seems impossible. How can I get him to cum???
Q. I've been with my bf for three weeks, we have a good sex life, but he hasn't came yet. I've asked if he's nervous, but he says he doesn't know what's wrong. He's never been like it before. He did say he hasn't always used condoms with his exes, they ...
A. 21 January 2009: heres some things that might be going on. orgasms are more mental then anything.he needs to relax and let it go. sometimes there holding back so the female orgasms and then they are wore out and dont really care about it. ive had that happen. ... (read in full...)
He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..
Q. OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...
A. 21 January 2009: he is very disrespectful not only to you but also to your unborn child. telling you to go be a whore in the street and your pregnant. hes a sick man. why are you taking his abuse? you should get out of this relationship now while your still pregnant ... (read in full...)
I want another baby and my partner is dead set against it!
Q. I have known my boyfriend for 13 years. During this time he has had 3 children by 3 different women and I have been married twice with one child, so we have both had our problems. Now we have got together and plan to get married. My issue is that I ...
A. 20 January 2009: well i have 2 children and i could not imagine life without them. if you realy want a child of your own youd better choose which is more important.being a single mom is not going to be easy. its a rough road but if your financialy set and you feel ... (read in full...)
When's the best time to begin buying baby items.
Q. Hi, I'm just going into my second trimester of pregnancy and I was wondering when the best time to begin buying baby items. I've bought most of the smaller things, but I don't know if starting to create the nursery now is a good idea or not. I'm ...
A. 20 January 2009: i started buying things when i was about 4 months pregnant. i just wanted to be sure i was not going to miscarriage. i wanted to find out the sex of the baby so i could know what to buy pink or blue. with my first they couldnt tell so i bought ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy?
Q. Is it safe to orgasm during pregnancy? I was advised not to have sex for the first trimester (by my doctor) due to a previous miscarriage. I'm now in my 12th week of pregnancy, does no sex mean no fun on my own? Is masturbating still ok? Ple...
A. 20 January 2009: its fine to orgasm during pregnaancy. dont be surprised if you find yourself feeling extra frisky either. its perfectly normal.... (read in full...)
We are currently off as of yesterday and I can't stop crying.
Q. Ok so I'm 15 female and me and this guy have been going on and off for bout 3 years. I love him a lot but the whole problem is the off part. He's 18 very sweet + sensitive not exactly cute but really who cares. However he has a lot of not so popul...
A. 19 January 2009: hes sounds very immature. honey your 15 years old your going to have your heart broke a hundred times. its part of growing up.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going bald and I hate bald men... how can I change the way I feel?
Q. my boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and he is going bald. i am having a difficult time adjusting to it as I am just not attracted to bald men. We have been together for 5 years, and while I do love him, it's making me see him in a completely ...
A. 19 January 2009: well i had this problem awhile back also. i just shaved off what little bit of hair he did have left and had him grow out a gotee. he got a make over from me. if your boyfriend does not want to do that then just ask him to wear a hat or a cowboy ... (read in full...)
Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?
Q. My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...
A. 17 January 2009: well you say you dont want to go so then dont go.if my ex was in a hospital room recovering and he wanted to see me i dont think i would go unless it was his last dying wish to see me. then i would concider it.... (read in full...)
How should I bring it up to him?
Q. Ok so I have been seeing this guy for a little over two months. We have been texting every day, once in a while we'll talk on the phone and we rarely see each other. He lives about 30 minutes away from me. I would like to see him more often, but to ...
A. 17 January 2009: well if some man i liked alot made plans with me and backed out i would only let it happen once.that would be a definete red flag. i would have been so excited to be doing something with my guy friend and then get let down that would suck. i would ... (read in full...)
Should I be making an exit strategy?
Q. So I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and we have a lot of problems. It seemed to start out good and then she confessed to a major lie. She told me that her brother's wife died and he is unable to take care of his kids so she ...
A. 16 January 2009: those kids have been thrue alot. however shes not a good parent. it sounds like shes a bunch of trouble. i dont know what i would do. i feel sorry for the kids and for you. on one hand i would not want to leave the kids with her but there not yours. ... (read in full...)
I need a new me!!!
Q. Might be a superficial question but I'm very down about myself these days. It's because of the way I look and how I think this makes people treat me differently, earlier this week I decided I wanted a change, and I wanted to dye my hair dark instead ...
A. 16 January 2009: theres a website that you can look at its called thehairstyler.com and its virtual hairstyles. you take your pic and then you can see yourself with different styles. short, long, blonde, brown, red ect.. it fun i think its around 15 dollars but its ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. I'm in love with a man and it is not my boyfriend. This man makes me feel like I am on the top of the world, he is a amazing person the thing is he is much older than me and has a girlfriend in his hometown; we live in two different states. The th...
A. 16 January 2009: its sounds like your with the wrong man. if your not in love with your current b/f any more why not let him go? its not fair being with him and your totaly thinking about someone else. ... (read in full...)
What is with exs??
Q. WHY DO EXES ALWAYS....? why do exes always ring you after so long and try to talk to you and wants to get back together?? soo dumb they had their chances and they messed about.. whats up with that? PLEASE ANSWER...??...
A. 16 January 2009: yes its because they took you for granted and thought they were moving on to better things but found out that was not the case.that has happened to me too. i took him back cuz i loved him and wanted to keep my family together but he did it again. i ... (read in full...)
My future husband doesn't know I smoke and I'm scared he will hate me for it
Q. I've been smoking for three years and dating my man for 2 years. he doesn't know that i smoke. I've tried quitting but its so hard because it's my relaxing point. but i'm in love with him and he hates people who smoke. i don't want to tell him ...
A. 16 January 2009: have you tried the patch or the gum? is there anyway you can take your mind off smoking and do something else? i know its hard but when you are a non smoker its terrible being with a smoker. the smell and the smoke on your clothes and hair is a ... (read in full...)
Should I tolerate my husband's infedelity so he won't leave us?
Q. Well.. I have been married to my husband for 8 years and together for 13. We began dating early and got married at 19. We have two young children. He has a relationship with another woman, it's just sex and fun. I don't want him to go and he doesn't ...
A. 16 January 2009: yes it is a mistress. if your okay with it good for you. most of us would have a fit.... (read in full...)
He's stressing me out and I'm pregnant and don't need it! Help!
Q. Okay this is the third bulletin I send out in like less than 5 minutes and I appoligize I just got a lot of problems that i need some sort of opionion from a stranger that is willing to take some sort of time to care, at least a little. Well, Okay.. ...
A. 15 January 2009: Just relax and remember... your baby is stressed when you are stressed. Let it all out and talk to one of us on here. good luck!... (read in full...)
I feel like we have such strong feelings for each other but very confused as to what he is feeling.
Q. I have been getting to know a man for a couple of months. He just got out a relationship recently.(3 months ago) He is a very withdrawn guy but trusted me enough to discuss his feelings with me. I've never met a man who had such strong emotional ...
A. 15 January 2009: he is definetly sending you mixed messages. you need to talk to him by phone or in person and ask him what the heck is going on. tell him you care very deeply for him but your just not sure what to think anymore.if you try to be to pushy you will ... (read in full...)
Length of period?
Q. I just had a question, my dad grew up with sisters, so he knows all about periods and stuff, so it's easy to talk to him about this stuff, but he told me that if I didn't worry about my period or anything, like not be paranoid that the bleeding ...
A. 15 January 2009: yes it varies. im 38 and when i was your age i was on it for about 1 or 2 days. lightly. now that im older its more like a week! its weird for me coz ive never had it this long. i think every lady is different.... (read in full...)
He left me high and dry
Q. i was with a man for 6 years it was good to start and then he would lock himself in the bedroom, only just found out he was on crack,at the beginning he took on my four kids the youngest is 9,so he brought him up for a while.he now lives in my road ...
A. 15 January 2009: you should keep away from him girl. go back to work so you can support your little kids properly. and it will be good for your self esteem. let her have that crack head. you dont want a tweeker around your childern or you anyways! then when you ... (read in full...)
We can't stand each other but I'm addicted to him
Q. I have known this guy for a year and a half now, we've been going as a couple well we suppose to! Anyway during our relationship we broke up so many countless times, we have an arguement or something over very meaningless stuff and then we break up! ...
A. 15 January 2009: i think hes a loser and you deserve better sorry but you asked!! lol... (read in full...)
Three years and he still calls me by HER name
Q. HI. I am having a similar problem to one problem that I just read. My Fiance called me by his ex wives name. AGAIN!!! First time we were in bed in the A.M. and he said "H" go make my coffee. Now my name is "P". Those names are nothing alike. Second ...
A. 15 January 2009: well i dont know about other people but it would get on my nerves. i would make him pay me money everytime he slipped thatll teach him!! lol... (read in full...)
She says if I ever need anything..I want to have sex with her
Q. ok there is this 35 year old mom who lives next to me. her 8 year old son is best friends with my 8 year old brother. we have been neighbors for about 4 1/2 years now. she has always been very nice and really cool. she always says if i ever need ...
A. 15 January 2009: well let her come on to you first.your both adults. if you want to have sex with her you better make sure she wants to have sex with you back. this happen to me many years ago and it made our friendship wierd and we avioded each other afterwards.i ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm cheating and it makes me feel so bad
Q. Hello I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we get along really well, and he is wonderfull with me, however, I am a very outgoing person, and I really like to go to dancing, it is something that I really enjoy, and it is something tha...
A. 15 January 2009: well in my opinion your not cheating. your having fun doing your thing. you realy enjoy dancing and you should continue to do that. if your boyfriend is not upset realx then. when it comes to him being jelouce then he should join you out dancing. ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not!!!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years I'm ready to have a child even get married. He's not! He says he can't see his life without me and doesn't wanna be with anybody else but he won't make a move. I wanna have a baby in two years plan ...
A. 13 January 2009: Well if theres no chance of him marrying you or having a baby with him then why waste anymore of your time? I would give him an ultimatum. Set a time line. It's your life too. Do what makes you happy. Life is short. You're still young but no sense ... (read in full...)
Social issues...
Q. Hey everyone. Ok so I got some social issues. My mom won't allow me to go anywhere with my friends. Not even with my best friend whom I've been friends with for 13 years now and my mother knows her. My mom just won't listen to me so talking won't ...
A. 13 January 2009: Well I'm a mom of a teenager and I'd like to know more about your friends.. maybe there is a reason you're not allowed to hang out with them... I myself don't let my teeneager run around with just anybody. Kids have poor taste in friends sometimes ... (read in full...)
DO you think there is a higher power?
Q. DO you think there is a higher power, that we can use to turn to when our life turns bitter? How can we actually know there is a higher power, if we never actually seen it? How come, some of us can easily believe this higher power thing, and can ...
A. 13 January 2009: Well it's called faith. I myself used to run around with an athiest someone who does not believe in god he had me convinced for years there was no god. Well I was young then and gullible. I know now that there is some higher power working. Look aro... (read in full...)
Weird to be a loner?
Q. I am 20 years old and attending a large public university 7 hours away from home, and I have absolutely no close friends at that school! Is that such a weird thing? I have literally no social life there, and I don't find myself really wanting one ...
A. 13 January 2009: You say you're happy being alone and many people are. They call them hermits. If you get lonely go out and make some friends but if you are truly happy with the way things are then don't worry sbout it. It's just the way you are and it's ok to be ... (read in full...)
I hurt my ex deeply and he doesn't know if he wants to give us another chance
Q. I need lots of answers for this one please.... I am 21 years old and I have met the man of my dreams. Only problem is that I made a mess of the relationship 3 years ago and while we still talk and care about each other, he cant decide whether h...
A. 13 January 2009: well i would say that you cannot make him love you back the way you love him. maybe if you are out of a relationship for awhile he will see that your happiness is not based on rather or not you have a man in your life. you guys can be friends and ... (read in full...)
I never understand someone who can sleep with someone else's partner knowingly. What are they thinking?
Q. My boyfriend had a brief period with this girl but never wanted her as a girlfriend, she was not the nicest person etc and when she eventually got a boyfriend he knew it wouldn't last because of the kind of person she was and he was right. We mee...
A. 13 January 2009: well theres an old saying that people want what they cant have. have you ever noticed that? girls do that because they want to make sure they can get him into bed. it makes them feel good about themselves.there insecure and i call girls like that ... (read in full...)
I let my dream guy go..
Q. Dear Cupid, About a year ago I met the man of my dreams at a wedding I was actually a bridesmaid and he was my groomsmen .. But the thing is I was in a four year relationship with alot of problems..so I broke it off with my boy friend at the ti...
A. 13 January 2009: Well you don't really know him that well to call him your dream guy! You spent one day with him at a wedding. That's good you wrote to him on face book. If he writes you back which he probably will, keep it sweet and friendly. Have a positive ... (read in full...)
I think our 3-some has back fired on us....
Q. Okay my man and I have been together for almost 5 years and we had a threesome a couple of times. It was nice after a while but I got tired of sharing my man to my best friend. Now my man and I have an open relationship and have had it since day 1 ...
A. 13 January 2009: Well not to be mean but that is what you get for sharing your man. Threesomes rarely work out. Someone usually gets jealous and left out, that's why I don't let my boyfriends talk me into them. No way I'm not sharing my man and if he wants that ... (read in full...)
He never loved me and only using me
Q. I am married but had an intense soul connection with someone three years ago. My relationship with my husband is stagnant and he is never available for me, thus, my souls thirst for emotional and spiritual attention and connection. I used to ...
A. 13 January 2009: he sounds like a sex addict. Why are you letting him use you to get off? Next time he calls you tell him you're not interested in being his free prostitute and tell him to go whack off to a porno. Better yet, go see his strippers and get off on ... (read in full...)
Small boobs and flat butt!!! Need help.
Q. I need this help so badly because my wife is so upset about her small boobs and flat butt. Recent few days she feels like so upset with her figure. She also little bulky. So PLEASE NEED ADVICE for this problem. How she can improve her boobs an...
A. 13 January 2009: Well first of all every woman's body is shaped differently. There are bra inserts to make her boobs bigger but has she considered implants? As far as her butt goes there are squat exercises to lift the butt and round it out and if that don't work, ... (read in full...)
21 and never had a date... what is wrong with me?
Q. I am 21 years old and I have never had a date. No one has ever asked me out. The Question which is running into my mind is, is there could be anything wrong with me? Pleaze help. Am worried....
A. 13 January 2009: Maybe you're just shy. If I were shy I would practice my flirting with a girlfriend. If you have female friends ask them for tips on how they approach a boy they like. If you get shot down the first time don't let it discourage you. We all have ... (read in full...)
I just want to know is this wrong?
Q. I am 16 and me and my brother's cousin (my step cousin) really like each other we have not done anything yet. I just want to know is this wrong?...
A. 13 January 2009: I don't know if it's wrong... if it's not a blood relative. If it's blood it's definitely taboo.... (read in full...)
I would really really really like for her to stay skinny as she is!
Q. Hi there. This is my first post, but really there is only one question that has ever been on my mind about my marriage for the last six months. How do I tell my wife that she is developing a gut and that she needs to workout/run? She is smart en...
A. 13 January 2009: well ive heard of alot of couples gaining weight after marriage. yes some woman do let themselves go a bit getting to comfy. but same goes for the men!
my advice is to not talk to her about it. she will tell her friends and they will think your... (read in full...)
My mom will never talk to me again if she knew I need birth control! Help!
Q. Please please help me? My boyfriend and I lost our virginity with eachother a few weeks ago. We have sex quite a lot and we haven't had sex without a condom. We ALWAYS use one. There's no way I can raise a baby. We really want to use birth control. ...
A. 13 January 2009: okay i have a daughter your age so i think i am qualified to answer this.
i do not agree with you having sex at your age. i think you should have waited but you did it and thats that.
your mom needs to wake up and realize that you are sexualy ... (read in full...)
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